Hi everyone, Im new to the site and was doing some looking around. First I would like to say I'm glad to see so many supportive people on here. Due to what "society" has ingrained in our heads of what "beautiful" is, all of us who do not fit that mold need to help and support another. And all I have to say about todays "beauty" standards F^%$ em! Marylin Monroe was a 14-16 and she was a s^% symbol, just remember that!!!!!
Okay here it is...Guys need to quit judging women for there body type, i mean who wants a stick anyways??? Thats no fun! lol besides BBW are more flexable and we dont break and complain cause your hittin bone. lol. And yes there are men out there who ONLY like big girls and I have plenty of stalkers here in Oklahoma cause the men here in the south know what a real woman is....A BBW!
Jenny is right people need to stop comparing and start identifying with each other... people here feel comfortable on this site and that it the important thing, not whether you think some one is or is not big enough to be here. Instead of looking at the differences look at what has drawn all of us to this site.
oh and have a nice day and smile
i think that bbw are just the best kinda women out there i would rather someone i could hold over someone i think i may brake LOL. Thick or what ever you wanna call it is the best thing out there this has been my point of view since i started dating.
I'd just like to know that there are men out there that don't mind a thick woman... I'm always alone when I go out and folk always ask me why... well I have no Idea... I just am... men just don't ask me out... I think at times I have ugly written on my forhead... lol... anyway... I feel big, so I must be... I have yet to find a man who loves big women and will say it to my face... lol... oh twell... hope you all are well... have a good one. Happiness to ya!
i would say it is up to the individual to call them selves bbw's! only when they are accepting of the fact they are bbw's can they ever get on with their lives either inside or outside societies normal weight! what ever those other judgemental people call "normal"!!!!
historygal i like your adittude- words from the wise.
everyone seems to be really nice.(so far on this site) i just started looking at this site because i know there is someone out there who will like me 4 me.
What a boring world this would be if everyone was the same size, the same type, or the same flavor. I guess I would be what some would consider a ssbbw, which doesn't mean much to me, but if you want to label me, feel free.
well as for me i think im a VERY sexy BBW. I luv my shape.
i have a big BEHIND! and some nice jugs.
i just have a few problem areas. And I'm working on that. So at least by the end of the summer, I will look exactly how I want to look maybe a size 10/12.
I'm SEXY, CHECK ME OUT FOR YOURSELF!
jenny, for the most part on this site , the ppl that i have chatted with seem to be very nice and down to earth type of folks.. as for me i treat everyone with respect. when i meet someone , whether it is online or in person, i want to get to know them. and the way i see to do that is to be truthful and respectful with them.
if you dont treat ppl properly, how are ever going to find some good friends and even someone to share your life with.
I think that there isn't a specific definition for the term BBW. Its going to depend on what the person interested thinks. I'm a confident person. I am proud of who I am. I've never had a self esteem problem, nor have I had problems going out with men once I joined sites like this one to find the men that like women like me.