I met a guy on a site similar to this. We got involved very quickly and I think he got scared. The intimate stuff was absolutely mindblowing, never met anyone I was so physically compatible with before or since :(. We are still friends and see each other regularly as we have so many shared interests but unfortunately for me not in a romantic way. Still, its taught me that there are great men out there.
Hey Sunshine - I don't know about others, but it has worked for me. Although I'm not in a steady relationship right now, I have dated several men I met through this website. I find that keeping an open mind and a positive outlook help tremendously here. Good luck! :)