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Am I a fat, ugly bitch, or is my boyfriend retarded?
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Posted on Wed, Mar 02, 2005 15:49

You are not ugly!! NO one is ugly. I'm not a person to call him names either. Just consider the person who called you names and move on to those of us who love you.

  


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Posted on Wed, Mar 02, 2005 11:36

kick the retard to the curb!



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Posted on Wed, Mar 02, 2005 10:57

Sweetie, you are so much more precious and invaluable than you realize. Also, your b/f is not much of a boyfriend is he? Drop him. You KNOW he's NOT the one!
much love alone
jesca



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Posted on Tue, Mar 01, 2005 22:13

dump him he dosent respect you find someone who will your very pretty dont take that crap



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Posted on Tue, Mar 01, 2005 18:41

Well, I'll add my opinion even though it matches with EVERY other post so far.

Dump him! He's an a$$hole. You should never aloow someone to talk down to you. He's breaking down your self esteem before you can build it up.

ABUSE ONLY GETS WORSE. Do not stay in that relationship hoping he will change, because he won't. You will spend too much time feeling badly about yourself when instead, you could ditch him and be liberated NOW!!

Good luck honey!



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Posted on Tue, Mar 01, 2005 18:13

Hey BIGSEXY drop that idiot and find you someone else. Texas is a big state and there are a lot of men here. Find you one that isn't a walkin Penis. If you were closer I would love to take you out and show you that there are some of us here who know how to treat a lady.


PS.You have a cute smile!

  


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Posted on Tue, Mar 01, 2005 09:46

Hey BigSexy...He is RETARDED.

My Personal opinion is to kick him to the curb where he belongs.

  


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Posted on Mon, Feb 28, 2005 18:59

Hey BigSexy, This is from experience.. I was married to a man that was always critisizing me about my weight it got worse as time went by and nothing I did was every good enough. I finally divorced him, but it took me several years to realize that I was not that ugly fat person he made me believe I was. I realized it was his own insecurities talking. Dont wait long. Leave him now. Your self esteem is sooo much more important than any man. And trust me, there are men out there that will look at you as though you are a goddess. You just have to be patient and keeping looking and listening. But Leave him, for your own sanity.



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Posted on Mon, Feb 28, 2005 17:51

Why take that kind of abuse from a boyfriend? Dump him because it is better to be alone than to be with someone who makes you feel like you are something on the bottom of his shoe. You need to get away from this toxic man. If you are worried that you will be alone when you two break up, that is true. But you need to get rid of him and his negativity in order to make space for a good man to come into your life.



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Posted on Mon, Feb 28, 2005 16:51

If your b/f is into calling you names and making you feel bad what do u get outta the relationship.You sound like nice girl and it sounds like he is making u feel bad about yourself for no reason. Obviously you only gave part of picture but from part you did I'd seriously think of leaving him if thinks don't change...Best wishes:)



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Posted on Mon, Feb 28, 2005 12:44

I do not think he is retarded just a nasty rude bastard you deserve better than that........ make love not war



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Posted on Mon, Feb 28, 2005 06:56

You are gorgeous babe, ditch the dork. Anyone who makes you feel low about yourself is not worth your time. There are plenty of guys out there in that big sea.



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Posted on Mon, Feb 28, 2005 00:12

My advise? Get rid of the boyfriend. It doesn't sound as if he respects, you at all. I don't necessarily look at other woman, but, from your picture, there is nothing ugly about you, and, unless you were a size 2, when you got with this jerk, he obviously thought, so, too.



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