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Posted on Mon, Dec 12, 2005 09:32

I HAVE BEEN ON THIS SITE FOR 2 YEARS AND I DO LIKE IT TO CHAT TO PEOPLE BUT WHY DO MEN PUT ON THERE PROFILES THAT THEY ARE LOOKING FOR ROMANCE ETC BUT THEN TELL YOU THEY HAVE ISSUES WITH ALL THAT A RELATIONSHIP INVOLVES IF THEY DON
T WANT A RELATIONSHIP THEY HAVE THE OPPORTUNITY TO PUT THAT. IF THEY ARE MESSED UP IN THE HEAD OR THERE LIFE IS COMPLICATED WHY AN EARTH ARE THEY ON HERE LOOKING FOR ROMANCE SURELY YOU SORT OUT PROBLEMS THEN DECIDE TO DATE AGAIN OR AM I WRONG ?



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Posted on Mon, Dec 12, 2005 12:40

Well, I think part of the problem lies in what people define as "dating". For some, it's barely more than a friends with benefits, to others, a much more serious commitment.

I know when I was first separated, casual dating at first actually helped me identify some of the issues I had, which enabled me to heal and grow, and be ready for a good relationship when it came. I was always very upfront about what I meant by "dating" though.

Then again, maybe they just don't want to come out and say they want friends with benefits.



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