First off, let me say, normally I don't bother going back to the very beginning of a chain. This one certainly had me going back to the begging, and it needed to be done. Wow.
Well, my apology for cursing in my second point, and further down the message is popping up a warning message, so I've cleaned it up (kinda).
What a sick knob (please use a more colourfull word starting with the letter F) someone would have to be to have this kind of fetish. I find it, and it sounds like a lot of others agree, hard to believe.
This is one guy, and any others in the same boat for that matter, I hope never finds a mate (and I do not like to be negative).
Hmm I g**gled it and all I found was cattle feed and bird houses LoL.. I do think that just hearing of it tho.. It sounds like maybe these were people.. That were already extreamly heavy.. And just gave into the idea of.. Why not I'm already huge.. That and then the idea of haveing some one too.. Reguardless of weather its really unhealthey..
Saw a talk show late late in the night about this very thing. I don't even remember who the host was. Anyway, the women on this show were well overweight and were into the feeder/feedee thing. They all stated they wanted to be huge. So huge they couldn't walk. I remember one stating she wanted her belly to drag the ground. How sick is this? But I guess the moral is, there are women out there that do adhere to this fetish as well as men. As for myself, the guy I'd been seeing for about 9 months likes his women to be 500-600 pounds. He states this in his profile right here on this site. He hadn't stated this when I met him. He's changed the profile over and over again. I too have argued the point with him that this just isn't right. That it just simply isn't healthy for him to want his women to be this large. He even went so far as to ask me if I'd gain weight. I told him under no circumstances would I deliberately gain weight just to boost his sexual fetish bullsh*t along. Anway, my 2 cents.
I agree with you that everyone has a choice, but that choice is not easy for everyone. When you couple a low self-esteem with a lonely heart and a manupulative partner, things like this happen often. There's not much difference in this and the 105lb girl who starves herself because her bf keeps telling her she's fat. She is just as proud of her body during the few times her bf says she's beautiful. Sometimes the need to be loved seems much greater than the need to stay healthy. Thank God my self esteem is better than that, but I can empathize with these girls, and they really do need counseling.
The problem is a bit more complex than simply saying no. Feeders play on a persons insecurities...someone so desperate for love and acceptance they will destroy themselves in order to get it. I daresay there may be a few women who choose that lifestyle and then find a feeder, but that is not normally the case.
Wow, this sure got alot of drama. I never ever heard of this practice before, until tonight. Against my best judgment I g@@gled it, and actually what I feared was seeing women held in chains, or bond,age that were force fed food until they were immobile. That was not what I witnessed on g@@gle. I seen a woman that was very proud of her ever growing huge distorted body. I did not see a victim here at all. I seen grown adults that have given up sanity, and given in to a self gratifying, self serving, self indulgent life style. The same gluttonous life style practiced by people all over the the USA. Just when we thought it was safe to go into the refrigerator!!! I seen no difference between the gluttonous woman, the drunkard, the drug abuser, or any one of the other "7 deadly sins". Pride, Greed, Envy, Anger, Lust, Gluttony, and Sloth. There are no victims, these were adults. There is help for low self esteem, or they can make a conscious decision to take the self loathing approach and eat until their guts burst or heart fails. Feeders/Feedees it's all twisted. This is such a BLAME society that this has to be somebody Else's fault. We refuse to believe that these women could be capable of saying no, walking away from the food, or getting help to over come what issues they may face. There are no victims as long as we have a choice. IMHO MsPetticoat!
Hey KB, I think the kind of people who would allow themselves to be abused like that is someone who's self esteem is lower then a snakes belly ... someone who is "thankful" that someone is interested in them and gives them the "love" they crave for ... its sick and twisted and I have stipulated that to the couple of guys I know who love women that are so large, they would take up a two seater sofa !!! I keep reminding them that their fetish is someone elses death sentence
when the flag is nothing but that symbol, its the confederate flag. The state of Georgia uses it as an inset because it was part of the Southern Confederacy and proud of it back in the day. However, the confederate flag -as it is on the freaks picture - is now usually associated with racism.