Hey my friends... I just had to tell you how happy I am for you both! It is so wonderful to see two people come together and fall in love.... and I got to watch it happen! May your lives be filled with much love and happiness!
spazticboy write: I guess this is basically for everybody here...Who are we to judge?..Let us all try and find happiness and keep the drama on the side.....I mean slide..Oh God. Here we go again, fifi......
Smplystriving write: okay I'm all late in this...one thing's on my mind...after reading many posts....is KEW spokesperson for a few people on this site? And also, shes sweet to me bc shes trying to get me in touch with my gordy, but erru hhhh sometimes I'm not sure how nice or if shes being sarcastic and cynical in many of the posts...kew..i wonder bout u girl... *peekin over atcha*
I have a lot of great friends on this site. I am not a sarcastic or cynical person. I am one of the nicest people you can meet until you stab me in the back ..... then I can't promise how nice I'll be. Doesn't really matter to me what people think though... I am me... I am real... and that's all the matters. My true friends know that I genuinely care about them. Have a nice day!
Long time no see.. thank you for being supportive, we appreciate that. As you know things are going super.
I am not on LF so much now, since Phat and me are dedicating most of the time to eachother. I miss coming to the forums, I will check back soon.
Just my 2 cents .......but yes I agree with Kitten also..... complicated for sure....congrats to the happy couple and sincere best wishes for someone new and much better to the one left behind.......... hope she finds her guy real soon ......and all the rest of us toooooo!!!! smiles, me
I just popped in to see what the lattest was on this thread .... and I have to thank you Jay for your compliment ... didnt expect that one !! But hey if its drama you wanted you got it .... and question for you ... wanna be my friend with benefits ..??? ;) lol Distance would be a bit of a problem tho I reckon
Can I just say that after reading all this... my emotions are a little twisted. I'm happy for the new formed love, sad for the broken hearted and started to feel like even I may be pregnant by someone I don't know! What the heck is going on here!
I have had friends with benefits before who just drop off the face of the earth
Oh dear, that's not friends with benefits, that's something entirely different, that's just 'benefitting' from whats available. I have had 2 FWB and we're friends first and foremost we have respect for one another. One is currently in a relationship and we dont 'benefit' anymore, but we're still friends who talk and hang out. The other just had a baby and we're still friends and we don't share 'benefits' anymore cause of his relationship but we're still friends.
And I have been hurt by players too who play on womens feelings, throw the word love around and are not upfront -- sometimes they're easy to spot and sometimes they're not.
The bottom line is respect and integrity and being honest about who you are and what you want. It's being a man and being respectful of women, and BUBBA is right we all DESERVE that! I know I do.
Theo, in about six months I will put in another order. The turkey bayster is soaking as i type!