Friends Only Question Friendship

  • View author's info Author posted on Oct 21, 2005 at 15:51


    Why is that that men don't read the profile first before emailing or winking? It's frustrating because, at another site, I get about 15-20 new messages per day and all of them say stuff about getting together and building a relationship and/or looking for fun-sex??? I never reply or wink until I know who I am winking at.

    Does anyone else feel frustrated w/ this?

    Misty
    Why is that that men don't read the profile first before emailing or winking? It's frustrating because, at another site, I get about 15-20 new messages per day and all of them say stuff about getting together and building a relationship and/or looking for fun-sex??? I never reply or wink until I know who I am winking at.

    Does anyone else feel frustrated w/ this?

    Misty
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  • View author's info posted on Oct 23, 2005 at 13:17


    I understand completely. My first message was from a man that lives in the same city and wanted to meet for coffee and sex. Mind you, he was married. Almost all of my messages have been this way. My profile is very specific in what I am looking for - friends only.
    I understand completely. My first message was from a man that lives in the same city and wanted to meet for coffee and sex. Mind you, he was married. Almost all of my messages have been this way. My profile is very specific in what I am looking for - friends only.
  • View author's info posted on Oct 23, 2005 at 12:08


    It is rather frustrating, Misty.. which is why i posted a thread to that effect in another forum.

    BTW.. are you a plus size model cause those pics are definitely model material
    It is rather frustrating, Misty.. which is why i posted a thread to that effect in another forum.

    BTW.. are you a plus size model cause those pics are definitely model material
  • View author's info posted on Oct 23, 2005 at 11:42


    Welcome,Misty! Unfortunately, most of the men online do not bother to read profiles. They strictly go by pictures. It is really sad because they are most likely passing up on the right person for them because they did not take a few minutes to see what a woman is all about. It is just a by-product of being online. Good luck!
    Welcome,Misty! Unfortunately, most of the men online do not bother to read profiles. They strictly go by pictures. It is really sad because they are most likely passing up on the right person for them because they did not take a few minutes to see what a woman is all about. It is just a by-product of being online. Good luck!
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