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Posted on Wed, May 23, 2007 21:46

turn ons
hands - strong but clean and not too soft I find completely distracting
warm smile - warms my heart
glint or sparkling eyes - gets me thinking about playing
wit, smarts - a good mind can suduce faster and more thoroughly than anything
compassion - makes my heart swell and me eager to reward
& passion for me - desire amd appreciation for me in his eyes, from his lips... can totally sway me - but if it is just words and he does not really see mee or know meee - its insulting

turn offs
fraidy cats
dishonesty
intolerance, lack of compassion
ego that won't allow being vulnerable or asking for help
Poor listening and talking down
Power over vs power share



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Posted on Mon, May 21, 2007 15:08

- A sense of humor
- Intelligence
- Displays respect for me
- Honesty and integrity
- Great kisser :)

Biggest turn-offs:
-Disrespect
-Dishonesty



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Posted on Sun, May 20, 2007 15:26

A great smile always catches my attention
A guy who smells great
A hard working man
Treasure trails



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Posted on Mon, Feb 19, 2007 06:57

Well I feel obligated to be real on this post. I'm very visual like every man is. (whoever tells you different is a liar) I love thick dark free flowing hair, I love sexy curves, I love a healthy bust (preferrably D and higher), I love soft skin, I like nice makeup on a lady that enhances her features, and lastly I love a good buttocks. Oh one more, nice smelling perfume on a woman is an instant turn on. If this wasn't PG-13 I would tell you much more but....there you go.

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Posted on Wed, Jan 31, 2007 05:02

very intelligent who loves to talk about a variety of decent subjects

someone with the same interests as me-loves the sea, potbellied pig pets, cooking, sharing lots of quality time together

loves to cuddle and be affectionate no matter where we are

nice, soft, gentle voice

has a nice, thick head of silky hair for me to play with

big, gorgeous blue eyes! (my weakness in a guy)

taller than 5:10"

enough muscles to help me up after I pass out when he looks at me with those sexy blue eyes!

has a great sense of humor and can actually make me laugh

someone decent, honest, faithful and a great gentleman with a lot of manners who knows how to treat a woman!



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Posted on Sat, May 27, 2006 17:53

i love hairy chests....not wolf man hairy but a some hair is pleasant....bedroom eyes are my major weakness. don't care what color they are, as long as they are gentle-looking. i love facial hair, nice smile........i kind of find that eyeliner on a guy is a real winner for me!!! i'm into the goth guys.



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Posted on Mon, May 15, 2006 14:48

A deep sexy voice is a definite turn on for me - I simply love the American and Canadian male voice. (I am British) I have a thing for green eyes and sensuous lips - nothing worse than a slit on the face disguised as lips!!!.well groomed hands, a strong masculine face, nice teeth, long hair tied back. A nice bum. A guy in tight jeans collar and tie with jacket. I swoon with delight!!!!



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Posted on Mon, May 15, 2006 12:10

I have a odd turn on but I will share it anyway:

Thumbs, I love guys thumbs, I can barely help myself if a guy rubs his thumb on my hand...

Also if a guy is way smarter than I am that is a total turn on!!



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Posted on Mon, May 15, 2006 10:27

bluegirl2006:
Don't need the goatee and I prefer men who don't shave their head (naturally bald can be good though) but the rest just sounds steamy...I'll add that I absolutely love a hairy chest and a man who smells great....mmmm...



TheCurvyTigeress:

Well as far as the bald thing goes... I think if a guy starts loosing a lot of hair and is going bald already he should shave it all off... looks better and sexier than a horseshoe hairline.



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Posted on Sat, May 13, 2006 00:44

My biggest turn on is firm arms and chest.



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Posted on Tue, Apr 25, 2006 16:27

A man who can make me laugh is one of the biggest turn ons. I like the rough around the edges looks. You know the ones who are a little scruffy looking after a long day of work. Totally gets me :-)



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Posted on Fri, Apr 21, 2006 23:26

Great topic! What really gets me going is a good set of arms. Well developed, strong, muscular. Not like He-Man or anything, but enough so that you see them move when he is lifting things.

Also, someone casually affectionate. He wants to hold hands, or puts his hands on my waist when he is standing behind me.

I don't go much for the baldies myself. And I don't like facial hair usually.

A smooth chest and a treasure trail...that is a powerful combination...LOL.



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Posted on Wed, Apr 19, 2006 06:32

RichardUK write:
I feel bad now :)
But I bet you get compliments all the time on your Blonde hair and height, I know loads of guys love that combination.

Anyway we chatted briefly after I posted that message so we did talk about the height thing.
I said it is probably more to do with my shortcomings at only 5 foot 11 why I probably prefer women 5 foot 5 or under.
Did not mean to insult taller women.

Just as your preference is for men between 6 and 7 foot tall and I don't blame you for wanting that.
Are there any Basketball teams on IOW? :)

I noticed to my disappointment that a lot of women besides wanting men over 6 foot tall also like shaved heads. I used to shave mine when it was unfashionable to do so, I am letting it grow now as I expect it will start falling out in another few years, then I'll buzz it again.


You weren't meant to feel bad ..... and I don't believe you do anyway! And I wasn't insulted ..... can't speak for all the other tall women tho ;)
Sadly no basketball teams over here that I'm aware of, lol.

For what it's worth you shouldn't consider 5'11" to be a "shortcoming" - generally a preference of 6ft plus has a little flexibility in it for most women. I'd say at 5ft11-and-a-smidgeon you'd get away with it in most instances. Personally I have a bigger problem with those who say they are "just under 6ft" but are in reality about 5ft7!

Such is life!



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Posted on Tue, Apr 18, 2006 15:04

Someone I can hold a conversation with and arms. I love arms.



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Posted on Tue, Apr 18, 2006 14:23

I feel bad now :)
But I bet you get compliments all the time on your Blonde hair and height, I know loads of guys love that combination.

Anyway we chatted briefly after I posted that message so we did talk about the height thing.
I said it is probably more to do with my shortcomings at only 5 foot 11 why I probably prefer women 5 foot 5 or under.
Did not mean to insult taller women.

Just as your preference is for men between 6 and 7 foot tall and I don't blame you for wanting that.
Are there any Basketball teams on IOW? :)

I noticed to my disappointment that a lot of women besides wanting men over 6 foot tall also like shaved heads. I used to shave mine when it was unfashionable to do so, I am letting it grow now as I expect it will start falling out in another few years, then I'll buzz it again.



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Posted on Tue, Apr 18, 2006 11:57


Are you implying that I am not a decent fella?

I answered this question "Okay... so lets here what turns your eye, makes you bat your lashes, or stutter a bit. We could actually learn something from this !"

I certainly do value what's on the inside but was asked about the physical characteristics I find attractive and answered accordingly like the many posts before me.



Awww Richard, the "lol" and the giggling smiley were clues that I wasn't being entirely serious.

It was more a touch of frustration at seeing someone who seemed like they could be a decent fella and here's me with all the wrong colouring and 5 inches too tall without a decent hack saw in my girlie tool box!

  


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Posted on Tue, Apr 18, 2006 10:07

her lips when she smiles at you.

her eyes when she gets that wanting look and says nothing.

her "I am woman here me roar", persona that gals get when they do not feel heard.

her soft touch when she cares for her friends and family.

her laugh that gives me a sense of warmth and family.

odd as I am those have been some really true turn ons throughout my life.



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Posted on Mon, Apr 17, 2006 18:54

divadawg001 write:
smooth, dark skin
full lips
dazzling smile
broad shoulders
bald head combined w/goatee....woo woo
ability to make me laugh
on top of some thick thighs

okay..........I gotta stop now.....we gotta keep it clean....keep it clean...LOL

Okay - one last thing....when I see all that listed above sitting on top of a motorcycle......good lawd ! ! ! Talk about making a girl's heart race!! Woo woo woo ! ! !


OMG Diva.. I'm with you... add long legs on a Harley.. I'd say "making your heart race" is the cleanest way to say it!!! lol
WOOO HOOO!



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Posted on Mon, Apr 17, 2006 07:16

Biigbiird after I posted the below message I saw you sent me an IM. I am not used to this site so do not know how long it was there for and as soon as I saw it I replied to you but you had gone.

I was not ignoring you.



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Posted on Mon, Apr 17, 2006 07:01

biigbiird write:

RichardUK write:
Dark skin, dark hair, dark eyes.
Height below 5 foot 5, I find it more feminine.
Long hair,
Well kept nails,
Feminine nature.
Sweet voice,
Physical chemistry



So at 5ft 10 I'm less feminine, and with my blonde hair that's only shoulder length, fair skin and green eyes...... I must be a completely worthless piece of junk, lol.

But hey, maybe there are some decent fellas out there who value what's inside as much as they do the wrapping .....


Are you implying that I am not a decent fella?

I answered this question "Okay... so lets here what turns your eye, makes you bat your lashes, or stutter a bit. We could actually learn something from this !"

I certainly do value what's on the inside but was asked about the physical characteristics I find attractive and answered accordingly like the many posts before me.