Rock is correct. You're going to find both. Some guys still have the "She's got to be desperate for it since she's fat" attitude and use BBW's just for sex. On the other hand there are those (myself included) who don't mind at all being seen in public with a BBW. Hey, a beautiful woman is a beautiful woman no matter her size.
I'm confused. Are you asking if guys hook up with big girls just to use them and then take off? The jerks will....just like in the skinny girl world. There are some fantastic men who aren't afraid to explore and share something they feel comfortable with - even in public. Who is more uncomfortable in public? You or your slimmer companion?
Guys see bbws as a easy score honestly.. Because we are more tend to have low self esteem problems.. Not that all do!! But I've actualy herd guys say.. "well fat girls give it up easy" So unless you are luckey.. And actualy can find one that really wantes a relashionship with a bbw.. I'de say most do just use bbws for fun yea..
Its a bit of both Design ...it depends, if the guys is a down right BU_TT PLUG and doesnt want to be seen with u in public (yes that happened to me) then u know its purely sxual, then theres the other side of the coin ... and those guys are the ones you want to keep around