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Posted on Fri, Jul 08, 2005 15:58

Is it usual to have over 100 people check your profile and only receive 14 winks?

Hey, that teddy bear ain't stuck to my head permanently you know!!!!

  


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Posted on Sun, Aug 21, 2005 13:48

My profile had been viewed alot, and I too only have gotten a dozen or so winks and a few emails. But I am just fine with that. I would rather spend some time getting to know one or two people at a time to see who i am compatible with; rather than have sooo many I can't keep up with and then maybe miss someone special. Just my thoughts.

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Posted on Fri, Aug 19, 2005 16:25

Why not change your name to "Arien Flame" as in Aries? Or just "Aries Flame". That way no one could ever question what your name means.



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Posted on Fri, Aug 19, 2005 09:03

I've had alot of people look, a few wink and only a couple email. SO goes life...



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Posted on Thu, Aug 18, 2005 09:11

What's an SS division? My name comes from being an Aries and my sign is fire :)



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Posted on Wed, Aug 17, 2005 05:03

So far I got one wink :( Woe is me ;)



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Posted on Mon, Aug 15, 2005 15:19

I don't think it's the number of winks you've had but how many actually translate into something more substantial. I've had loads of winks but most of them have been from men who are a lot older than me or married neither of which fits with what I'm looking for.



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Posted on Mon, Aug 15, 2005 00:48

the wink is for 1heart4Jesus.....and the comment is for you too,1heart4Jesus...what if i send you a wink per day?till you get all kind of winks they have at large friends?what if you get a wink everyday?...personnaly i got some winks ..a few winks..i don't wory about that..



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Posted on Mon, Aug 15, 2005 00:45

now...you get it....i promess to come tomorrow ....maybe everyday?till you get bored of them he he he



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Posted on Fri, Aug 12, 2005 07:43

Gordy, your just so dang cute!! hehe....eyesoblue51 (chat) WINKIE WINKIE.....



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Posted on Thu, Aug 11, 2005 23:00

Not a bad ratio, actually.



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Posted on Thu, Aug 11, 2005 14:10

I've had 67 winks. Hmmm?? I wink back or e-mail and never hear a thing back. Did once, but that's another story. LOL!! I don't know why so many.



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Posted on Thu, Aug 11, 2005 10:33

I sent out several emails too with about a 1% reply ratio(and that 1% guy is SO cute!) LOL I really wish there was a wink reply that says "not intrested" that way I at least KNOW!



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Posted on Tue, Aug 09, 2005 22:37

Yeah, that's sounds pretty average. Once I posted a picture with a smile more people looked and winked. (I think it was the smile?) Anyway I had 25 more people look at my profile and 6 new winks. I thought that was fine. :) Oh ,I added some of my artwork too.



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Posted on Tue, Aug 09, 2005 21:02

I've gotten several looks at my profile, from men and women, but not one wink. No problem ... still striking up some wonderful friendships through email.



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Posted on Tue, Aug 09, 2005 20:37

I know what you mean. I have about 85 visits now and only 5 winks. I guess the girls dont like what they see or I live too far away. I guess just being checked out is something!

  


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Posted on Wed, Jul 13, 2005 09:18

I have had over 300 men look at my profile, received less than 20 winks, and maybe 2 emails. I do not understand why men who live a million miles away and are married send me winks, since they do not even read profiles..I sent email to 80 men who live within 2 hours from me and none responded...



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Posted on Sun, Jul 10, 2005 13:41

Yup .. it's normal .. I'm getting lots of looks, some winks. Being in Canada, some guys are just looking to see who all is available in Canada.



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Posted on Sun, Jul 10, 2005 11:47

Hey Gordon! Yes, I think that is pretty normal. I, and alot of others, have gotten close to 100 or more "peeks" at my profile, and a relatively small percentage of "winks". But I try not to take it too personally. Try to think of it as scanning a crowd at a concert or something. Your gaze may linger for a few extra seconds on people who catch your eye, but only a few that really attract you will get your "stare", or in this case, your "wink"!

I know I can't be everything to everybody, so 100 winks out of 100 peeks would actually worry me. It'd give me a distinct feeling that some of the guys just winked at EVERYBODY they looked at just to see (and possibly pick and choose from) who would respond!

To me, a wink just means that something about you made you stand out from the crowd in some way for that person. Which is cool, because we are all special and unique individuals, and I appreciate when someone notices that I AM different from all the other fish in the sea!

  


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Posted on Sun, Jul 10, 2005 09:18


NorthernGordon write:
Is it usual to have over 100 people check your profile and only receive 14 winks?

Hey, that teddy bear ain't stuck to my head permanently you know!!!!



I don't think it's unusual. I've had nearly 200 people review my profile and I've only received 24 winks.
It could be that the people who winked at you, enjoy your pictures so much they keep coming back for more! *L*

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