I think married people male or female should be able to have friends of the opposite sex but ONLY as long as they are open about it with their spouses.. Open relationship or not.. if its hidden from the spouse it will probably cause problems.. and before anybody asks.. yes my wife has her own pc and her own friends...
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WOW that's alot of travelling..I envy you. Sounds like you have a great head on your shoulders and know where you're going. That is good. And why not the philosophy of if you're going to fail, fail big is a great one to have.
Reach for the stars cause even if you fall short you may still catch the moon!!
It really is true if you don't take the chance you'll never know..hope the job works out for you.
nothing wrong with having friends,,, as a married man i have friends of both gender married and not . as long as your intentions are good no problem. I love my bbw forever no mater what and would not mess that up ..soulmates.. so if i or her has a married friend i trust her and she trusts me ,,,usualy it the guy thats allways a dog and you have to be able to trust your wife to say no ,,, sometimes other way around ,,, but i like mutual friends too . but i do trust her and she trusts me so no problem i just want friends not sex here.....i have all i need of lovin at home.....good luck all and God bless
While you were wondering why you live there and not here, you reminded me while I live here and not there!
I'm still on the job search. I think I may have found one as the Assistant Director of Development at a private school here. So, I'm hoping that works out, I think it would be great!
My major in college was Communication. I also studied A LOT of Public Relations, which would be great for this job.
I went to both high school and college in Oregon, but I have lived in Arizona, Virginia, North Carolina, and Florida. I guess I caught the travel bug! I decided I needed to try something HUGE after I got out of college. This way, if I fail, I'll have failed at the biggest thing I even tried. But everything is going well, so that's good! Now, if I could just get this job thing worked out, LOL!!!
Redheadfire, I agree. I would like to contact some of the women here because I like what they have to say, and I enjoy making friends around the country. I just don't want them to think that I am coming on to them, lol.
I guess email would be best. Start out with a disclaimer, lol......
well this may be a side track from the question...however,,,, the person at presentI consider as my male best friend... is married... did we have an affair...yes... but have we had one in the last 7 years... no... we have been JUST friends... its strange but true......................
I don't think friendship should be limited by age, gender, sexual preference, religion, or anything else. If you click with someone and enjoy each others' company and conversations that's what's most important. If it becomes friends with benefits and your spouse doesn't know about it, then you've crossed a line and entered uncharted territory. As long as friendships remain platonic, they are simply friendships and one's spouse should have no concerns. If your husband or wife are jealous or upset by those friendships though don't expect them to change. They are who they are. The choice is yours to make between your spouse and your friend. Just my two cents.