Blanket assumptions about BBWs Message board

  • View author's info Author posted on Jul 19, 2005 18:16


    I've noticed on alot of profiles that so many men make assumptions about BBWs. This first I see alot is that all BBWs are big busted... my I remind everyone that BBW means Big Beautiful Women, NOT Big Busted Women.

    Also, that ALL BBWs are lonely, uneducated or desperate.

    I am a very large woman, but I'm not desperate. I date some, but haven't found that man that truly accepts me the way I am. I may lose weight... hopefully I will, but if I don't, love me the way I am... don't try to change me.

    Anyway... Guess I'm just frustrated...
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  • View author's info posted on Sep 27, 2006 20:23


    People who make radical generalizations like that aren't worth knowing. It doesn't matter if they're male or female.
  • View author's info posted on Sep 25, 2006 10:35


    That's like assuming that a guy with size 13 shoes has a big ****
  • View author's info posted on Sep 05, 2006 13:54


    I agree with the incites and opinions of this forum, But I always
    tell the men I meet here or anywhere
    that BBW means Big Beautifully-made
    Woman and that includes the things you
    can see and the things you can not see
    and especially my mind
  • View author's info posted on Jul 11, 2006 17:15


    ThePhatGirl write:
    I don't wanna sound ummm dumb, but what is SSBBW?

    i think your hot
  • View author's info posted on Jul 21, 2005 05:37


    Phatgirl, a ssbbw means super size big beautiful woman.

    Richie, I notice when you post in forums you don't say anything about the actual topic being discussed instead you are just putting an ad for what you want. What's up with that???
  • View author's info posted on Jul 20, 2005 16:08


    LOL..Ladies..try being a single mom with SIX kids .....LOL! I've dated a few men who really liked me, but never really asked too much about my family..as soon as I mentioned the number of kids I had they fled the scene never to be heard from again.

    I love my kids more than anything so, the behaviour of a few guys didn't sway my determination to go out and still have fun. I like who I am completely, and if other's don't..that's their choice but I'm not going to stop living because of it.

    Yes, having a big family makes dating hard, but for the right person, I make the time and effort. I'm not suggesting all men flee...but if my size doesn't turn em off the number of children I have does...but I try not to let it bother me. My kids are forever..dating comes and goes. And if I didn't mention it in my profile...I'm not looking for a replacement Dad..my kids have one...I'm just looking for some intelligent company for myself.

    Personally, I'm enjoying being single...because I'm just not ready to committ.
  • View author's info posted on Jul 19, 2005 20:41


    Oh my word, it's like you read my mind!

    As a small-chested, highly educated and really quite finicky BBW (actually SSBBW, truth be told) I've noticed the same thing.

    And the worst part is, some men turn tail and run as soon as they discover you are smart, strong and not at all desperate!

    NOTE: not ALL men, SOME men ... I know there are some good guys out there, I just haven't met many of them
  • View author's info posted on Jul 19, 2005 20:32


    Hi, I would like to meet a fun loving, easy going person who enjoys the outdoors, music, movies, friends and family and who is mature, independent and wants to meet someone for a long-term relationship. I am outgoing, friendly and warm. I want someone who wants to really get to know me and vice versa.
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