I don't know the last time I felt truly relaxed. I felt okay travelling down to Yorkshire the other day, had some good tunes on my Walkman, didn't feel nervous at all but it wasn't really the same as being relaxed. To me "relaxed" is being content with life and having nothing worrying on your mind and it's a few years since I felt that way.
Well, work or my child is what usually stresses me out. I usually like to go for a ride with the radio blaring, doesn't really matter which kind, either old rock and roll or some old motown. I have about an hour ride home from work, so by the time I get home, I'm good to go.