Thank you, Cindi, gurl.....I know what I have to offer.....I'm pretty sick of kissing toads.............LMAO. And yes, if you're reading this and you think I mean you, you're probably right...eh hem.....um hmm!!
Yes, NEVA - - you are so right! I stopped looking - - I had my profile hid for quite a while. I'm still not actively "looking" - - especially on the net,'cause I just don't think it's gonna happen like that. But, I am just keeping my focus on my family and if it happens, it happens. It would be nice, but I have no complaints in my life so I will keep smiling and enjoying what I do have and not focus on what I don't.
same thing happened to me sort of.was with my fella for 3 1/2 months and he says to me 'oh im meeting up with someone off the internet shes just a friend' next thing i know im dumped and hes havin a relation ship with her, so yes you had every right to be annoyed, and congrats on leavin him, the toad
TIFFIE - Always do what you feel is the right thing for you. No one really could say your decision was right or wrong, especially not knowing you guys. I will say this though, it's impossible to keep your "significant" other from speaking to others of the opposite sex. There's nothing wrong with people having friends and if you trust your man, why not? You may end up with a good friend as well. Now, is he sneaking off having "private conversations" or hanging up every time you walk in the room? That may leave room for questioning. HA! Girl - - you're young. Have fun. Do not sweat the small stuff!
I was wondering if you could help a young girl figure something out...
I was with someone for year and then he started to talk to other girls on the telphone, and when i made a comment that i didnt like it, he still did so, so i left, was it wrong of me to be upset with my boyfriend ( at the time) talking to other girls on the phone??
Thanks for the words my friends. I'm technically "not looking", but hoping. Some days, I think - - I'm just gonna chill and the right one will cross my path. Then I think, damn that - - I'm not just gonna sit by and stagnate, so I think it's better to take the initiative and get out there. AND THEN I get sick of all the casual dating. So, I'm currently in the mind set of "saving it up....." HARDY HAR HAR for the right one. So, can I just say this: abstinence s-u-c-k-s! LMAO
Heya Diva... Like Jack said , it will happen when you least expect it too. That is what happened for me. It has been a wild ride for the last few months. but hey it is well worth it. remember to keep smiling you never know who is watching