My profile had been viewed alot, and I too only have gotten a dozen or so winks and a few emails. But I am just fine with that. I would rather spend some time getting to know one or two people at a time to see who i am compatible with; rather than have sooo many I can't keep up with and then maybe miss someone special. Just my thoughts.
I don't think it's the number of winks you've had but how many actually translate into something more substantial. I've had loads of winks but most of them have been from men who are a lot older than me or married neither of which fits with what I'm looking for.
the wink is for 1heart4Jesus.....and the comment is for you too,1heart4Jesus...what if i send you a wink per day?till you get all kind of winks they have at large friends?what if you get a wink everyday?...personnaly i got some winks ..a few winks..i don't wory about that..
Yeah, that's sounds pretty average. Once I posted a picture with a smile more people looked and winked. (I think it was the smile?) Anyway I had 25 more people look at my profile and 6 new winks. I thought that was fine. :) Oh ,I added some of my artwork too.
I have had over 300 men look at my profile, received less than 20 winks, and maybe 2 emails. I do not understand why men who live a million miles away and are married send me winks, since they do not even read profiles..I sent email to 80 men who live within 2 hours from me and none responded...
Hey Gordon! Yes, I think that is pretty normal. I, and alot of others, have gotten close to 100 or more "peeks" at my profile, and a relatively small percentage of "winks". But I try not to take it too personally. Try to think of it as scanning a crowd at a concert or something. Your gaze may linger for a few extra seconds on people who catch your eye, but only a few that really attract you will get your "stare", or in this case, your "wink"!
I know I can't be everything to everybody, so 100 winks out of 100 peeks would actually worry me. It'd give me a distinct feeling that some of the guys just winked at EVERYBODY they looked at just to see (and possibly pick and choose from) who would respond!
To me, a wink just means that something about you made you stand out from the crowd in some way for that person. Which is cool, because we are all special and unique individuals, and I appreciate when someone notices that I AM different from all the other fish in the sea!
NorthernGordon write: Is it usual to have over 100 people check your profile and only receive 14 winks?
Hey, that teddy bear ain't stuck to my head permanently you know!!!!
I don't think it's unusual. I've had nearly 200 people review my profile and I've only received 24 winks.
It could be that the people who winked at you, enjoy your pictures so much they keep coming back for more! *L*