Can married men have women as friends? Friendship Forward to friends

  • View author's info Posted on Mar 20, 2005 at 06:55 AM

    Hi, Yes I know married people can have friendships online, I have a friend in Texas I talk to we are very close, he has supported me through alot of things in my life, would u like to say more?

  • View author's info Posted on Mar 07, 2005 at 12:06 PM

    I think married people male or female should be able to have friends of the opposite sex but ONLY as long as they are open about it with their spouses.. Open relationship or not.. if its hidden from the spouse it will probably cause problems.. and before anybody asks.. yes my wife has her own pc and her own friends...
  • View author's info Posted on Mar 06, 2005 at 11:29 AM

    YES! Next question.
  • View author's info Posted on Mar 05, 2005 at 04:51 AM

    There is nothing wrong with having friends of the opposite sex when you are married. I have a female friend who is married and like someone said before on here I see her like a sister.
  • View author's info Posted on Feb 23, 2005 at 02:05 AM

    Thanks girlie!

    So far my only failure has been my lack of job. But, I'm still in HAWAII, so how bad can life be?

    It's good talking to you!
  • View author's info Posted on Feb 22, 2005 at 12:15 AM

    Sorry this took so long..comp died reformat...couldn't log on deal.

    WOW that's alot of travelling..I envy you. Sounds like you have a great head on your shoulders and know where you're going. That is good. And why not the philosophy of if you're going to fail, fail big is a great one to have.

    Reach for the stars cause even if you fall short you may still catch the moon!!

    It really is true if you don't take the chance you'll never know..hope the job works out for you.
  • View author's info Posted on Feb 20, 2005 at 02:14 AM

    nothing wrong with having friends,,, as a married man i have friends of both gender married and not . as long as your intentions are good no problem. I love my bbw forever no mater what and would not mess that up ..soulmates.. so if i or her has a married friend i trust her and she trusts me ,,,usualy it the guy thats allways a dog and you have to be able to trust your wife to say no ,,, sometimes other way around ,,, but i like mutual friends too . but i do trust her and she trusts me so no problem i just want friends not sex here.....i have all i need of lovin at home.....good luck all and God bless
  • View author's info Posted on Feb 18, 2005 at 07:16 PM

    Allaryanna, thanks for the message!

    While you were wondering why you live there and not here, you reminded me while I live here and not there!

    I'm still on the job search. I think I may have found one as the Assistant Director of Development at a private school here. So, I'm hoping that works out, I think it would be great!

    My major in college was Communication. I also studied A LOT of Public Relations, which would be great for this job.

    I went to both high school and college in Oregon, but I have lived in Arizona, Virginia, North Carolina, and Florida. I guess I caught the travel bug! I decided I needed to try something HUGE after I got out of college. This way, if I fail, I'll have failed at the biggest thing I even tried. But everything is going well, so that's good! Now, if I could just get this job thing worked out, LOL!!!

    Anyway, looking forward to chatting with you!!
  • View author's info Posted on Feb 16, 2005 at 01:54 AM

    Finding a jobs is one of the more neccessary eveils in life...I'm still waiting for some rich couple to come along and tell me I was switched at birth so I can live a life of luxury..

    Not going to happen..but nice to dream.

    Yes cold is relative...we've been hitting the blustery lows of -35 here lately..though today was, rainy..then freezing, then icy..makes me wonder why I live here and not there..

    This time it was 5 am my time..ick..I look forward to talking whith you and Gortitabella...I think that name is right...BTW..What was your major in and why Hawwaii?..Just curious

    Hopefully we can chat soon....

  • View author's info Posted on Feb 15, 2005 at 01:36 PM

    Well you know, 3 am est time is only 10 pm Hawaii time! So maybe we could chat sometime!

    Sunny Hawaii is surprisingly NOT sunny right now. We've got some storm coming through, so it's blustery and cold here. (Don't forget 'cold' is a relative term!)

    I also really enjoy this site, with few exceptions. Have made some great friends already, always looking for new ones.

    Currently, I spend most of my time trying to find a job. It's REALLY difficult to do that out here, so far. So, I'll see what happens!

    Looking forward to talk to you!
  • View author's info Posted on Feb 15, 2005 at 12:33 AM

    Not much. Yeah I'm looking for friends 'cause I come on line at 3 am EST most of the US and Canada are in bed by then. Thus I spend alot of time looking around doing nothing.

    This sight is great, almost all the posts i have seen are well thought out and articulate. Which is fantastic. So how are things in Sunny Hawaii...must say I'm green with envy...
  • View author's info Posted on Feb 14, 2005 at 01:28 AM

    I think posting is a pretty good way to do it! At worked for me!

    Now we know that you are looking for am I. So what's up??
  • View author's info Posted on Feb 09, 2005 at 01:20 AM

    New here..My question stated previously how do you go about making friends with other women here..or men...

    WITHOUT the come' ons...I'm interested in friends..but I've yet to get a full membership so all I can send are winks...which seem to say "Hey I'm interested..".

    When all I really mena to say sound cool..let's in CHAT..nothing else.

  • View author's info Posted on Feb 05, 2005 at 09:37 PM

    Hey, RedHairFire...

    I too am looking for friends. Am going to gym but have a long way to go. I am in Tex but have family in both Shreve and Boss City. I sent you a wink... Let's chat.

    TexasStar Dust
  • View author's info Posted on Feb 05, 2005 at 08:41 AM

    Redheadfire, I agree. I would like to contact some of the women here because I like what they have to say, and I enjoy making friends around the country. I just don't want them to think that I am coming on to them, lol.
    I guess email would be best. Start out with a disclaimer, lol......
  • View author's info Posted on Jan 31, 2005 at 02:25 AM

    Well, whether the original poster was baiting or not, it was still an interesting topic I wanted to share my opinion on.
  • View author's info Posted on Jan 27, 2005 at 07:50 PM

    Is Preciousone4u the only one who read this guy's profile?

    His was not a serious question. It was bait.

    Ladies, don't waste your time.
  • View author's info Posted on Jan 22, 2005 at 05:33 PM

    well this may be a side track from the question...however,,,, the person at presentI consider as my male best friend... is married... did we have an affair...yes... but have we had one in the last 7 years... no... we have been JUST friends... its strange but true......................
  • View author's info Posted on Jan 16, 2005 at 01:24 AM

    I am in agreement with most of the posts . It depends on the individual history . I f he has demostrated that he can be trusted then it's ok.
  • View author's info Posted on Jan 13, 2005 at 02:18 PM

    I don't think friendship should be limited by age, gender, sexual preference, religion, or anything else. If you click with someone and enjoy each others' company and conversations that's what's most important. If it becomes friends with benefits and your spouse doesn't know about it, then you've crossed a line and entered uncharted territory. As long as friendships remain platonic, they are simply friendships and one's spouse should have no concerns. If your husband or wife are jealous or upset by those friendships though don't expect them to change. They are who they are. The choice is yours to make between your spouse and your friend. Just my two cents.
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