I love a big guy. I think a man should be like a bear. All my brothers are around 6'3" so I am used to looking up at guys (I am 5'7"). I think a guy being over 200 lbs is normal, especially if you are tall. I once dated a linebacker...that is a good size for a guy I think. My friends think I am crazy, but I even have a thing for sumo wrestlers. If I ever met a guy that could pick me up I would swoon.
I realize now that I will need to grow 3 inches to reach the the much desirable hgt.of 6'0 and hang from the rack until my sleeve length is 36-40.
Love my women big even if I can't get my short arms around them.
I am not a penguin. 5'9' 290lbs.,only short arms 32 inch sleeves.
cycloid wrote: Yeah I found a girl on this site yesterday. She asked how much I weighed. I told her.
She told me I should be a sumo wrestler instead of going on a date.
OMG! I just don't understand what people like her are doing on a site for BIG PEOPLE and their ADMIRERS?!!?!?! I mean, can you be too ignorant to understand the context of this web site? Is that level of idiocy possible for someone who is bright enough to turn on their computer much less navigate the web?
Not to worry Cy, I'll bet you get inundated with chicks that think you are HOT! HOT! HOT!
I think it depends on the guy. I think some big guys don't look super good when they get big, while other guys, it doesn't seem to matter how much weight they put on they are divine. I guess its the same with women and men.
I must admit, I like tall, lean and toned, not muscular but I have also had the hots for very big guys simply because they have a gorgeous face and personality/intellect to match.
I think women also tend to worry more about the personality and sincerity of the man than the weight.
I definitely like big men! I guess that also depends on your opinion of BIG GUYS. I like my big guy to be at least 6'0" and broad shoulders, after that they can be well built, a few extra pounds or even a little on the fluffy side. I like to roughhouse and wouldn't want to be able to kick his butt. Does that explain BIG GUY well enough? :)
Agree! I am a full figured woman, so I want to be with someone that is my size or larger. We can diet together or just accept each other. If I'm with a thinner guy, I am afraid he might not be as understanding about my weight. Of course there are always exceptions, too.
It's funny, but I used to think that I could only feel feminine, protected and all that other "fairy tale" stuff that we women talk about when we talk about our ideal man. But I have found out differently. My man is much smaller than I, but I still feel protected, feminine, sexy, etc, with him as I did with the teddy bear. Go figure!! I guess that just goes to show that what we like or prefer has more to do with our minds than what is physically there. (At least that is what it is in my case!) But to each woman, her own man!!