how do i load a photo onto this site? i see a lot of people saying that it is helpful in finding a match

also... how exactly do i go about using this site? i paid so i can email people, do i email asking to chat or meet or what?

sorry i'm a total newbie to both dating and this site

take it easy everyone

Hi Nice Guy...
To post a piccie, go to your account, and it should tell you how to do it there.
To e mail others, have a look through the profiles, and when you find someone you might like to talk to, just scroll to the bottom of the profile, and it says ....send this member a wink, or send this person an e mail....Its simple once you get the hang of it..Good Luck