It sems to me that mature (not necessarily older) men prefer BBW's. I may be wrong, but I think alot more men than will admit, like a bigger woman. They will marry or date a "barbie type" because that's the "norm" dictated by society. When a man feels comfortable ebough with himself and doesn't follow "the rules" he will go where his heart tells him to- which will be right into the cuddly arms of a BBW! lol Sorry if this sounds like I'm picking on men, I'm really not. Just speaking my two cents worth.;)
I am new 2 this site,i do not have a picture but i will get one soon.To all the bbw out there,hold your head high and be proud of your body.There are men, out there who will over look that,AND BE PROUD TO SHOW YOU OFF. p.s. i am one of them. HAPPY HOLIDAYS rich
Its so good to hear so many positive things about bbw and bhm!! We live in a world where its so easy to be dragged down with the negative veiws on size, that reading some of your messages brought a tear to my eye (really, it did!) Vortibear, what can i say? "beautiful angels", your a good man. 'To love others, first we must love ourselfs' keep up the good work people. xx
You know, I have to say that I love BHMs. I'm 5'11", so a guy that is smaller than myself is really intimidating. Of course, like most girls and guys, you can't pass up a pretty (handsome) face. But, in the end, it's the personality that wins me over completely. You know, I never understood one thing about this website...
I have met guys from this website, claiming that they LOVE BBWs. When we meet, however, they say that they're just not interested in a bigger girl. LoL..I'm a little confused. I mean, wasn't that why they were on the site and said they liked BBWs? Either that, or they're just interested in a one night stand. *rolls my eyes* Just beyond frustrating!
Hi everyone, I am new here and i have to say i love this site. I really did not know how many men, trully like bbw, larger women...I have spent my whole life trying to be something i am not and that is wanting to be skinny. I have spent my whole life dieting, going to weight watchers, exercise clubs, just to try to lose weight, to fit in...OMG!!!!How blind was i, I am a BBW and i am finally ready to accept that. That is who i am and how i am made. I want to thank you all so much for helping me see that, and thank all you guys who take the time to respond and tell us how you feel. I was looking to find happiness but in all honesty, I will never find it as long as i never accepted myself for who i am.... and i am finally able to do that...
First-You never hear the phrase "Skinny and happy."
Secondly-Just as there are men who prefer thin women there are those of us that prefer BBW as that is who I am physically attracted too. I can truthfully say that if I wanted a thin barbie doll type that I could have one but I DO NOT find them attractive. Now please keep in mind that this is just the physical side of the equation.
Third-It has been my experience that folks (Men and women.) that are deemed physically gorgeous by what is supposed to be societies standards are usually incapable of truly loving anyone else as they usually love themselves most. Now I believe that there are exeptions to this rule.
Forth-I believe as we get older and begin to mature as well as having more of lifes lil lessons below our belts we find that a bad personality can truly make an otherwise pretty person quite homely. I always heard that growing up but never paid much attn to it until I got older. I also believe that as we mature beauty is more of a package deal more-so than simply physical appearance. Cheers !!!
oh yeah i absolutely agree wit ya
I like a guy for his personallity. You could meet the most handsomest guy or woman in the world and if the aint gotta a bangin personality with it they could just end up lookin pretty ugly!
What a question. First of all I want to say hello to everyone. Well, to tell you the truth size really doesn't matter to me. It's all about your personality and humor to me. I've dated a few skinny guys and they were ok and I've dated a few BHM and their personality was awesome. We got alone, laughed, played and just had a good time. They adored me as if I was a goddess or a queen. Everytime we saw each other he told me how perfect I looked even when I didn't look my best. He wasn't ashame to tell me anything, but the only thing I didn't like about it was...he was scared to fall deep in love with me....WHY?...Crazy Huh...But to me size doesnt matter as long as we can see things alike. All I know is..something love SUCKS..blahhh..lol
I agree w/ you shy, I just absolutely love BHMs. I love the way they make me feel. In their arms I'm protected against all harm, I'm content to cuddle, mabye it's the way they look at me. That is my "type" if I've ever had one. Don't think that I count the small guys out...I just feel more secure in the arms of a "teddy bear"
See Im kinda the same way I love BHM. The taller the better and the stocker and bigger the better. I dunno y. I just love em. Im trying to find one with a great personality like mine that loves life and wants the same things I do. I hope one day I will find him.
I was so glad to see this question come up! I was thinking of posing it myself. First of, like lrgluvr, I am here just to0 chat, but I have flat out fallen in love with this site!
I have always been attracted to what society has heartlessly called "Larger Women".
To me, the only thing separating a sexy woman from a plastic doll is societies view of her!
I have loved many women over the course of my life, and every one of them have had the meat and build capable of standing up to me! I am well over 400 pounds, and if I was ever with one of those "barbie doll" girls that seem so popular, I'd be afraid to touch them!
So lets hear it for the real women on the world! Those beautiful angels that grace us with the inspiring images of this site! (and incidentally Dee, Scoot ain't the only one that wants to chat with you *grin*)
I've just never found skinny girls attractive, so sue me!
i am a qoute un qoute newbie..just call me Dragon i will get to the reason in a min..
For me i have admired BBWs since right after high school.. i dated the poles but found out real fast i was happier with larger ladies and have been happy every since..yes there is alot of ppl out there that loves plump, BBW, large, big what ever you want to say..and i am one of them i chat with alot of ladies and no im not trying to get them in bed its just even just chatting with larger ladies you can just tell they are more sincere and easier to talk to "in my opinion "
ok the reason for the dragon nic i have a tat of a dragon that goes from my knee to almost my hip..
i also have a tattoo of a BBW Devil woman on my calf mind you it is the only nude female tattoo my wife will let me get hehehehe..
now i joined this group for both of us but i do like to just chat because i am disabled and cant work .. so i am online most of the time..
P.S sorry about all the off topic stuff but i didnt want to be labled as a guy just trying to get some on the side...
I definitely agree. Mattel needs to get a clue and realize there is more to women than big FAKE boobs, blonde hair, and a perfect figure. You know they have tackled the different races of a barbie what about the different sizes? That is just my opinion.