WHY IS IT SOO MANY MEN DONT HAVE PICTURES ON HERE? love

  • View author's info posted on Dec 05, 2006 21:13


    biigbiird write:
    It's entirely up to the individuals whether they post a pic on their profile.

    They have made their decision not to, for whatever reason. Equally I have made my decision not to respond to any winks from guys with no pic.

    It's no big deal - we're all adults, so do what's right for you as an individual and quit whinging!

    Re:





    I agree... However I'd like to point out the fact that I run into the same thing from the FEMALE side also!
  • View author's info posted on Nov 28, 2006 10:39


    Interestingly, another site I'm on, with the words Cupid and OK in the title, have an interesting attitute to this.

    If you get a message or mail from a menber without a photo it gives you a message "no photo - be suspicious"

    Sound advice if you ask me - if I'm brave enough to post my mugshot I expect any "interested" fella to do the same!
  • View author's info posted on Nov 12, 2006 12:42


    Some of them just may be shy, and its very understandable.
  • View author's info posted on Mar 26, 2006 12:34


    I do exactly the same as Biigbiird - No photo, no reply ....

    Picture being the wrong size, or wrong format is no excuse because if you have a computer all that can be solved.

    I like to see who Im talking to.
  • View author's info posted on Mar 26, 2006 01:18


    It's entirely up to the individuals whether they post a pic on their profile.

    They have made their decision not to, for whatever reason. Equally I have made my decision not to respond to any winks from guys with no pic.

    It's no big deal - we're all adults, so do what's right for you as an individual and quit whinging!
  • View author's info posted on Mar 24, 2006 21:07


    I really think it is wrong and shallow of women or men to assume that because a pic isn't up they are hiding something. Sometimes the site will reject certain pics I have tried to put up because of being the wrong size or something. But to say a guy is not being honest or to imply that he has something to hide because he doesn't post a pic is wrong. You don't want to be judge simply because you look good in a pic right girls? You want to be judged for what's inside. Well, judge me for what I wrote...and if you have doubts email me...I know my email will attach a pic and I can send it to you.
  • View author's info posted on Mar 07, 2006 20:40


    Even if you don't have a digital camera or scanner, chances are you probably know someone who does. You don't have to tell them what the photo is for, or what site you're putting it one. Just tell them you need it for work, to send to your grandma or whatever.

    Even if you only have a regular (film) camera, shoot a pic and then have walmart or your local drugstore put the pic on CD. It's pretty cheap and bound to increase your winks!
  • View author's info posted on Mar 07, 2006 16:47


    In case their wives catch them of course!! lol
  • View author's info posted on Mar 06, 2006 18:28


    allsofttouches write:
    Wow, Kewannap! You are very gracious! Thank you, I only caught your posting today, 3/5/6.
    Thank you again.



    You are welcome sweetie!
  • View author's info posted on Mar 02, 2006 14:49


    Well is so nice to finally see your picture allsofttouches! You are one handsome dude! It's only a matter of time before you're snatched up now! lol
  • View author's info posted on Mar 01, 2006 06:43


    There is another way of posting a pic even if you dont have a scanner or a camera... A mobile phone with a camera... All you need to do is take the pic n send it to your email account... simple as...

    Of course thats if you have a camera on your phone but im sure a friend wouldnt mind you borrowing theres for one pic
  • View author's info posted on Feb 23, 2006 10:13


    Since I no longer have a computer of my own and mainly use the one assigned to me at work, I am not on the site as much as I used to be, so I did not notice that there was a place where you can see the history of people who have winked at you. Today I noticed the history feature and I saw that 90% of the men who winked at me did not have a pic. Of those, only two or three of them had more than two lines in the area where they describe who they are and who they are looking for. I am no longer looking for anyone, but if I were, I don't think that I would look forward to chatting with most of them. Not because they did not have a pic, but because I would think that they had not put much thought in joining this site. I would think that they were only doing this because they don't have anything better to do on the net. If one does not supply a pic, I would think that they would say something in their profile that would give people an impression of who they are and the type of person that they hope to meet here. To me, the pic is not as important as a profile as long as the profile gives me an idea of what I might have to look forward to if I were to try to get to know someone. In my book, a detailed profile will get my attention much quicker than a pic. Maybe lack of an in depth profile is keeping many from the relationship that they desire.

    Just my two cents.
  • View author's info posted on Feb 23, 2006 02:19


    See all the pain I went threw just to take a picture and its not a very good one sorry :
  • View author's info posted on Jan 17, 2006 12:59


    Some men are hiding something!! lol There are other options to putting a picture on the profile.(a friend with a camera or scanner) But, if you truly cannot post a picture, I would also say, to put more time into filling out your profile. Many do not have alot of description.
  • View author's info posted on Jan 16, 2006 10:07


    I'm the same Feisty...No picture no reply. I get the feeling these guys that don't have a picture posted are hiding something.

    Just my opinion
  • View author's info posted on Jan 15, 2006 20:37


    I'll be honest. I delete any winks I get without a picture.

    I just don't think it's fair that I post a picture and they don't. They have the advantage and they're not allowing me the chance to see them.
  • View author's info posted on Jan 15, 2006 07:58


    Hi, I'm a fella with a pic posted. I did think twice though, I take a horrible pic and they never do me justice.Maybe other guys feel the same?

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  • View author's info posted on Jan 14, 2006 12:01


    kewannap write:
    Some of them say they don't have access to a digital camera or scanner. I personally think that some are most likely married.

    Some could be married but why bother not posting your pic?

    Im not married but I am taken ... which is in my profile for all to see. Some people just wanna meet some new people.

    And if they are married you can avoid the married ones by ignoreing the ones without pics! So .. it's kinda doing you a favour maybe?
  • View author's info posted on Jan 12, 2006 17:14


    jaguarsfan1996 write:
    I understand how you feel.

    For me, it's not that the photos simply aren't there, but they really don't say much in their profile's either. If you aren't going to post a pic, at least describe yourself well (and I don't just mean looks).


    not just our looks eh? was that a dirty comment? oh my .... tsk tsk ... hahaha jk.
  • View author's info posted on Jan 12, 2006 16:16


    I understand how you feel.

    For me, it's not that the photos simply aren't there, but they really don't say much in their profile's either. If you aren't going to post a pic, at least describe yourself well (and I don't just mean looks).
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