I'm confused. Are you asking if guys hook up with big girls just to use them and then take off? The jerks will....just like in the skinny girl world. There are some fantastic men who aren't afraid to explore and share something they feel comfortable with - even in public. Who is more uncomfortable in public? You or your slimmer companion?
Guys see bbws as a easy score honestly.. Because we are more tend to have low self esteem problems.. Not that all do!! But I've actualy herd guys say.. "well fat girls give it up easy" So unless you are luckey.. And actualy can find one that really wantes a relashionship with a bbw.. I'de say most do just use bbws for fun yea..