I was having a conversation with someone yesterday and the question of "Can you be to big for intimate relations" came up. By this I mean to ask has anyone had any "hinderances" due to their size and weight? Does Being a BBW or even a SSBBW impeed you from doing what you want in the bed room? Is physical activity better with two big people or a big and a small person?
These are just some questions that came up in our conversation, my friend has never been with a big woman (and doesn't know what he's missing) I think the bigger the I've never met a woman to big to be sexy and as for in the bedroom more weight just means you have better center of gravity so you won't go flying out the window when that time comes! :)
I think it is harder with a bigger man than a thinner one. However with a bigger guy you can actually put you weight on him and he won't break. Instead of up and down you just kinda grind. Yummy. you can always turn backwords on top that way the tummies won't meat.
I just had a funny 'flashback". Do ya'll remember when printed T-shirts were popular? Remember the one that had the two little piggies on it getting it on?... Underneath the little piggies was the caption that read "Makin' Bacon"....Loool.. or maybe that should be weeeeeeeeeeeee.ROFLMAO
Ummm honey..... are you cooking? LMAOooooooo
WOW!!! This is a good topic and now that I have laughed my azz off I can answer.I have always and will always like tall thin or large build men. I think two BBP is too much going on. I am not only a BBW but I am also tall & I love to look up at a man. I also like looking down,sideways,across, and hearing him breathe on my neck(lol).We may look like laurel & hardy together but I like TALL!!
LMAO!!! What a topic! I prefer slimmer guys because of the belly thing. But my guy loves me to be on top. He says he loves to be squished. LOL!! Baffles me. I just oblige him. I've never truly squished anyone yet. LOL!!
That was cute, does size matter? Only if your lazy.. I think you have to assess the persons body can U stradle him and put the weight in your hips. Are they big themselves, is the next question. Sometimes when they are big to, it's better to go and get a sandwhich. Or go for a walk. That's the only sweating those two are going to do.... It's tricky but can be done.
Being BBW has never stopped me from doing anything. Certain positions just get adapted.
On the flip side (no pun intended), I need a bigger guy to hold me down 'cause I get a little enthusiastic. Last little guy (& unfortunately on a water bed, too) zigged when I zagged. Caught him off balance, flew up in the air and practically knocked himself out on the headboard.
Size does matter - I stick to big guys now.
I am a bit suprised............and happy to see you women talk about intimate stuff. For my preference, I certainly prefer to be (if it ends-up that way.........) under a larger woman who is visibly and audibly enjoying herself. Just think about it, there's so much more to do with my fingers, hands, lips, and tongue...............
My guy likes the on top thing too, and its funny when in that pozzie cause he is 6' , athletic build, but he really does dissapear under me !! hahahaha .... but he loves it and says I am not squashing him .... but sometimes I wonder if he is just saying that to be nice .... as for the sqaut thing ... cant cause of bad knees !! but hey we have a TON OF FUN anyways ....
Oh gawd! I have never laughed so hard in my life!! I need this laugh so much. It brought back memories.. Loool
I love big tall guys. I love the extra meat. I do agree that sometimes the tummy can be a bit of a hassle. However, if ya know what to do... nothing is impossible. ;-) Tall and thin, Tall and thick... big package, small package... it all boils down to how much you care about the person. Besides... with patience and understanding and willingness to try and learn new techniques.. one can learn to please the other.
I had to laugh about the being on top part though. It's true... a lot of thin guys want the woman on top. LOL.. and as for squishing them... well..... it hasnt happened yet.The secret is squats and a good headboard for leverage!... OK TMI there...LOL
But I still like my big tall meaty man... just something about snuggling up to man that has cushion. Not knocking tall and slender. Heck... just send me one that has a pulse!
My last intimate partner was a size 26 and we got it on with no problems at all and it was fine. I'm a heavy guy around 285 lbs but I'm tall too so my belly doesn't really hang over my lower regions too much.
There's a way around everything....and over..and under...and across...and in...and....
I have slept with both a tall larger guy and a tall slender guy as long as they are tall enough because i am 5' i won't feel that they are breakable...I have no insecurities in bed if i am going to sleep with you it will be done right but I can't handle someone who i feel like I would actually hurt :)
OH DEAR LAWD>>>>I've never laughed so hard in my life..I'm having flashbacks of the days with my X husband. Talk about MISSION IMPOSSIBLE OR WILD ADVENTURE! I will say that though we were two big people we always managed to have fun in the bedroom,at least in the beginning. Saddly when his weight crept up to the point he was up to a 7 X...well s*x was pretty much non exsistant.
I have always been attracted to men with a meatier frame and on the big side so I never really had a lot of intimate encounters with slimmer men, until my x and I split. I may be a big girl but I'm pretty flexible...and I think my first encounter with Mr Tall n Thin was let's see how we can turn Mary into a human pretzel. LOL
Yes, size can make a difference but for each person it's different. I know a lot of smaller men who aren't exactly 'endowed' so getting intimate created a few issues when trying to get horizontal or vertical. On the spin side I've met a few men who were like *OMG* beyond what I'd ever seen and we did some FUN stuff together which I couldn't with a man of smaller stature.
I just know if I'm with a bigger man I'm more comfortable being on top than if I'm with a smaller guy...and ironically a lot of smaller men want a bigger gal on top * I'm afraid I'm gonna squish em personally* I also like being on all fours....in varied postions...and with a bigger fellah it can be a little tricky but I say shorter strokes and life is GRAND!
If you care about the person you are with than the rest of it will work itself out. I like men in all shapes and colors so that has never been an issue really, but I find now that I've been with average to smaller men the nookie is a far sight better and tends to last a bit longer.
Smplystriving ... just want to add on the length subject of a heavier man, the reason they seem "shorter" is cause of the extra weight around the pubic are that cushions the real length they have .... which was the case in my experience, so for eg, if it is normally 6 inches, the weight around that area could only make it seem 3 or so and yes sometimes the larger bellies can give the illusion of a smaller shaft as well , depending on how a man carries his weight .... thats why its more difficult, not sayin all men suffer from that.....but a lot do .... there are actual extreme cases that I have heard of where the bellie has actually pushed the shaft back into the groin area !! poor buggers ....
From what I'm seeing in this post the logic seems to be that bbw's should stick with smaller guys .... hahaha ... that's not anything new in my book.
As a bigger guy myself I have tended to shy away from bbw's myself after hearing similar things in the past ... of course we big guys don't have the kind of "following of average-size girls" like bbw's have guys so things can be a bit more fiesty and frustrating to say the least ... hahahaha.
I once heard a super-sized male comedian say that because of his size, the only thing that he and a big girl can do in the bedroom is wrestle. And I guess he had a point because he was pretty big. While I am very attracted to men with more meat on their bones than average, I do know that at my size, "getting busy" with one is quite a chore. It can be done, but it takes A LOT of effort and creativity to get the job done. Things are easier for me though, if my partner is a bit thinner and limber. (And oh yes, he MUST be creative and LOVE the effort).