Tired and Weary... Lonely Hearts Post Ur Thoughts Here... Forward to friends

  • View author's info Author Posted on Aug 11, 2005 at 05:34 AM

    of thinking you've met someone really wonderful and date them a couple times and then never hear from them again. Talk to us men! Tell us if you're not interested. We're OK with that, but to just leave us hanging...

    I've about decided that maybe it's not meant for me to have another love in my life.

    I've joined several different BBW dating sites in the past couple years and have communicated with so many men that 'said' they wanted to meet, but then you just never hear from them anymore.

    Well, my membership here expires this weekend and I don't plan to rejoin.

    I'm just not good at this. Beginning to wonder if there really are nice, decent, well groomed men who sincerely DO like BBWs... sometimes I think that they just say that thinking we're 'easy'.
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  • View author's info Posted on Aug 17, 2005 at 12:06 PM

    Thanks for that vote of confidence! I'll be ok... we all will!! IF that special someone comes along, I'll appreciate them so much because I've found that they are few and far between.
  • View author's info Posted on Aug 16, 2005 at 09:39 AM

    It is beyond me why guys do that. I do make contact to at least say goodbye and give an explanation. I think some of the answer may be that thinking about it enough to write it down gives these guys a picture of how creepy they are being.

    Musicnut, your smile alone gives me hope someone is out there for me, too.
  • View author's info Posted on Aug 12, 2005 at 05:45 PM

    I think that some people sign onto this sight just out of curiosity and like you said... to play games. But overall I think that most people are actually looking for somebody. I went on a blind date about 9 mos. ago and I never heard from the guy... until today. After the conversation was over, I realized that he called the wrong Kim. That is so inferiorating and I would love to say typical but I'm bigger than that!!!
  • View author's info Posted on Aug 12, 2005 at 04:18 PM

    I don't think that just because you've been married twice that you don't deserve to find someone. You would think that with all the people that are on these dating sites, we would all be able to find someone. I think part of the problem is that while some of us are serious, there are those that just like to play games. I'm not saying anyone on this site is like that, but just an observation I've come to realize in the past.
  • View author's info Posted on Aug 12, 2005 at 01:48 PM

    Thanks! But since I've been married 2X... I wonder if I had my chances and somehow messed it up... even though the divorces were neither my fault. Oh well...
  • View author's info Posted on Aug 12, 2005 at 08:13 AM

    I believe there's always someone out there for everyone, and when u least expect it love will find you!

    Don't give up music nut, your Mr. Right is out there x
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