I njoined this site to develop friendships and if something special develops thats good to. But i really dont seem to get positive attention from the guys on this site (bearing in mind i am here to develop friendships) and to be honest it makes me annoyed!
Everyday i walk past people who critise me and i was hoping to feel at ease with males who really liked big women or didnt run at the sight of seeing a 'big' girl.
I find this a shame - but hey, now i feel it's the guys who are missing out and i'm trying not to take it personally.
I have a great sense of self and my esteem is off the charts. Friends always remark on my upbeat manner and contagious laughter. I am self supporting and there is an awefully cute home here with all the necessary needs fulfilled. I am over 300 lbs , under 350lbs.
Thank you, I really like your comments, i can tell you mean that.... that makes me feel really good. I have a friend en Modesto CA... if I ever go by the West Coast will give you a visit and enjoy some of the tihngs you like.
g'day all, vince(32) here from sydney australia, i'm new to this place and i just wanted to say that you'd be hard pressed to find a more genuine, good humored and yes, SEXY bunch of women anywhere. You girls that have posted here have so much to offer (and may i say, are very HOT!) don't let anyone ever tell you otherwise. pity i'm not in the USA, love to chat to you all .....stay beautiful, vince
I have been having a hard time on here I havent gotten any responses. My friend just joined and she is getting all this email from other people and I get a few winks ever now and then I dunno. Oh well, I did just get divorced so I am now playing the field whatever that means lol.
I recognize what a sweet and positive man you are! You ALWAYS find something great to say to us ladies and I for one really appreciate knowing there is a man like you still in this world. Too bad you live so far! A terrific and cute man like you, will only have good things come your way. Hugs!
I know what you mean. Im just below this ssbbw weight range. But for some reason no one has wanted to talk to me either. I have gotten a few winks, but they never follow through, and the ones I have winked at wont talk back. Well who knows maybe its just me. Good luck to you
I was in a relationship were the person didnt tell me I was pretty or ugly. I loved him but I never heard anything about looking nice or smelling nice things like that. I have extremely low self esteem and I think that is one of my problems with finding someone.
Samantha I feel for you. After I had my son ,my EX husband told me how fat and ugly I was everyday then wanted to have sex. that.After three lousy choices in husbands I no longer depend on others for my self esteem.I now like myself and don't give a rats behind about what other people think. If your boyfriend is putting you down, tell him to shape up or ship out.Life is too short to keep negative people around especially when a child is involved.
I hope you find someone who appreciates you