newgirl8282 write: I was told recently by a complete stranger, that i was ugly. Now you must understand this is out of the blue.. while waiting to buy a book at a local store, and and i smile ( out of kindness) to a gentleman in front of me in line. He quickly ( and loudly) said... "Oh dont even bother. I am not even close to being interested in you.. in fact you are one of the ugliest girls i have ever seen" I didnt know how to react.... Am i really that ugly? Maybe i have seen myself So much... i am desensitized to it.... could someone please just tell me? I know i am not perfect... but am i that bad?
Wow I don't know what this guys problem was he is probably just one of those people who instantly rules out someone with a little weight.
I happen think you are quite attractive and you'd definitely catch my eye if I saw you on the streets or someplace. If you're ugly then I must be crazy because I'm thinking bring on the ugly girls ... hahahahaha.
Bye cutie and I hope you feel better and don't let some idiot's comments go to your head.
You were too kind by calling that jerk a gentleman...anyway, you are not ugly, not by a long shot. Don't give that idiot rent-free space in your head. You are pretty. And probably one of the few people on this planet who has the gumption and good heart to smile at a total stranger. That is the most beautiful thing in the world. A genuine smile is a signal that a person is kind and open enough to give and receive good things. NEVER LET ANYONE STEAL THAT BEAUTY FROM YOU!
See, the power of cruel people like that is, if that you're going through an insecure moment, and who isn't, at times...the negative comments will echo in your brain until they become a tidal wave. You might even start believing them. Haven't we all been there? It takes about twenty good comments or favorable events to cancel out a negative one.
Forget about that fool! Please go around smiling and expecting good things. I always say "Good Morning," "Good Afternoon," etc. I give a compliment. I even talk to strangers in elevators, I hold doors, carry packages for elderly people and I give up my seat on the bus when big strapping men don't...things that any decent person should do.
It feels really great to make someone's day. Keep reaching out and giving kindness. It will come back to you.
what a POS. I hate people like that. they have their heads so far up their own colons they think that everything is about them.
Also, he was dead wrong. You wouldnt even come near the 'ugly' rating. I think youre cute, and you have a nice warm and friendly look about you. note, you smile at people regardless, and he treats random people with undeserved abuse- rest assured that youre obviously a much better and more worthwile human being than he is.
newgirl, you are such a cutie. Dont let the ugliness of one mean guy crush your spirit. I sometimes find people project their own issues on others and you just have to walk away. Just know that you are a doll.
I can't believe some people. That guy is just an a-hole. I'm not going to even bother answering the question, because you already know the answer. I just hope you won't let someone like that affect you in any way.
OMG that is horrible. Of course you are not ugly.Actually you are cute. I have had similar experiences you just have to blow them off, which is easy to say and hard to do. Don't give him or anyone like him a second thought. He doesn't deserve even that much from you. He sounds like the ugly one, he must be a miserable person to treat others that way.
I read that and my jaw hit my desk, I think I may develop bruising.
You are not ugly.
I think that "gentleman" needs a mirror, though.
On the other hand, I have been there. Been moo'ed at by passing cars while waiting for the bus, called Shamu, etc into infinity. I always try to tell myself people that would insult a total stranger are also people that I would not like, and that they are beneath me. I know that to be true in my head. My emotions, though, never agree with me, and it frequently ends up with me trying to find the nearest place to hide and cry.
So *hugggggggggggs* I firmly believe karma will get people like that.