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Posted on Wed, Sep 21, 2005 22:47

Ok I have a question for anyone who wants to give an answer... If you have a paid membership.. and someone winks you... if you read their profile and they are completely opposite of what you are looking for... do you go out of your way to acknowledge that wink..and email them and say thanks..or just kind of let it be? I've received many winks.. and some from men that are 50-65 yrs old... I'm 25.... for me to respond to a 65 yr old..feels weird.. but I don't want to be rude you know? What are your thoughts? And should it be any different if they emailed me...vs just a winK?



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Posted on Mon, Sep 26, 2005 06:07


Freysh write:
Thanks for telling us about the no thanks wink dee, That will make it easier.



lol....my pleasure. Now that I have done PSA's on the board, you think they'd let me be forum moderator or something so we could see everyone's posts faster than 24 hours later?



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Posted on Sun, Sep 25, 2005 08:09

I always reply to emails and normally reply to winks, if only to say thanks.



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Posted on Sun, Sep 25, 2005 07:57


LonesomeDove write:
Not being a paid member, I don't usually reply to such winks.



They have a new "no thank you" wink now.



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Posted on Fri, Sep 23, 2005 17:37

Not being a paid member, I don't usually reply to such winks. If I am a paid member, I reply with a thanks but no thanks. I get such winks too. Don't like them. I prefer younger men or men about my age and I state that specifically in my profile. Futile on my part I think because I still get them. I don't think they read.



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Posted on Thu, Sep 22, 2005 09:16

I must admit... I'm not good at replying to every wink. I guess I don't take them very seriously. I used to reply back and then never hear anything else. I just intrepet it as a hi... you're not bad, but not what I want to spend my time communicating with. I know... probably not the right thing to assume because I have winked at very few men. I'm not much of a pursuer.



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Posted on Thu, Sep 22, 2005 06:09

As long as I am a paid member, I reply to every wink with an email simply to tell them thanks for the interest but I am not available or whatever the reason is that I'm not interested. I just personally feel that it is common courtesy to respond.



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Posted on Thu, Sep 22, 2005 06:08

I'm 29...and I get the same winks from people much older than me.

Usually what I say is that I am flattered, but not interested in being anything more than friends. ( I do enjoy talking to new people, and age is much less of a concern when it comes to friends.)

I do however tend to just ignore people who say nothing in their profile, because, well....I honestly can't think of a thing to say when their profile is blank.
I used to ignore the married ones, but I started just being honest with them. "Thank for the wink, but the fact that you are married makes me very uncomfortable". I figure, they contacted me, they deerve to know how I feel on certain subjects.



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