MAN, if i had a dollar for every female who said they were a GOOD WOMAN, id be able to buy myself more nice xmas presents. LOL
Nice ones are out there, just have to pray and honestly get lucky....We as a society have one issue which prevents us from opening up and doing whats right....TRUST.
Next time you find someone, figure out why it just doesnt feel quite right...i can almost promise you, something w/regard to trusting or loyality will surface! If you want to find a nice female, lay back and let it all come to you....It happens, sometimes....more than one nice girl comes along..then you run into whos the right choice...
Nice females are a dime a dozen, find one who happens to be real nice and honest to YOU, thats the one you want! And to take offense to that statement means you missed the meaning in the wording. Have a good one people, cant wait to see more postings!
When you look deep into my being, I think I'm a good woman! Just waiting patiently for the right man to come along. The trick is, the ones you wink/email, are you taking the time to make sure you are what they want?
There R alot of good women still out there. As well as men we just have to find the 1 that is rt for us. Don't give up! It take's time to find ur soul mate. Hey U may make some really life long friends while U R looking!!
I think that women say that they just want to be friends because they don't want to admit that they are lonely and really want to meet someone. I know it sounds silly, but I have hid behind the "friends" thing, too. When a person goes to a dating site and says that they just want to meet people and make friends, she is really saying that she IS HOPING to meet a man who wants to date her and that she wants to date also. If her attempts fall short of that, then meeting friends will do. Unfortunately, men who are on a dating site to meet a woman to date, don't read it that way. They take her at her word and work at being friends, and don't expect to get more out of the exchange than that.
As that great prolific author, what's his name, who made appearances on Oprah, Sally Jesse, and other talk shows a few years ago titled his best selling book wrote: Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus! And that is one reason why many women say that they just want to meet friends here instead of looking for THE ONE.
Here is a good example as to what I belive. As I read the comments, I agree with many of the ladies but as you can see they say that starting with friendship is the right thing to do, but as you see I became transparent in the posting. I got a wink and three e-mails and after that I became invisible. So where are the GOOD LADIES THAT SAY FRIENDSHIP FIRST HUUUUUUUUUM???????
So in other words, based on your comments, there are good women. It's just that we (men) don't know what are we looking for, or how to recognize when we have a good woman in front of (or next to) us. Did I miss anything? The good thing about this is that we are not all alike. Sometimes, somewhere, when we less expected we see the beauty and greatness in you ladies, we might not say, exactly like that, but we know it and feel it, exactly like that. Just understand us and don?t stop on loving us.
There are good women everywhere just me and many of the ones i know wont settle for anything less than a man with a certain set of values.
Im not gonna be with a guy trolling the internet for babes when he already has one or two. Not to say that all men on here do that, ive met men from the internet and one or two actually turned out to be real and honest and sweet. Just the "there" wasnt there.
Hello everyone. I am fairly new to the dating scene, and I just started reading the forums and I agree that many of the women in here are good and have good intentions but THEY ALL CRY FRIENSHIP,FRIENDSHIP AND YET WHRN YOU TRY TO CONTACT THEM THEY MIGHT E-MAIL ONCE AND THEN THEY FORGET YOU EXIST. How can a person get to know each other when nobody takes the time to get to know them. "Where are all the good women that want a good friendship and a good relation?" Are guilty??????
This isn't meant to put Theo down in anyway. I'm sure he was just trying to be funny or give some good advice, but it did come out a little harsh. Sometimes when people are feeling down they need a shoulder to cry on, a friend they can talk to about the hurt inside, I don't think it's that anyone is whinning or complaining, I think it's more sometimes we just need to talk to someone about what we're feeling inside. And sometimes it's a confort to know others are feeling the same thing. I would like to think of these boards as a place were we could come to for support, a hug, or a little cheering up if we need it, without being told to just stop whinning and su_k it up. Just my 2 cents worth. Oh my gosh do you believe they won't let me say the word su_k. rotfl
Theophrastus write: They're all busy hanging themselves. Driven to suicide by the endless hordes of witless attention seeking threads that march through this forum every day.
"Where have all the good men gone?" "Why can't I find someone nice?" "Why is romance dead?"
There is nothing more tiresome than someone attention whor'ing under the aegis of being disgruntled with the world. It's just self-indulgeant whining. If you want to whine, go to group therapy, people might actually be interested there.
Theo, Theo, Theo... I thought you Brits had a little more class than that, instead of painting with that brush that's a little too wide, I thought you would have at least attacked the core of the problem.
Well, I guess I was thinking most PEOPLE, in general. Personally, I already know that you don't care what I think, but I'm going to say it anyway.
You have really got to lighten up, man! Seriously, maybe if you could bring some honest humor into a conversation instead of being a grouch all the damn time, maybe you would have better success.
But then, I contradict my own self, because I can try to bring humor in, but not very many find it funny...
But that's just me.
Do you feel it necessary to trash any/everyone? Are you that unhappy with yourself that you just have to go off on any and everything said?
And I thought I was p*ssed off... sh*t, you can have that P.O.'d award; I don't even want it.