I would first like to say that all women (all sizes) are beautiful.
With that said I do prefer a woman that is heavier than the world' view of a "norman" woman.
The most beautiful women are happy with who they are.
*** Just my humble opinion ***
Oh by the way, I'm on this site, why would I be here if I don't like larger women?
Real beauty will shine through no matter where it is. I've known and worked with on-air ladies in news who had the look, but they were ugly, witches inside, and that's all I saw. Beauty can weigh 90lbs. or 8oolbs. As has been said earlier in this thread, by a pretty woman herself, you have to love and like yourself before others will. Nothing sexier than a happy, confident woman!!
i have to say that like a few gals in this thread i am still a little dubious about men really finding bbw's attractive but i definately feel more attractive from reading the forums over the last few weeks. I think when you feel attractive you are more likely to appear attractive.
FOR ME AGE HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH LOVING BBWS FOR AS LONG AS I CAN REMEMBER I HAVE LOVED BBWS NOW IM A BLACK MAN THAT GREW UP IN TEXAS I CAN REMEBER MY GRANNY WATCHIN HEE-HAW AND I THOUGHT LOU-LOU WAS HOT I USE TO WATCH GEMME-A-BREAK CAUSE NELL CARTER WAS HOT IM ONLY 30 SO I WAS VERY YOUNG WHEN THOSE SHOWS WHERE ON TV IM ATRRACTED TO BBWS AND ALWAYS WILL BE
ON THE REAL I CANT LIE! SIZE DOES MATTER! IM ATTRACTED TO LARGE LADIES! AS FAR AS PEOPLE FEELING THAT LARGE LADIES ARE HARD UP? FOR YALL OUT THERE YOU ARE SO WRONG I'VE SAID IT TIME AND AGAIN BBWS ARE SO MUCH HARDER TO CATCH THAN THOSE SKINNY STICK CHICKS! IN MY OPINION I FEEL I CAN HAVE ANY STICK CHICK I WANT AND HAVE NO PROBLEM AT ALL APPROACHING HER TO SPEND SOME TIME. BUT, BBW'S WHOLE DIFFRENT BALL GAME I DON'T KNOW WHY. OH AND GUYS DO WANT BBW'S THEY JUST BEEN TRAINED BY SOCIETY TO HIDE IT. MY EX-WIFE CHEATED ON ME WITH A NBA PLAYER "SHE WAS A BBW MODEL FOR A NATIONAL PLUS SIZE CLOTHING CHAIN", AND THE LAST RELATIONSHIP I HAD A BBW PLAYED ME LIKE A TEENAGER ON PLAYSTATION. IM NOT BITTER THOUGH BECAUSE I KNOW THERE IS GOOD AND BAD IN ALL SHAPES AND SIZES. I JUST PREFER THE EXTRA-LARGE SIZES
Rivercityman, there are a lot of us guys out there just like you . i admit it when guys are younger it is hard to get past the obvious physical part of a woman. but as i have gotten older, i actually enjoy a conversation with a woman.and yes i do actually pay attetion LOL. not just wondering how long do i have to listen to this , before we can get to the good stuff.
sometimes it takes us awhile before we figure out that the true beauty of a woman is her mind. but when we do WOW, what an expierence
I think society has had alot to do with how we BBWs view ourselves as well. Being asked for a number, often puts out a red flag for me. Every woman and man carries their weight differently. So, unless the person asking is passing out medicine, what's in a number? I used to work part-time in a clothing store for BBWs. I loved that we did in fact receive items labeled: One Size Fits All! (NOT) We all have our own preferences and need to concentrate on finding our best match! A positive attitude goes a long way in my book, just as many of the other posts have stated, beauty comes from within. It's up to each one of us to make the most of that beauty and spread it for all to enjoy! Happy hunting!!!
Pretty funny, nottwiggy ... but I think even with redress you'd find a lot of fraudulent guys (and gals). Good luck collecting, as well.
It's the internet, and it really lends itself to people playing with people. Sad, but the way it is. And guys will behave the same, whether it is a bbw or a wafer-thin model. I don't think the frame really matters, it's more a fault of the predator.
Solution? I don't have one. Just trust your instincts, and follow it up with facts. Seems guys are guilty until proven innocent now, and I actually understand why.
Ok, Let's give the guys a true honest chance to be honest. I for one would love to find that special kissy face huggy bear of a guy who is out there looking for me ! The problem is there are MANY MANY guys on this website and most others too , who are married looking for some sex on the side. They pretend to not be married, come here because they think that BBW are so hard up we would not care if they are married or not. These married men are keeping the truthfull guys from finding us ! I think I would like to see how many women in this website would lke to adopt the following thought process. .. If you are married and posing as single, be aware that you could be guilty of fraud and subject to civil and criminal penalties under federal and state law. For each offense, Title 18, Section 1343 of the U.S. Code authorizes fines of up to $250,000 and jail sentences of up to five years. I personaly reserve the right to report violators to law enforcement authorities and seek prosecution or civil redress to the fullest extent of the law. ... and with that out of the way... where are all those SINGLE BHM singles at ?
I totally agree with Jim about the ugly inside eventually showing through. Many people (men and women) are beautiful to look at, but once they open their mouth -- WATCH OUT!! Personally, my total package includes (but not limited to) -- someone who makes me smile when I see them walking toward me or when I see they have sent me an email, a card or flowers for no reason at all. I also like to let my man know he is cared about even if it's just a note or voicemail to let him know I'm thinking about him.
Let's hope this is the year that we all find that one special person for each of us.
It is my contention that if someone is not beautiful on the inside the minute they open their mouth the outside all but vanishes except to those looking for some type of trophy. Personally I am looking for the total package - Looks and personality. When I say looks I mean the type of woman that is perfect in my eyes and heart. We all have our imperfections but that is what makes us unique and sometimes attractive to others. I also agree with the gent below as that as one begins to mature they find that they need more than JUST physical attraction to find another attractive. The one thing that I hate is when I find myself straining to carry on a conversation. One last opinion from the peanut gallery is in my humble opinion there is nothing more beautiful than a woman that is willing to give herself to one man and one man only for a lifetime. To me that in and of itself is beautiful. Cheers !!!
I think that enough women are not honest with themselves first of all about how big they are (ie all these larger women squeeeezing into clothes) and enough men are not honest with themselves about LIKING the softness, curves, etc. of a BBW. I have always been a little larger than my classmates, friends, etc. It wasn't until I was out of college that I found out how many men like me for who I am. I wasted a lot of years thinking there was no point in going out because no one was looking for someone like me. I always knew I was smart and funny enough, I just never thought guys took the time to notice that part.