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Posted on Sun, Dec 19, 2004 00:00

I few things that I have noticed in my life:

First-You never hear the phrase "Skinny and happy."

Secondly-Just as there are men who prefer thin women there are those of us that prefer BBW as that is who I am physically attracted too. I can truthfully say that if I wanted a thin barbie doll type that I could have one but I DO NOT find them attractive. Now please keep in mind that this is just the physical side of the equation.

Third-It has been my experience that folks (Men and women.) that are deemed physically gorgeous by what is supposed to be societies standards are usually incapable of truly loving anyone else as they usually love themselves most. Now I believe that there are exeptions to this rule.

Forth-I believe as we get older and begin to mature as well as having more of lifes lil lessons below our belts we find that a bad personality can truly make an otherwise pretty person quite homely. I always heard that growing up but never paid much attn to it until I got older. I also believe that as we mature beauty is more of a package deal more-so than simply physical appearance. Cheers !!!



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Posted on Thu, Dec 16, 2004 10:37

oh yeah i absolutely agree wit ya
personally
I like a guy for his personallity. You could meet the most handsomest guy or woman in the world and if the aint gotta a bangin personality with it they could just end up lookin pretty ugly!



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Posted on Tue, Dec 14, 2004 14:56

What a question. First of all I want to say hello to everyone. Well, to tell you the truth size really doesn't matter to me. It's all about your personality and humor to me. I've dated a few skinny guys and they were ok and I've dated a few BHM and their personality was awesome. We got alone, laughed, played and just had a good time. They adored me as if I was a goddess or a queen. Everytime we saw each other he told me how perfect I looked even when I didn't look my best. He wasn't ashame to tell me anything, but the only thing I didn't like about it was...he was scared to fall deep in love with me....WHY?...Crazy Huh...But to me size doesnt matter as long as we can see things alike. All I know is..something love SUCKS..blahhh..lol

  


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Posted on Tue, Dec 14, 2004 12:49

I like BHM guys too.I like tall,stocky guys who have a personality,are laid back and love kids. Please e-mail me at large friends. jackie

  


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Posted on Tue, Dec 14, 2004 03:05

I agree w/ you shy, I just absolutely love BHMs. I love the way they make me feel. In their arms I'm protected against all harm, I'm content to cuddle, mabye it's the way they look at me. That is my "type" if I've ever had one. Don't think that I count the small guys out...I just feel more secure in the arms of a "teddy bear"

  


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Posted on Sun, Dec 12, 2004 22:21

See Im kinda the same way I love BHM. The taller the better and the stocker and bigger the better. I dunno y. I just love em. Im trying to find one with a great personality like mine that loves life and wants the same things I do. I hope one day I will find him.

  


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Posted on Fri, Dec 10, 2004 17:19

Size DOES matter to me.. it has to be Large!!!!!

  


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Posted on Mon, Dec 06, 2004 21:15

Hey Y'all!

I was so glad to see this question come up! I was thinking of posing it myself. First of, like lrgluvr, I am here just to0 chat, but I have flat out fallen in love with this site!

I have always been attracted to what society has heartlessly called "Larger Women".

To me, the only thing separating a sexy woman from a plastic doll is societies view of her!

I have loved many women over the course of my life, and every one of them have had the meat and build capable of standing up to me! I am well over 400 pounds, and if I was ever with one of those "barbie doll" girls that seem so popular, I'd be afraid to touch them!

So lets hear it for the real women on the world! Those beautiful angels that grace us with the inspiring images of this site! (and incidentally Dee, Scoot ain't the only one that wants to chat with you *grin*)

I've just never found skinny girls attractive, so sue me!

Peace,
D

  


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Posted on Thu, Dec 02, 2004 12:56

i am a qoute un qoute newbie..just call me Dragon i will get to the reason in a min..
For me i have admired BBWs since right after high school.. i dated the poles but found out real fast i was happier with larger ladies and have been happy every since..yes there is alot of ppl out there that loves plump, BBW, large, big what ever you want to say..and i am one of them i chat with alot of ladies and no im not trying to get them in bed its just even just chatting with larger ladies you can just tell they are more sincere and easier to talk to "in my opinion "


ok the reason for the dragon nic i have a tat of a dragon that goes from my knee to almost my hip..

i also have a tattoo of a BBW Devil woman on my calf mind you it is the only nude female tattoo my wife will let me get hehehehe..

now i joined this group for both of us but i do like to just chat because i am disabled and cant work .. so i am online most of the time..
P.S sorry about all the off topic stuff but i didnt want to be labled as a guy just trying to get some on the side...

  


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Posted on Wed, Dec 01, 2004 07:28

I definitely agree. Mattel needs to get a clue and realize there is more to women than big FAKE boobs, blonde hair, and a perfect figure. You know they have tackled the different races of a barbie what about the different sizes? That is just my opinion.

shyste

  


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Posted on Mon, Nov 29, 2004 21:18

Thanks chrisg, your a classy one yourself.. you'll get just as lucky...

Sabryna... I love your idae.. lets get with matel and show them what real women look like..



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Posted on Mon, Nov 29, 2004 19:00

Think we should promote your idea tootsc. BBW Barbie dolls for all!!!

  


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Posted on Mon, Nov 29, 2004 18:25

Maybe I can row this cloud you put me into all the way to TN and fall into your arms...

Scoot

ps: gotta work hard to fulfill the travel budget from the website. TN, NH, Canada, UK... man!... need extra cash!.. lol

  


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Posted on Sun, Nov 28, 2004 18:08

Response to scoot...
Welllllll, come on down!! LOL!!

  


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Posted on Sun, Nov 28, 2004 17:37

tootsc...you have class girl..good luck with your search

  


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Posted on Sun, Nov 28, 2004 06:12

I know there are many men who prefer a BBw of which I am thankful. I know you get tired of the skinny things who spend all their time looking in miror. We are as sexy as anyone else.

  


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Posted on Sat, Nov 27, 2004 20:00

Snowflake, Im glad you brought up this subject because I always ask myself the same question. I just joined this site because I am also wanting to meet some wonderful men that do not care that I am a BBW and can look beyond that to see what I have in my heart instead... I have to admit I am pleasantly surprised to see the many men out there that do love us full figured women and that we can be (as scoot says) their idea of the perfect barbie..

  


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Posted on Fri, Nov 26, 2004 17:10

bigcalveslover-

Ever thought of relocating? Need a great man/ canadian here in Ill..

  


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Posted on Tue, Nov 23, 2004 19:48

Scoot you're a cutey!

  


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Posted on Tue, Nov 23, 2004 19:31

for me, it's the bbw attitude,i.e. they are more down to earth easier to get along with. I've dated the barbie dolls and its hard to get past the selfishness.BBWS are my choice.

  


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