how do women want to be treated? Romance

  • View author's info Author posted on Sep 26, 2005 at 06:23


    after looking thru profiles, it has occurred to me:

    since i am a male and have no previous experience with dating, i'm not sure how to treat a woman "how a woman should be treated"

    anyone have advice?
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  • View author's info posted on Oct 04, 2005 at 20:33


    Theo,
    Maybe thats why the second date never happens.....also a crash helmet would help.
  • View author's info posted on Oct 04, 2005 at 16:23


    I never go much of anywhere that I don't drive. And especially if I'm just meeting someone. I like to be in control of the pilot's seat. LOL!!
  • View author's info posted on Oct 04, 2005 at 15:12


    Hmmm... that's a good one. I was always throwing them to the curve and driving off with lots of wheelspin.

    Nice tip there Dee ;-)
  • View author's info posted on Oct 04, 2005 at 14:55


    Ok, this may sound really insignificant.....but it's one of things that bugs me if it's not done, and really, it likely falls under "good manners".

    If you are on a date, and you are driving; when you drop her off, if you are not going inside with her, at least wait till she gets inside the door to drive away.
  • View author's info posted on Oct 04, 2005 at 12:30


    MUSICNUT : I hear you !!!
    NOTHING iratates me more ,or will end a dating realtionship faster for me than when out in public with a guy and no one can tell we are together unless they see us getting out of the car together. I just recently dated a guy 4 weeks and ended it. He had women flirting with hm all the time ( he was sexy) because they did not know we were toghether. He didnt hold my hand, (only in the car or in the dark movie theater) didnt walk beside me
    didnt hold doors, and some times didnt talk to me when we stood in line for something. He would talk to ohter people sometimes but not me Until we where alone. then he laughe and joked with me and cut up. but not in public.
    I love it when someone recognizes me in public. lets others know they are with me. And it seems like he enjoys my company and wants to be with me.
  • View author's info posted on Oct 04, 2005 at 04:15



    Theophrastus write:
    Treat 'em mean and keep 'em keen


    LMAO ... and when you marry us we LOVE to be kept barefoot and pregnant and in the kitchen catering to your every need!
  • View author's info posted on Oct 03, 2005 at 21:33



    Rainnestorm write:

    Music I use to see this guy who treated me like a queen with I was with him it was when I wasn't that there was a problem. Seemed to forget I was alive, 13 years later he treats his daughter the sameway.



    I understand that into a serious relationship, but when dating... nothing is more frustrating to me than to be taken somewhere and then left alone while he 'mingles' or hangs out with the guys, or watches TV, or walks 3 feet ahead of you, or walks through a door before you leaving you to grab it for yourself, or or or or or or or...
  • View author's info posted on Oct 03, 2005 at 17:11


    If you have to ask how a woman wants to be treated then you haven't taken enough time to get to know them as a person first!
  • View author's info posted on Sep 27, 2005 at 16:23


    Yes all this advise is true. Good manners I feel is the most important. Be on time, hold open the door, call if you say you are going to...etc. I think this is respect in the highest degree. Be honest, if she is not for you, tell her, don't leave her hanging.
  • View author's info posted on Sep 26, 2005 at 22:16


    treat us with respect and as an equal.
    and ask for our opinion and then LISTEN !!
    dont assume anything!!! Find out what we like and remember, its important to us.
    Its the little things that count. Most guys dont pay attention to the little things. They are into the big picture and we are into all the details.But most of all be yourself, dont lie, or exaggerate and BE NICE.!!!!
  • View author's info posted on Sep 26, 2005 at 10:10


    Personally I would like to be treated like a human being. Treat women like you want to be treated and you should be fine.
    Music I use to see this guy who treated me like a queen with I was with him it was when I wasn't that there was a problem. Seemed to forget I was alive, 13 years later he treats his daughter the sameway.
  • View author's info posted on Sep 26, 2005 at 07:08



    mrniceguy2005 write:
    after looking thru profiles, it has occurred to me:

    since i am a male and have no previous experience with dating, i'm not sure how to treat a woman "how a woman should be treated"

    anyone have advice?



    Take it from a woman of age and experience...

    It totally depends on the kind of woman you are interested in. If you want a woman that treats you with respect and passion... treat her the same. Don't take her for granted and be honest. Most women like to be treated like we are the most important thing in your life when you are with us. Don't take us some place and forget we're with you. I could go on and on... but I'm sure you'll get more feed back than you even want. lol
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