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  • View author's info posted on May 29, 2012 19:56

    I used to run BBW Parties in Rhode Island and am so well aquainted with the word 'fat'.  I got involved in the Size Movement many years ago when it was pretty ground level.  Things have changed throughout the years but some people still can't deal with the word 'fat'.  I don't see the problem as long as someone is only using the word for what it really is and not for a name-calling thing.  Thats all :)

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  • View author's info posted on Apr 30, 2011 13:23

    I have a preference for larger women over smaller women. In Spanish, the term "gordita" is a term of endearment and admiration. Many of us who are hispanic actually love larger women who are well endowed with ample buttocks and larger breasts. We perceive those characteristics as sensual, very feminine, and desirable. I do. I have since I was a teenager and just about everybody around me knows of my preference for larger ladies. And me, I am happy with my preference. I doubt that I'll be lonely anytime soon because for me, female beauty comes in all shapes and sizes.
  • View author's info posted on Sep 10, 2009 10:51

    Hey Randi, you're looking really good, love the smile, not afraid of your size, but long to embrace it instead. I'm separated, but divorce is around the corner. I've also been to Va. a few times and loved it. I visited Va. Beach & the Richland/Claypool areas, so where do you in relation to there? I hope you're still available as this was an old post I'm replying to.
  • View author's info posted on Oct 28, 2006 16:56

    i'm new here, and I get what he says. I didn't see your profile before, but even if you did use the word fat, at least you wern't using it in any sort of hurtful manner. I'd rather be called fat in a loving way, then be called something I'm not in a hurtful or sarcastic way. I paid attention to all of the good things he wrote, like his acceptance of all kinds of people and his willingness to try anything... that definately caught my eye. *smiles* awesome.
  • View author's info posted on Jul 24, 2006 18:40

    Arkie, you've gotten so much abuse here. But hey, don't fully give up, alright? I hate the F word as well. So you've learned not to use it. If this was a learning experience, then this was good. See ya' around!

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  • View author's info posted on Jun 02, 2006 15:32

    Heya Curvy,

    You're right but because there is no real way of knowing what someone means when all you have to go on is type I think we all must realize that people still have feelings. In text I think it is even more important to remember that there is a live person on the other end of a message.
  • View author's info posted on May 27, 2006 14:21


    I am probably a little late with this since I am a relatively new member here but... What is wrong with just calling them as they are, women, ladies. Do you really have to add the adjectives at all. Just a thought.
  • View author's info posted on Feb 21, 2006 21:16

    I have been very hurt by some of your comments. I respect people 100% of the time by the way.(I do not need to be called a moron, it makes me feel worse. I know I am not perfect like the rest of us. But, we are all different, that is how it is meant to be.)

    I was going through a fit of depression, I act like a flipping moron when that happens, I am much different when not going through such a fit. :P

    I just hope everyone is cool with me now, I really mean no harm by using the word "fat" or by being here. I did not know. We all make mistakes alot, I just did not know people here would not like being called "fat"... it's suprising, but, I admit it's still a little too "direct" of a word to use here.

    Say what you will, I am just going to be patient and see what happens. Thanks once again for all of your advice, it helps. But what is wrong with my attitude... what are you saying? I know how to treat a woman, what are you talking about? Are you saying my negative attitude is the reason? Well then, I have to agree then...
    (i will tone down the fat stuff in my profile, thanks for notifying me)
  • View author's info posted on Feb 21, 2006 16:48

    mmmmm.. an 18 yr old calling us beautiful ladies fat. Reminds me of the closed mindedness of middle school days
  • View author's info posted on Feb 21, 2006 08:15

    Yeah well good for you how about me calling you a flipping moron.. Hey I'm just saying things like they are.. Not evey one enjoys being called fat.. Grow up and learn to respect people better then maybe you will find some one..
  • View author's info posted on Feb 21, 2006 03:36

    Yeah... obese is a horrible term.
  • View author's info posted on Feb 20, 2006 16:51

    I prefer the word fat over obese. I am fat and that is rather obvious. So I have no problem with someone calling it like it is. Fat.
  • View author's info posted on Feb 20, 2006 15:11

    Eh... I don't mind fat. I am a fat man. "Big" is probably the safer more PC term though... bit like calling a black person a black person instead of a you-know-what.
  • View author's info posted on Feb 19, 2006 06:39

    kewannap write:
    First of all sweetie.... we may be fat... but we don't like being called fat. Your choice of words is probably going to keep you lonely and depressed.

    I agree Kewannap and now he's not telling his mother about this dating site and have HER pay $19 for a website she doesn't approve of?
  • View author's info posted on Feb 19, 2006 04:37

    "I am mature and wise"
    "It is difficult for me to be like this. But, I should just be patient with this place and makes some fat friends".. Ok now who agrees with me here I think.. He's just trying to get a good laugh off of this.. Site at our expense because his second.. Post wasn't much "WISER".. Then the 1st even after being informed of his poor choice of words..Look I know your young but if your serious.. Not many girls really dig being called fat..So I'd drop that word if you.. Don't wanna end up being your right hands best friend for a long time..LoL
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