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Posted on Mon, Oct 24, 2005 05:26

because its something that is DEFINATELY good foundations for starting something new ... as I keep reading through these Threads and posts, it seems that so many people are dissapointed when a meeting with someone off this site, or any other doesnt work out .....

Meeting in person is WAY different to first meeting online .... its only when you are face to face with that person, do I think the chemistry kicks in ... and i mean REALLY kicks in .... so no matter how nice someone seems ... how pretty or handsome you find someone .... in the end, in person, if the chemistry isnt there, its ok to be a little dissapointed, but thats just how the cookie crumbles, the chemistry may be one sided at times, but both people have to feel it to make it really work I think ....

So to all you people out there desperately looking for love .... I do hope you find it, but I hope you dont "just settle" , I hope that when you finally find that someone one, its explosive !!! and in the nicest possible way of course
because its something that is DEFINATELY good foundations for starting something new ... as I keep reading through these Threads and posts, it seems that so many people are dissapointed when a meeting with someone off this site, or any other doesnt work out .....

Meeting in person is WAY different to first meeting online .... its only when you are face to face with that person, do I think the chemistry kicks in ... and i mean REALLY kicks in .... so no matter how nice someone seems ... how pretty or handsome you find someone .... in the end, in person, if the chemistry isnt there, its ok to be a little dissapointed, but thats just how the cookie crumbles, the chemistry may be one sided at times, but both people have to feel it to make it really work I think ....

So to all you people out there desperately looking for love .... I do hope you find it, but I hope you dont "just settle" , I hope that when you finally find that someone one, its explosive !!! and in the nicest possible way of course

  


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Posted on Fri, Nov 18, 2005 12:05

I flunked chemistry.. this is a bad sign no?

  
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Posted on Thu, Nov 10, 2005 23:10

Would have been hit you up Strive but your so far away.



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Posted on Thu, Nov 10, 2005 14:44

Do I believe in chemistry? Oh God yes! And I miss it. Waking up with a smile on your face, loss of appetite, head in the clouds. I can't wait to get it back. When initially it's real, how in the world do we lose it?

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Posted on Sun, Nov 06, 2005 17:36

Hi Rockchick,
Thank you so much for your words of encouragement.I live an alternative lifestyle and it is very difficult to meet that special someone.I have always been up front with my personality for that very reason .To find someone who will not only love me but respect me for who I am.You must love yourself for who you are so that others may love you clearly.Best wishes to all in finding your true love.Special thanks to "Theo"whose words of encourgement and wisdom have made me re-evaulate myself today.Now,everyone go and hug someone!!

  


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Posted on Sat, Nov 05, 2005 17:57

Without the chemistry and connection..you won't get far enough into it to share ideas, interests, etc etc.
Something has to spark first to make you both WANT to find out more about each other.
Just my take on the chemistry thingee

  


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Posted on Sat, Nov 05, 2005 11:46

Chemistry, to me, cannot be what makes a relationship work;regretfully, as with any chemical reaction, a relationship based solely on chemistry will likely find failure as a result sooner or later (sooner if one is lucky!; it's wonderful to have chemistry with someone, but it's awesome to have someone with whom you share interests ideas, goals and beliefs.


Chris



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Posted on Sat, Nov 05, 2005 09:20

Oh yeah, it's all about chemistry. I have to click with the guy. If I don't, then it can't go anywhere. There has to be that spark, you know? I've only felt that twice before but of course I wasn't their type (physically) so nothing happened. *boo hoo* So Freysh, you haven't heard from the Prince in a couple days? Well, try not to get too discouraged by it. Your relationship is pretty new so maybe he doesn't realize that you want to be a serious call-each other-every-day or every other day kind of couple. I'm not a "phone person" myself so any guy who gets involved with me will have be cool with not hearing from me for days at a time. lol! I have a life to live, I can't waist time with my ear glued to the phone.



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Posted on Thu, Nov 03, 2005 06:26

Freysh wrote:
Thanks Cindi,

I might make him post in here so that you guys can scope him out for me lol.


OOOH!


Do we get to do the online equivalent of the "we love Freya, and right now, since you make her happy, we love you by default, but farq it up and hurt her, and you will wish you were never born?" speech?



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Posted on Wed, Nov 02, 2005 18:06

Chemistry is definitely important, however, far too often people think that right when they meet someone the chemistry should just hit them smack in the face ... hypothetically speaking that is.

That's not necessarily true though in reality. If a person is nervous or otherwise not at a point when they can just be themself around someone then you may inaccurately think there's no chemistry when there might be just the person isn't being themselves out of nervousness or etc. So chemistry is important, but don't be so quick to write someone off if you and them meet and don't automatically "click". Especially if it's someone you met online and are meeting for the first time. I don't care if you've chatted online, talked on the phone, or etc. they might not be able to just be themselves when you first meet.

Just keep that in mind folks.

  


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Posted on Sat, Oct 29, 2005 12:28

Ahhhhhhh yes Rockchic...... I agree totally ......gotta have that chemistry!

Freysh........... please do be careful with that guy.......and I do wish u the very best whatever u decide........ smiles, me
Ahhh yes Rockchic...... I agree totally ......gotta have that chemistry!

Freysh........... please do be careful with that guy.......and I do wish u the very best whatever u decide........ smiles, me



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Posted on Fri, Oct 28, 2005 09:10

Hey Freysh... I thought it was all over with him ...?
Hey Freysh... I thought it was all over with him ...?



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Posted on Tue, Oct 25, 2005 19:16

Yeah it sux when it was there in the beggining and then everything turns to crap :( but at least it was there in the first place ... and whatever happens after that ...well ....

I think the main point I am trying to make is that it has to be coming from both parties for anything remotely successful can start, sure it would be dissapointing for the person who is feeling it to be let down, but its better than going into something half a$$ed only for heartache in the end ... and in saying that, I made the mistake with my last BF ... in ONE area the chemistry was explosive ... in the bedroom only .... everywhere else was crud, and I KNEW that in the beggining, something was amiss ... but I thought "ahhh it will be ok, he is at least great in bed!!" but in the end I ended up losing ... if I had of gone with the gut instinct in the beggining and let him down gently ... then I would be financially and emotionally better off today !! stoopid me .. lol
Yeah it sux when it was there in the beggining and then everything turns to crap :( but at least it was there in the first place ... and whatever happens after that ...well ....

I think the main point I am trying to make is that it has to be coming from both parties for anything remotely successful can start, sure it would be dissapointing for the person who is feeling it to be let down, but its better than going into something half a$$ed only for heartache in the end ... and in saying that, I made the mistake with my last BF ... in ONE area the chemistry was explosive ... in the bedroom only .... everywhere else was crud, and I KNEW that in the beggining, something was amiss ... but I thought "ahhh it will be ok, he is at least great in bed!!" but in the end I ended up losing ... if I had of gone with the gut instinct in the beggining and let him down gently ... then I would be financially and emotionally better off today !! stoopid me .. lol

  


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Posted on Tue, Oct 25, 2005 19:13

I had chemistry once. Til I found out Einstein was using his test tube in laboritories near and far......
I had chemistry once. Til I found out Einstein was using his test tube in laboritories near and far......



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Posted on Tue, Oct 25, 2005 04:56

What happens when the chemistry is there and they vanish tho? LOL Sorry was having a moment....

Um yeah chemistry is what it's ALL about... I dont care if we "think" we'll be good together... it's either there... or it isn't.
What happens when the chemistry is there and they vanish tho? LOL Sorry was having a moment....

Um yeah chemistry is what it's ALL about... I dont care if we "think" we'll be good together... it's either there... or it isn't.



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Posted on Mon, Oct 24, 2005 16:02

I used to have a chemistry set....blew up my brothers chest of drawers....sigh.
Needless to say my dad took it away and I haven't had any chemistry since then.
I used to have a chemistry set....blew up my brothers chest of drawers....sigh.
Needless to say my dad took it away and I haven't had any chemistry since then.

  


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Posted on Mon, Oct 24, 2005 14:13

I ONLY believe in chemistry. Backgrounds, shared interests, shared beliefs? a Jedi cares not for these things.

If there's no chemistry then it's just a waste of time.
I ONLY believe in chemistry. Backgrounds, shared interests, shared beliefs? a Jedi cares not for these things.

If there's no chemistry then it's just a waste of time.



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Posted on Mon, Oct 24, 2005 06:53

I agree, Rockchic, if there's no chemistry, it won't last. There has to be a comfort with each other... one where you enjoy even the quiet moments.

I'm looking for that chemistry that I just don't feel complete if I'm not with him. Not that I need to be with someone 24/7... but someone that I can't wait to see at the end of the day. Someone that it just feels right to be in the same room as he is even if we're not talking. I know... may seem like too much, but I know it's out there... somewhere...
I agree, Rockchic, if there's no chemistry, it won't last. There has to be a comfort with each other... one where you enjoy even the quiet moments.

I'm looking for that chemistry that I just don't feel complete if I'm not with him. Not that I need to be with someone 24/7... but someone that I can't wait to see at the end of the day. Someone that it just feels right to be in the same room as he is even if we're not talking. I know... may seem like too much, but I know it's out there... somewhere...



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Posted on Mon, Oct 24, 2005 05:28

Chemistry and connection...both necessary for a great relationship... in my opinion
Chemistry and connection...both necessary for a great relationship... in my opinion

  


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