Heather>> take it from me "a guy" LOL
just like Mr,GW stated most guys wont think for themselves. the are tooo wound up with what society thinks. me personally, i am the only person the needs to be impressed with the person that i am dating. if someone has a problem with the way a person looks or their "size" , then i have no desire for these ppl to be in my life. i want real ppl in my life. and by the i way i have no understanding of why anyone wouldnt want to be seen with you . you are a very attratctive woman. and a guy would be crazy not to want to have you in their life . that is just my opinion.
You women are missing the most obvious thing. A lot of "men" are so worried about their public immage that they just play "follow-the-leader". In other words, if Large and lovely women are "supposed" to be undesireable then thats what they become for those "men". There are too many people who just do, think,and say what society expects them to. In other words, they do the very easy thing and try not to have to think for themselves. I guess that I really don't know how to get my point accross. Sort of a "follow the crowd" mentality.
I think it depends on the guy ... some would think being 10lbs over "normal" weight is big ... then there is my cousins hubby whos fantasy woman is to have a belly so big it goes to the floor !! he is a feeder and so there is no such thing as too big .... I just think its great we have all those guys who arent shallow and see beauty in BBW and SSBBW...
Hi.....I'm new to the forums here and I just thought i would post a little something too.....I'm from the sw corner of missouri and have been single for over a year now.....it seems none of the guys in this area are into bigger girls.....I am 5'3 a size 20 and i think i have a decent face so i cannot figure out what the problem is......I have no problem talking to guys on ya-hoo from my area....as a matter of fact most of them cant stop telling me how sexy they think i am.......guys that only live 10 to 20 miles from me.........so why cant guys be that way in public...off the computer....its soo confusing to me lol.......whats the deal guys?
Redrose, welcome! I like what you have to say, very honest and insightful.
I can identify with you on looking back at my younger self. That self thought I was huge, but my current self would love to look like my old self. However, since I'm a bit older, I realize that I like me no matter what.......that was something I didn't know then.
I only recently found this site also. I love the exchange of ideas, the chat with like-minded people, and even the occasional praise for being me.......a BBW.........
MayMayLuck write: Okay here it is...Guys need to quit judging women for there body type, i mean who wants a stick anyways??? Thats no fun! lol besides BBW are more flexable and we dont break and complain cause your hittin bone. lol. And yes there are men out there who ONLY like big girls and I have plenty of stalkers here in Oklahoma cause the men here in the south know what a real woman is....A BBW!
It's a good thing WOMEN only choose guys by their merits and inner qualities. Like inner-seam, or merits of credit checks. Nothing shallow like looks for you ladies.
Hi everyone, Im new to the site and was doing some looking around. First I would like to say I'm glad to see so many supportive people on here. Due to what "society" has ingrained in our heads of what "beautiful" is, all of us who do not fit that mold need to help and support another. And all I have to say about todays "beauty" standards F^%$ em! Marylin Monroe was a 14-16 and she was a s^% symbol, just remember that!!!!!
Okay here it is...Guys need to quit judging women for there body type, i mean who wants a stick anyways??? Thats no fun! lol besides BBW are more flexable and we dont break and complain cause your hittin bone. lol. And yes there are men out there who ONLY like big girls and I have plenty of stalkers here in Oklahoma cause the men here in the south know what a real woman is....A BBW!
Jenny is right people need to stop comparing and start identifying with each other... people here feel comfortable on this site and that it the important thing, not whether you think some one is or is not big enough to be here. Instead of looking at the differences look at what has drawn all of us to this site.
oh and have a nice day and smile
i think that bbw are just the best kinda women out there i would rather someone i could hold over someone i think i may brake LOL. Thick or what ever you wanna call it is the best thing out there this has been my point of view since i started dating.
I'd just like to know that there are men out there that don't mind a thick woman... I'm always alone when I go out and folk always ask me why... well I have no Idea... I just am... men just don't ask me out... I think at times I have ugly written on my forhead... lol... anyway... I feel big, so I must be... I have yet to find a man who loves big women and will say it to my face... lol... oh twell... hope you all are well... have a good one. Happiness to ya!
i would say it is up to the individual to call them selves bbw's! only when they are accepting of the fact they are bbw's can they ever get on with their lives either inside or outside societies normal weight! what ever those other judgemental people call "normal"!!!!