I USE A LOT OF BBW SITES AND I AM AMAZED AT THE AMOUNT OF BBW
S WHO ARE UNHAPPY WITH THE WAY THEY ARE.THE AVERAGE SIZE NOW OF THE AVERAGE WOMAN IS A SIZE 16, IN BBW TERMS THAT IS SMALL.SOCIETY SAYS WE SHOULD BE GORGEOUS THIN AND IF YOUR FAT YOUR LAZY EAT ALLDAY.WELL THIS BBW IS A FIT BIRD I GO TO GYM 3 TIMES A WEEK AND HAVE A GORGEOUS PERSONAL TRAINER (MMMM), I SWIM AT LEAST TWICE A WEEK AND IM A CHAMBERMAID IN A CASTLE WHICH IS A VERY PHYSICAL JOB IM A SIZE 28 AND AROUND 19/20 STONE.
LIKE THEY SAY IF WE ALL LOOKED THE SAME HOW SAD WOULD THAT BE?
I HAVE MET LOADS OF BBWS FROM ROOM MEETS ETC AND THERE SENSE OF HUMOUR IS WONDERFUL, AND BELIEVE IT OR NOT LOADS OF GUYS DO LIKE THE BIGGER LADY AND VICE VERSA SO COME ON GALS AND BOYS LOVE YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE NOT WHAT SOCIETY EXPECTS.
Hello beautiful BB Girly i just wanted to say that you are beautiful & that im truly interested in you so please call me & step out on faith & recieve your blessed man that is in me....Much Love "Shondell" Bka "Chief" of the singing group 4-Play...
I started working out when I started college. I figured 18 was too young to be on cholesterol and blood pressure medicine. I started working out with my sister 4 times a week and serious dieting. I lost about 50 lbs in 5 months and have stayed there ever since. I am currently a size 16. I have just started working out again since my weight has started going up again though. I also have started showing signs of having the same degenerative spine disorder that my father has. I need to stay in shape to keep my spine as healthy as possible. So I work out now about 4 times a week for an hour doing a mix of yoga, pilates, kickboxing, taebo, and hip hop dance. It is really fun and very aerobic. I am feeling better and my posture is improving already. Size doesn't matter...your health is what matters most.
i personally am pretty happy the way i am.
yes there are odd days were i wish i was thinner, try working in a clothes shop full of skinny girls!!
im between a size 18/24, depending on were i buy my clothes and how they fit.
im a big girl, always have been.
if anyone says to me the word exercise, diet, healthy i say stop swearing at me!!
i am who i am, end of.
my attitude is if you dont like what you see dont look, some say its a good attitude to have, others say it isnt.
my friend keeps trying to drill into me be loud and proud!!
im slowly getting there i promice!!
Wow interesting topic.....me personally I am fine with the way I look I have discovered no matter how big or small you are you are always going to want to be smaller. I am currently a 18 but would like to be like a 14 but face it this sista like to eat and it just isnt going to work. So I said all this to say be who you are if you don't like being big do something about.....
you know i can't stand the skinny girls who are on a mission to get everybody around them in shape. you know, the ones who eat a pea for lunch and eat nothing the rest of the day for fear of gaining a half ounce? I am a BBW who used to work in long term care (VERY Physical) and now work in a Doctor's office. people who thing that BBW's are all sloppy lazy people really need to wake up and smell the coffee. most of these Skinny girls are worse off health wise than we are, for the simple fact they think they can eat whatever they want and starve themselves for days on end, thinking they are healthy because they weigh 90 lbs. it's all about balance. I have a thyroid condition which contributes to my weight problem, amoung other health problems. why is it america as a whole is scared of becoming fat, yet scientists and doctors say we're getting fatter every year??? its enough to make one sick.
All of this talk about people's fitness routines have inspired me to pull out my aerobic and yoga tapes and get to action. While I am content mentally with my physical size, I have been told by my doctor that I need to lose weight or I may develop chronic illnesses such as high blood pressure, heart disease and diabetes.
Thank you all for posting here. You are inspiring me.
I eat as healthy as i can and exercise on a regular basis. I don't do it to be a smaller person and take up less space, I do it to be healthy and to enjoy life as long as I can.I try not to conform to society's standards.I'm a size 24 and by my doctor the healthiest I've ever been! I've done the crash diets, considered the bypass surgery,and have yo-yoed back and forth for years!! I started (the healthy alternative) about a year ago! I feel like a million bucks!!!
I agree with you about it being easier said than done when it comes to others reacting negatively or having rude comments. I have been overweight since the 2nd grade and it is not going to change. I used to internalize all the rudeness from people, but no more. When people make nasty comments, if you accept it, it is the same as allowing someone to dump their trash on your living room floor. I fight back. Nobody is perfect....nobody. If you look at someone long enough you will find something.....and I will point out their flaws and get on their level. Then they usually back down in shock. I don't know why people think they have the right to dump on people. And furthermore, I think some of these little skinny women are that way because they have to eat their own cooking, lol.
Well it's easy to say just ignore what other people think.. And I'm not condoning changing your self for others at all.. But let's face it no one likes being the.. Object of every ones humor being how low the standards are.. For treating larger people now adays.. And then you have to think about the health issues too.. And even thou people say.. It doesn't affect your health it can.. Being a bbw is fine and I personally don't wanna go below a size 18 or 20.. I guess its really a personal choice in the end..
I just started working out again on Jan 2nd (yep - one of THOSE people)! I detest gyms that are "meat markets" and am more comfy if there are only a few people present to see me in sweats. It gets easier as time goes on - and now I look forward to it. The tough part is getting there - and not worrying about what others think. I believe that it is more psychological than physical in the beginning. I just focus on my goals when I am there - and pay no attention to the others in the gym - but I did meet a very nice woman at the gym (apparently she was on the exercise bike right next to me - since I dont look around - she told me that in the locker room)!! and now we look forward to seeing each other and having a workout buddy!
It's a matter of personal tastes and calculations. To me, the idea of spending enough time in the gym to make myself whatever the definition of healthy is (which seemingly no longer has anything to do with whether you're actually sick anymore) would result in a less enjoyable life than I experience as I am.
Just the thought of going to a gym makes me feel somewhat queasy. All that sweat and people in leotards. Gruesome.
And having to GO there and then come all the way home again and again and again for months and months and years. It's like the astronauts who have to exercise to stop their muscles and bones deteriorating. One russian cosmonaut said that for some it's okay because they like exercising but for those that don't it's a remorseless and depressing routine more akin to torture than anything else.
By any reasonable, non-aesthetic definition of healthyness I'm not unhealthy. The idea of going to a gym though does make me feel ill... so I'd rather not.