well i have met two men from this site. one came over twice, said he was in love with me and wanted to marry me. all of a sudden he feel off the face of the earth when my daughter came over and he saw that i had someone near me. i dont know if he thought he could use me for money or what. i really dont understand. saw that someone else commented on him but they would not let me see what she said.
the other man, i found out was gay after dating him for about two years and driving four hours to see him each time. he then told me that he said upfront he didnt want a relationship. bull. he never said any such thing and not only that, then why was he on this dating line?

I've been on here for a long time and found that even those that claim they "happen to like BBW" feel free to treat us badly. I've had enough of lies about who and what they are, empty promises, false hope, etc. I honestly don't know why I even try anymore.

Oh Chubbynfunny, you shouldn't feel bad. I'm 5ft 3 and a size 18. As far as these BBW sites go we are not that big and I've seen many women on this site that are larger than us and far more beautiful than many small size women (and many that are even more beautiful than me and I'm cute although I probably sound vain saying it). HE WAS A JERK! Don't feel bad it just takes time to find someone rite for you. I've had quite a few replies from nice guys on here and other sites but it's a long hard search when you have as big a playing field as the internet.

That guy was a HUGE loser. And, there are some nice guys out here/there. I'm sure Karma will bite him in the butt and some woman he is interested in will tell him he's too old, young, short, tall, stupid or ugly and he can take a hike!

Well I married my ex when she was 5'7 and 180lbs and I thought she ws built very nice...evev at 230 I remained attracted to her

I think a full body picture in good lighting will go a long way towards weeding out people who arent serious --- if the site is based on a body type show it --- some women are larger than others and built differently as well

Show your build to make it clear =)

Above all, that guy was an idiot for even saying "fat"

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You should take comfort in the fact that hes a complete moron. 18? "fat"? who does he think he is, Brad Pitt? you can do way better girl! Chin up!

I do not think a size 18 is fat, especially being that you're 5'9. I am 5'7 and a size 22, so I would love to be as small as you are. I, too, have talked to guys that think BBW stands for Big Breasted Women...just my luck, that's one of the smaller parts of my body, lol! Don't let that guy get you down. Keep your chin up! I've only been here a short time and there seem to be some great people here...more great people than ignorant ones, so enjoy yourself!

I hope there are some! I'm in Perth though, and all my friends tell me that the men in Perth are...well...lol. We should maybe go for a night out in Dundee some time!! :) And don't worry, the right guy will come along for you!

Hi...... it is just my opinion but I do believe the pic is very important. It was really hard for me to post mine in the beginning but I knew I had to... I also do not send any winks.... that again is just me but by doing that I know whoever responds to me... found something about me they liked and that is not a bad place to start.. I think. I have not met anyone from here yet.. but have met a few from some other sites and I did tell them upfront exactly how big I am as I would be very afraid to meet otherwise...... I have been chatting/emailing and talking on the phone with someone from very far away but I did send him pics and he does seems so very nice. He is coming here (Jersey) in April so hopefully everything will work out..... best to all....smiles, me

Add a bloody photo then!

I don't know if men here are real or not since I have probably sent 80 email to men and gotten no responses from them.

I have had the same experience. I am a 16 Womens or an 18 womens. Men who like thin to average women tell me I am huge and men who like bbw tell me that I am too small for them. go figure...

I think EVERYBODY but especially women should correspond/phone a prospective date before meeting them, for security if nothing else. Also it's important to post a recent , possibly unflattering pic of yourself so that everybody knows whats what.If you look at my pic for example you could never tell how devastatingly handsome I really am lol!

Well unfortunately there are just as many shallow guys and girls on bbw sites as any other sites, but there are plenty of people on here who will accept you for who you are.

I chatted with a guy from this site who thought BBW stood for Big Breasted Women. He turned out to be a real jerk so I had great pleasure in telling him what it really stood for. For some reason, he didn't find it quite as funny as I did and is no longer on largefriends

I would suggest posting some pictures on your profile so they will know exactly what you look like to avoid this in the future (hopefully).

I live in north central PA and I find alot of guy around here think BBW stands for Big Busted Women. when i tell them it stands for Big Beautiful Women, they get rude

Hi, there are many of us who Love large size women. Why would someone come to Largefriends looking for a slim woman? I'd Love to chat with you sometime you need to know how wonderful a sexy fluffy girl is.