Deepfeelin - I like to think that I am not so superficial that I judge somebody from their appearance - such shallowness in somebody should rightfully be given a wide berth. I certainly admit that I find BBWs more attractive, but that is personal preference and I certainly do not condemn everyone else. The personality of somebody is much more important than the physical shell that it comes giftwrapped in. Stop me if I'm waffling, please!
BTW,Stella, thanks for the email - you should have an email from me by the time you read this, my dear!
AlmstHvn - I have an identical twin brother, so technically, I am a clone! LOL!
Hi Kevin, I have sent you a personal message but thought i'd reply here that is so refreshing that men are starting to appreciate us and to start looking beneath the figure. I was one of those naturally slim girls until I had my daughter (20 years ago) and, as with every single other member of my family, my body shape changed in my mid 20s. I have made myself constantly miserable by dieting and being down on myself but now come to accept myself for who I am. Im an intelligent (or so my friends tell me!), affectionate, friendly 41 year old and hold down a responsible job but have always suffered from a lack of confidence about my figure. Hopefully the tide is now turning :)