Unfortunately guys don't tell me that anymore. But I remember a while back going to this club in New York that was specifically for large people and fans, I was a size 18/20 and EVERY single man I danced with told me I was cute BUT I just wasn't fat enough. I WAS IN HEAVEN. hee hee hee. Also very ticked. Like you said, I was TOO fat for the "normal" dating sites and too small for the fat dating sites. ARE there really any men out there that will like us for WHO we are and not what we look like????????? grrrrrrr
Now, I think I'm too big for the fat lovers. sigh.