Amen, mynameislu! I could not agree more. My motto - live your life as if no one's looking. LOL People can only makes us feel as bad as we let them make us feel. LOL does that make sense? Too many drinks and a keyboard with a forum do not mix. LOL :-) Gotta love a dirty martini with extra olives. LMAO~
The KBtoyz coming atcha live and 3:46 am est and I feel all alone!!! LOL! I just crack myself UP!
I'm happy.. I took a year off the whole dating thing to improve upon myself .. it was good you dont NEED someone to BE happy. It's odd how some people would rather give us a fricking inferiority complex and slap us on a fatkins diet rather than letting someone he happy with their own self image.
Be who you are, no one else is more qualified to be you than you.
TallTricia, I'm with you.. I've stopped basing my happiness on everyone else. I live my life, and if someone happens to come into it, then great.. if not, I'm ok to be alone, with my dog of course. He loves it, he gets a whole acre of that king size bed - he hates to share it with anyone, including the cat! LOL
Hey Loverplump, I did get your email but I'm not a paid member so I can't respond.... Are we allowed to ever give our email addresses in the forums or not folks? ;) And loverplump, I'm not sad, I was just commenting on all the sad threads in the forums...
Nice to find the forum and I hope to make some new friends. :)
I'm happy too! When I finally realized that it's not others or things that make one happy - it is up to our own selves to do it - then my life changed!! There are always two ways to look at any situation - I choose to put a positive spin on just about everything. This doesn't mean I don't hold a "pity fest" for myself every once and awhile - but they sure don't last any longer than it takes to grab a shower and make a plan!
Have a great Friday everyone!
loveherplump's profile definitely made me smile....I had to look at those pictures several times.....they all look so different - - I don't think you look like the same person in any of those. Must be easy for you to go "incognito". LOL
But, yeah - - my kids make me smile; music makes me smile; funny jokes; babies; and kittens....awwww.....see - - look how much I smile --->
I too am happy -- happy with who I have become, my life, all I have accomplished and the friends and family I have collected along the way. Not that I don't have a bad day here and there and struggle to survive this world and all the shallowness and ugliness in it.
I have always been a believer in that unless you find the happiness and beauty in yourself, you can't really find it in another.
And it does too make me a little sad to read some of these threads and see all these beautiful women on here sad and depressed and thinking love from another will complete them and make them happy. But life is a journey and the path to find happiness is an arduous one. Keep the faith!