Well Hammer4U , I am in KC MO so take a look at my profile and see if you'd be interested, and if you dont see any compatiblity , I am sure it wont take long though for you to find someone. and a good way to be "seen" is keep posting . Goood luck , goood lookin !!!!!
hmm, well, gotta say it's a personal preference. there were only 3 black men i would've dated, 2 were fellow students i went to highschool with and my former highschool music teacher *HEYA MR.BROWN!! yes that is his rt name! *L*
the men *GENERAL* that i am surrounded in this city with..are ..well..not worth all that much. and most are looking for the anorexic stick bitca not a woman of love warmth and flesh. :D
so i have never dated a black man but that doesna mean i wouldn't. i guess i am just to darned picky. but hey..ya set me up with a tall long haired native american..with the high cheekbones? and i am so all over that!!
also, gotta lookat how i was raised..the quote my father gave me when i turned 13 and started my period. "if you bring a black man home don't bother coming home"
says it all i think.
Goddess bless his soul.
hee..*blush* sorry tangent's. ahem. just finding a GOOD MALE of ANY COLOR would be a treat!!
take care y'all!
I don't have a preference for black men, but I have dated black men. I 'prefer' a man that will accept me for the way I am and treat me with respect. That has nothing to do with race... it has to do with character.
The longest relationship I've had since my divorce was with a black man... and it was a wonderful 6 months until he quit treating me with respect. We have remained friends, but somehow he changed how he was treating me. I think he was afraid of where the relationship was going and decided it was easier to get me to back off than to just tell me he didn't want more... and yes, I was definitely falling for him.
linden wrote: I think people generally pay to much time and engery on the "myth" of race. What is race really???
Hey linden, it's not a myth; there are things out there that seem to affect folks of a certain heritage... sickle-cell anemia is something that tends to only affect blacks, I think it's Tay-Sachs that only affects Jewish people, etc. There are also racial differences in muscle structure (just do a web search.) That's been scientifically proven. So, no, "race" isn't a "myth."
Having said that, there are a lot of folks out there who are turned on by the contrasts in skin color.
And there are those who have been mistreated by folks of their own race, and found the opposite gender of another race to be more loving and accepting towards them.
Take it from a lady read the screen name that is what i want in my life and dear you will find it keep your head up. I am looking for a tall black knight to come riding in on his horse and take me away from KY.
lauralauras. You are quite true in your comments. But i'll venture to say this if you and others agree or disagree then so be it. I think people generally pay to much time and engery on the "myth" of race. What is race really??? When in fact we should get to know people from the way they think, etc.
This topic is rather interesting. A large beautiful woman is sooooo sexy, irrespective of the color. I don't want to speak for all black men, but I think we like a lot of woman to love. Its either that or it is the latin blood I carry. The combination is stimulating. The one conclusion I have come to is that I either need to move to Canada or the UK. Oh yes, and the one vote for Sweden! There seems to be more openess to dating overall. I am ready for a visit! It is time to renew the old passport.
linden write: whats the big deal with race??? we are all gods children and human beings. Date whomever you choose to. For me personally race doesn't matter. What matters to me most is personality, etc. And on that note i'll say be happy for who you are and what you are as a person of worth.
I couldn't agree more! I've been with black men, and I've been with white men. I couldn't care less what a person's skin colour is. There are great black lovers, and great white lovers. There are terrible black lovers, and terrible white lovers. There are kind, considerate whites, and kind, considerate blacks. There are white bastards and black bastards. None of it has anything to do with race or ethnicity.