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Posted on Sat, Sep 02, 2006 13:31

What an idiot!

and he he about beeing cut vs uncut, yes it's true its nor normal here undless ofcourse you are jewish or muslim. But it?s funny u mention it, cause I had a concersation with a friend about why American do that.. And after checking out, we found the answer.



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Posted on Sun, Aug 27, 2006 19:42

If the guy wants someone that looks better than you he has a long look ahead of him. there is some lovely ladies on this site, and I am glad to hear vthat you didn't settle for being the secert gf. He will pay, after all he has already lost out by losing someone as good looking as you. Hang in there.



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Posted on Sun, Jun 11, 2006 14:56

Swtldyiam write:
Met a man claimed to be a man of God even said he was a preacher at one time, corresponded with him for over 2 years before meeting him in person. Uncertain what came over him, he decides to flash me. I screamed, "What's that?" very loudly. In my entire 40 yrs on this earth I have never seen an uncircumcised and an ugly one, it really traumatized me, because of that I often have flashbacks. In the future how do I approach a potential prospect in asking if he's circumcised?

Fifonfif don't give up keep your head up girl, he knew he was a loser before meeting you; he spoke the words in existence.


I had the same thought when I moved to the UK....in USA, all Christians are circumsized, but over here, you only do when you are Jewish or have to have it done medically. Not so bad once you get used to it! I used to ask people if they were cut or uncut, if that helps? But I now know that anyone I meet over here will not be....

  


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Posted on Mon, Jun 05, 2006 11:47

Just wanted to say hi, Fif. I see you're still getting the same old run arounds. /sigh I'm sorry to hear that darling.

It would seem no matter how old some are, they still have a juvenile streak in them. Not bashing all guys, cause there are some really great ones out there too. If only I lived in the same zip code. OYE VEH!

Girl, I've had some adventures! HAHAHA!

Hope this finds you well.

~Aijin~



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Posted on Tue, May 30, 2006 02:15

You can be reassured you are way too pretty for him & he knows it, he couldnt handle it. By trying to make you feel bad made him feel superior probably because of his "short comings" heehee. I bet everything he has told you about himself was a lie. I am sure You lucked out big time.
You will find who deserves you when you least expect it. You are beautiful, don't ever forget it. ;o)

  


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Posted on Thu, May 18, 2006 22:11

He showed his true personality. It is
so easy to portray an image behind a
screen but can you pull it off in person? (sigh) I am starting to wonder
what exactly is in the water these days
LoL! I wish you the best and I am hoping
that there are still some decent people
out there...Since I have been on here, I
can honestly say that some are already
showing some BAD qualities discouraging,
yet very insightful! If you can't mantain a pattern online, imagine an
individual in person! Also...the words
or lack there of! Hmmm

  


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Posted on Mon, May 08, 2006 14:44

I guess some guys are just jerks, just as some of us women are witches.

I was emailing a local guy here, we exchanged numbers, later on agreed to meet. Of course, he stood me up, then when I IM'ed him to tell him he was a jer and why had he done that, he said he had fallen alseep and didn't wake in time, please give another chance, yada yada yada.

Told me he would call the next day, it's been 3 weeks. I kinda knew by the next day he wasn't going to call.

I don't understand..why go to all that trouble and then act like that. It's just dishonest and mean, and I hope he sees this.

  


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Posted on Sat, Apr 01, 2006 20:42

Dont worry-I'm collecting idiots at the moment too.



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Posted on Fri, Mar 31, 2006 04:44

I too had a bad experience with a guy from here. We exchsnged 170+ emails in just a few days and he was so adamant about honesty and caring, he said he had some winks from other ladies closer to him and he told them he was in a relationshipt and wanted to see where it goes. Then BAM it stopped and he IM'd me on here and reinforced it well I had a friend wink him and he wainked back at her too so I give up I think all men that I have met so far have been real bad. Whats a lady to do?

  


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Posted on Thu, Mar 30, 2006 06:35

Smart move!! If someone wants to hide you from friends goes to show you what a low life, egotistical moron he is. And yes always meet in public no matter what...Safety. I have yet to meet anyone on here...Im so scared, lol. Dating again isnt so fun anymore..Well good luck to you and you are a beautiful person like all of us here..Keep the Faith..

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Posted on Fri, Jul 15, 2005 19:48

Or because maybe he has an agenda to hurt you in private -

Good judgement Fif, when someone can't meet you in public, doesn't matter what their agenda is, stay away.

Keep safe.

Skarlett



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Posted on Fri, Jul 15, 2005 15:03

I WOULD LIKE TO SAY I WOULD MEET ANY OF YOU BBW LADIES ANY WHERE THEY LIKE TO MEET. BECUASE I THINK YOU LADIES ARE VERY NICE .

  


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Posted on Fri, Jul 15, 2005 12:03

Sorry this happened to you, yeppers some of these men are real jerks, and seems as if the men my age (47) and older are the real losers. The older they get, the more they seem to want a trophy on their arm. Guess it is the midlife crisis thing...Hey, what a great name you have hahahaa....Fifi a.ka.a Laurie



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Posted on Fri, Jul 15, 2005 07:31


Dee738 write:

MissEllie write:
What an idiot!

Something that no one has mentioned jumped out at me. Do you suppose that he didn't want a public meeting because he's married?? Just a thought.




Myabe I am just cynical, but when he said to her "I want to date cute girls, but I will settle for a heavy one" It made me think that:
a) He didn't want to be seen in public with someone whose ribs aren't showing
and
b) He doesn't actually want to date. He wants a booty call.

I suppose we could add

c) He's married

to the list, but he's enough of an a** without it.

I'd agree, cute, thin, heavy, what's important to me is how we get along. How much fun we have together. The sad part is, as guys we are expected to make the first move. So we face rejection all the time. That's why you see men go for yrs without even asking anyone for a date. Some would rather be alone the face rejection. So most of the guys on here know how it feels all too well. And it s.u.c.k.s!

  


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Posted on Thu, Jul 14, 2005 18:30

Hi fifonfif,

Just got to this site a few days ago and am horrified to read about your experience but you never know when a moron will pop up.

Count yourself among blessed since you didn't meet with the guy and waste more of your time.

BTW - in your pic you look like a very pretty woman so he's an even bigger idiot!
- Madeline



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Posted on Mon, Jul 11, 2005 20:07

Dear Fif: What arogance some people have. Some think this guy is married and probably is, my second thought was abuser. They seem to think putting you down makes them appear so much better.
OR MAYBE HE IS SUCH A LITTLE WIMP HE WAS AFRAID YOU COULD TAKE HIM. They aren't all jerks, keep the faith, your beautiful, you will find the right guy someday.



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Posted on Mon, Jul 11, 2005 20:07

Dear Fif: What arogance some people have. Some think this guy is married and probably is, my second thought was abuser. They seem to think putting you down makes them appear so much better.
OR MAYBE HE IS SUCH A LITTLE WIMP HE WAS AFRAID YOU COULD TAKE HIM. They aren't all jerks, keep the faith, your beautiful, you will find the right guy someday.



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Posted on Mon, Jul 11, 2005 14:53


threesrus write:
Is the guy blind. You are a hottie.


All the ladies on this thread are hotties...to which are you referring?

By the way, I'm not feeling so bad about the entire ordeal. When I posted that, I had just gotten home and was pretty miffed. Anyways, I'm cool. No hard feelings. Live and Learn.

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Posted on Sun, Jul 10, 2005 21:15

I had the same thing happen to me, and yes it hurts, but someone that has that type of mindset is not what you need. I had e mailed this man for over a week, and he was so enamoured with everything, then I sent him my picture, he never asked for it, and he told me that if he walked into a coffee shop, he would walk right by me...and he is 48...now I know why he is still single, not divorced but single. He is looking for Ms Right, the problem is, she is looking for Mr. Right.



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Posted on Sun, Jul 10, 2005 19:08

FiFi....
I'll tell you now the guy is(Married)
he's 40 and married..... did he ever give you his home phone number?
where he lived (address) ?
your very pretty to nice for this guy...
don't even worry about him again just move on ..... Lots of men out here that
would not ever be ashamed to meet you or take you anyplace
Handy



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