You know Sunshine that is a good question, and in answer I have met my first gent just last week. It didn't work out to well cause I think he wanted something on the first meeting that good girls don't do, if you get my drift.. You can find some true honest men on here but as you'v read you must state what you want and not let them lead you down the path to what they want.. Go for it girl.
I met a guy on a site similar to this. We got involved very quickly and I think he got scared. The intimate stuff was absolutely mindblowing, never met anyone I was so physically compatible with before or since :(. We are still friends and see each other regularly as we have so many shared interests but unfortunately for me not in a romantic way. Still, its taught me that there are great men out there.