The posts I have read from married men looking for female friends has been those that want a "discreet" female friend. We all know what that means. I think people can be friends married or not. You just have to be open and honest. Besides, If a married person really wants a friend of the opposite gender, then why come to the internet under a Fictitious name and ask to be discreet about it.
Besides, your spouse or partner should also be your best friend. Thats my opinion anyway.
I'm still confused as to where Red has disappeared to. Steve thinks you may have some ideas, and i'm sure he'd love to hear them....as would Doe_Bear, but if you could enlighten me, i'd be very grateful (I love a good mystery!!)
I have a feeling our dear friend Red, must have left the site for good. Maybe she and her hubby have found some other fun ways to spend their time. We shall miss her. Do you have any ideas Miss Southernhux???
I think that having a women friend when you are married can cause problems. Even though it is possible, there is a very fine line that you need to be aware of. You need to be open and honest with your spouse about your friend. Even let her meet your wife and get to know her also.
Sorry this took so long..comp died reformat...couldn't log on deal.
WOW that's alot of travelling..I envy you. Sounds like you have a great head on your shoulders and know where you're going. That is good. And why not the philosophy of if you're going to fail, fail big is a great one to have.
Reach for the stars cause even if you fall short you may still catch the moon!!
It really is true if you don't take the chance you'll never know..hope the job works out for you.
nothing wrong with having friends,,, as a married man i have friends of both gender married and not . as long as your intentions are good no problem. I love my bbw forever no mater what and would not mess that up ..soulmates.. so if i or her has a married friend i trust her and she trusts me ,,,usualy it the guy thats allways a dog and you have to be able to trust your wife to say no ,,, sometimes other way around ,,, but i like mutual friends too . but i do trust her and she trusts me so no problem i just want friends not sex here.....i have all i need of lovin at home.....good luck all and God bless
While you were wondering why you live there and not here, you reminded me while I live here and not there!
I'm still on the job search. I think I may have found one as the Assistant Director of Development at a private school here. So, I'm hoping that works out, I think it would be great!
My major in college was Communication. I also studied A LOT of Public Relations, which would be great for this job.
I went to both high school and college in Oregon, but I have lived in Arizona, Virginia, North Carolina, and Florida. I guess I caught the travel bug! I decided I needed to try something HUGE after I got out of college. This way, if I fail, I'll have failed at the biggest thing I even tried. But everything is going well, so that's good! Now, if I could just get this job thing worked out, LOL!!!