I'm pretty upset that the search options do not allow me to choose only Christian men, even as a subscriber.

It is something that is very important to me, and I wish I didn't have to sort through it on my own.

what is a christian?

i would not a woman who was a christian but liked ann coulter. who did not think taking care of the needy and oppressed mattered.

some christians are conservative. some are liberal. some goto church. some don't.

some are "christian" in that they are not a pagan.

to some people it means someone who is born again. to others it means those who grew up believing in the basic tenets of orthodox christianity.

some christians are mormon. but then other christians say mormons are not christians.

so i don't really think a box about christian helps.

maybe multiple boxes for different streams of christian teaching.

I am looking for the women that God has chosen for me. I believe this women is a born again Christian who is actively serving God. I hope to find a women of integrity. Someone who enjoys having fun and likes to laugh.

Once again, this site is for large women... which I am. I have gone to christian sites and most prefer the slender women... as most of society does.

Theo... I actually agree with you... there are 'degrees' to what people consider being christian. I am a christian who goes to church regularly. I have that posted on my profile... so anyone that contacts me knows that is part of my life.

Sooo... I think it's sad that it would be suggested that I go to a christian site rather than here because of my preference to match with a christian.

That would be like me saying for a thin person to not come here... we all know there have been enough posts about that.

This IS a place for all people of all races and religions to come on common ground. The common ground is we are either BBWs, BHM or admirers of such. The rest... let us each weed out those we're not interested it... as they say... to each his own.

I agree with you Theo,it is if you go to church or not, not if you associate yourself with a certain religion. Also if you live what you believe

Christian Mingle is another Christian dating site. It's very good.

There are Christian dating sites. Big Church d0t com for one.

I hear you 1heart4Jesus...and agree

I agree with you! I am glad to have found this website, but sure do wish it were easier to narrow the search down. While my profile is very specific, I do hope and pray it's not a "turn off" to anyone who has been hurt by "the church". I love God; I love serving Him and want to meet a man who has the same level of commitment and relationship that I do with our Heavenly Father. Meanwhile, I'm willing to get to know anyone who may not be a "match" for me, including women, who just want a friend. God bless you in your search gldnegle! I know Daddy-God has one of those "great loves" for you! Keep believing!

I agree with you sisters completely!!! In my marriage I was unequally yoked and now I know that it is a must to find someone that has the same committment to include God in their life. But if I can help someone find the Lord until then, WONDERFUL!!! I know am not the perfect "christian" but hoping to find someone to learn and grow with and support one another. God bless us all in our journies!!!!

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