so far on here i have had some people build my self esteme a lil but....ehhhh i was hoping for some good conversaions and friendships? maybe i am not that actice on here but.... what else can ya do. people i meet in person love me usualy but on here? eep! i am outgoing and all but i find it difficult online? ehh back to the bars i guess? but in the end i always get hurt. ehh i can't win!
Angiebunny, you can't fix him. He is showing you his real self. He was only nice the first time so that he could get into your pants. Since he got what he wanted, he no longer feels the need to hide and is now being himself. Just because he got out of a bad relationship should not excuse him from treating you with disrespect.
You want the "first" man, but unfortunately, that man does not exist. Don't give your heart to a man because of who you want him to be. I read a saying once that said, "When a person shows you what they are really like, believe them". For your own sake, you might want to heed this warning so that you can be saved alot of heartache.
I have to agree I didnt see anything about an age thing here, but anyways ... ;)
I think finding a good person thats compatible with you is hard no matter what medium we use ... bars ... shopping, thru a friend, online... its all the same altho online is a little more dicey, however you can still find just as big a schmuck in real life as u can online ... I am 36 and still single and to tell you the truth, LOVE it ... but thats just me, I dont have time for all the BS that goes along with getting to now a person and their baggage and then have it go to crap all over again (funny how people with baggage give you baggage!! lol) .... live for today ... wake up tomorrow and do it again ... I am not looking for a relationship on here or anywhere...am on here for the chats and stuff, so keep doing that too even if you dont find someone .. and even if you do ...still stick around ...
Hey I wasnt knocking on age. I still go to my mom becaues she knows best (dont tell her that). I am also more attracted to older guys. I was talking about some of the people (no matter the age) who are now no longer posting becaues they dont have time or they have meet that one person. I have to remember that online is so different, I have to not let my personality come out to much becaues you cant hear it.
And a guy who starts to talk down to you is not a keeper. No matter how nice he was at first. I know this from a relationship I was in. But if you feel that maybe he is just trying to show you that he is "the man" then talk to him about it. Tell him that that is not what you want or what you are looking for. This usually helps.
[Oh and stay away from bar romance. They are killers.
well i have met this one guy. i can't figure him out as usual so i tried not to even worry about it. but now.... he bugs me all the time. the problem is .... he was nice as pie when i met him and now, he talks to me is stupid...almost degrading lines like he is trying to be all hard or something? from what i hear he just got out of a long term relationship and that isn't the "real him"? i dunno what to do tho. i think i would like the guy i met the 1st night but, sadly it turned to a physical thing (which i was ok with b/c i thought hey.... guys do this to girls all the time and not care) and i think he thinks i prefer someone talking to me like an object? it is probably my fault but...ehhh how do you fix it?
Hey dont worry people will start talking. I am seeing a lot of the older people leaving and a lot of us new people are starting to get active. So I think in time we will all become fast friend...if we take the time to talk to each other. Hope your quest goes well. Oh and stay away from bar romance. They are killers.