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Posted on Tue, Oct 04, 2005 08:45


patriots7979 write:
You honestly have too admit MOST women under 35 are childish. What I mean by that is they are looking for someone too raise and support someone else's kids or they seem too thrive on attention. Whether it be starting trouble or whatever. Most older women are more mature than that and carry themselves better than younger women. That was all I was saying



I'm always amazed... I have received most interest from younger men. I hear younger women say that alot of their interest is from older men. Soooo... where does that leave us? Does that mean that if a younger man decides to commit in a relationship to an older woman that when he gets older that he will change his mind and decide he wants a younger woman?? Hmmmm... looks like a short term relationship to me.

That is why I prefer to stay in my own age group.



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Posted on Tue, Oct 04, 2005 06:15


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ok.. this.. kind of fits what i meant to ask advice on actually...

Im 21, but i like a guy whos 19. Thats not a considerable age gap in any real sense, but in this age group a few years can make all the difference. the problem is... i dont dont understand him.

we get a long great. when he talks to me. you see, normally, he'll actively leave a conversation when im there, but nothing malicious. when we do talk, its like best mates. he has a lot of (beautiful, stunning, gorgeous) female friends and and i cant quite figure out why he is intimidated by me (which is the only conclusion i can think of). See, this is why i was always more into older men, because there wasnt much confusion about whether or not they were interested or why they were avoiding you.

I guess normally i wouldnt be so fussed, cept for the fact that i really fancy the pants off this guy. what a pain!
any ideas?



Hi Loki,
Without knowing the guy it is hard to judge his actions, Hope you don't mind I browsed your profile, you seem an attractive, well grounded and intelligent woman, so I can't see how he is intimidated by you. Of course he may just fancy the pants off you too, and is too shy to say anything.
My advice would be to bite the bullet, go makle a move on him (preferably when he is alone) if nothing else you should get your answer.
Good luck
PS. After looking at your profile, I wouldn't have had you pegged as loki, more one of the Valkyries, maybe Hilda the ale-maiden.



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Posted on Tue, Oct 04, 2005 05:44

You honestly have too admit MOST women under 35 are childish. What I mean by that is they are looking for someone too raise and support someone else's kids or they seem too thrive on attention. Whether it be starting trouble or whatever. Most older women are more mature than that and carry themselves better than younger women. That was all I was saying



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Posted on Sat, Oct 01, 2005 18:09


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in my personal opinion older women are sexy as sin!!!!! They have class, maturity, head on their shoulders, etc. That's something that younger women don't have




Gee...you were just talking to me a week ago and seemed to think I was mature enough to talk to then. My my how interesting.



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Posted on Sat, Oct 01, 2005 17:34

hello
in my personal opinion older women are sexy as sin!!!!! They have class, maturity, head on their shoulders, etc. That's something that younger women don't have



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Posted on Wed, Sep 28, 2005 13:39

ok.. this.. kind of fits what i meant to ask advice on actually...

Im 21, but i like a guy whos 19. Thats not a considerable age gap in any real sense, but in this age group a few years can make all the difference. the problem is... i dont dont understand him.

we get a long great. when he talks to me. you see, normally, he'll actively leave a conversation when im there, but nothing malicious. when we do talk, its like best mates. he has a lot of (beautiful, stunning, gorgeous) female friends and and i cant quite figure out why he is intimidated by me (which is the only conclusion i can think of). See, this is why i was always more into older men, because there wasnt much confusion about whether or not they were interested or why they were avoiding you.

I guess normally i wouldnt be so fussed, cept for the fact that i really fancy the pants off this guy. what a pain!
any ideas?



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Posted on Tue, Sep 27, 2005 08:01

I married a man 19 years older than mewhen I was 20. We were married 24 years..I was unhappy. I am a widow for almost 3 years. I don't even date men over 45 now...and I have dated as young as 25. My preference is men in their mid 30's. They can usually keep up.lol Youmg men love older women..they say it's because we don't play games and we know what we want. Why not? Older men have been doing it for years! I love younger men!

  
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Posted on Tue, Sep 27, 2005 07:49

I was married...for 24 years...to a man 19 years older. I am a widow..for almost 3 years....47 yrs old...and I won't date anyone over 45. I have dated as young as 25...but I prefer a man in his mid 30's. Older men can not keep up....and young men seem to love older women. They say it's because we don't play as many games, and know what we want. Why not? Men have been doing it for years. I love younger men. lol

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Posted on Tue, Aug 30, 2005 12:15

I agree with ya! I used to try and date only "older" men. But the last few weeks I've been hooking up with a guy 11 years younger than me, and I really can't see myself going back to the older ones. Talk about guys who are full of energy !

  


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