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Posted on Wed, Feb 01, 2006 02:10

I dont mind being called baby in an intimate, affectionate way but i cant stand being called babe - reminds me of the pig film lol



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Posted on Sat, Jan 28, 2006 04:25


Wow... I'm not your man .. hell i don't think i could pass for a friend. Hehehe .. dancing isn't in me... i can avoid stepping on toes most the time you'd better wear steel toes ... just in case.



Hey if someone is willing to try thats cool - i enjoy dancing so someone prepared to dance is a huge plus for me but its the crazy fools who think they can moondance or even worse breakdance! its a lawsuit waiting to happen.



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Posted on Fri, Jan 20, 2006 16:49


Bubs, I'm with you all the way on the feet issue...ewww
Ditto false teeth, I've got a bit of a phobia.


OMG...False teeth.......EWWWWW
N sorry...Gotta go back to the feet thing...I cannot possibly see how there is anything sexy, erotic, pleasant about ruddy feet...they are just gross n awful and yeah, I would have a real problem if I met a cute sexy fella who had a thing about feet....I truly think I would have to say sorry, but no way!!!So....does that make it a no no fetish?

  


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Posted on Mon, Jan 16, 2006 09:38

I'm with you Rockchic. I long to be a groupie. Not because of the scene, but because I have such a passion for music. I swear I'm in the wrong business. LOL :-)

Michigan's not that far... say, how'd you like a "groupie" from ohio? LOL *plays air guitar and bangs head crazily*



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Posted on Sun, Jan 15, 2006 22:57

Hey the morning S3x is Fine ... just as long as there is no kissing first thing ...

Bulgarith thats one of the first things that would impress me, that you were a musician, nothing to do with what u earn, cant stand those band skanks who hang with muso's for the scene and not the music ... lol

And Cindi ..thats some strange dude that u met there ... lol Most blokes prefer to be taller, unless of course u are Tom Cruise

  


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Posted on Sat, Jan 14, 2006 16:40

Cindi, you do well to keep away from those nasty little control freaks. Strange, cos most small men don't like a taller woman, so it coulda been worse, he could have asked you to walk on your knees lol

Bubs, I'm with you all the way on the feet issue...ewww
Ditto false teeth, I've got a bit of a phobia.



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Posted on Sat, Jan 14, 2006 14:14

Ahhhh I will add my 2 cents here too... biggest turn off for me (aside from all those mentioned above) is when u tell a guy something u do not like and he demands that u do it anyway.... talked to one guy and he prefers his women taller then him and since I am not taller than him and DO NOT want to be.. he tells me I WILL wear high heels when I am with him. Well hey I am not with him......... I just don't get it... do u?



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Posted on Sat, Jan 14, 2006 13:54

too funny theo! ...
crumbs and crikey? lol!....
i've never even heard "crikey" before....
but i'd have to laugh or at least
grin if i were to hear
it in "the moment"....
that's great! lol...

  


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Posted on Sat, Jan 14, 2006 11:51

lindajayf write:
That must have taken quite some control on your friends behalf!!!

That will continue to amuse me all day!!

Turn-offs for me - bad dancing!!


Wow... I'm not your man .. hell i don't think i could pass for a friend. Hehehe .. dancing isn't in me... i can avoid stepping on toes most the time you'd better wear steel toes ... just in case.



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Posted on Sat, Jan 14, 2006 11:39


bubs write:
OK...I have just had a lovely chat with a member on the LF messenger..which I rarely use...U know who you are!!
This member was approached with a request...that she wash his feet nightly!!
I ask you!!
Feet, of all things are a real phobia for me...I deal with them, as a nurse..but if its one thing thats a turn off for me, is anything to do with feet!!!
Whats your turn off????????????



Sorry to do this to ya Bubs...but there is A LOT to be said about a nice foot massage and occasional toesucking...of course this must happen "apres bath"! Tis very hot indeed.....MMMMMMMMMM
PS: I have NO idea if I did that whole quote thing correctly...
~Shelley~



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Posted on Sat, Jan 14, 2006 05:12

That must have taken quite some control on your friends behalf!!!

That will continue to amuse me all day!!

Turn-offs for me - bad dancing!!



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Posted on Fri, Jan 13, 2006 20:15

My #1 Turn-off? Chronic, habitual liars!



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Posted on Fri, Jan 13, 2006 17:47

agreed...... but you dont need to kiss in the morning you can just skip on to the morning sex .... brushing teeth takes time that can kill the moment too..... guess ill keep ticktacks at bedside.



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Posted on Fri, Jan 13, 2006 16:08

Guys who do not believe in themselves are a total turn-off for me.



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Posted on Fri, Jan 13, 2006 11:39

A big turn off for me is people who think they are better than you are.
I've met woman who during the first part of a conversation ask how much money you make at your job. Kinda gives them away on what there after.I play Drums and a little Guitar and set in with local bands from time to time, and woman would not give me the time of day until I go up and play, Then they just want to be around me to impress there friends...Big turn off.



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Posted on Fri, Jan 13, 2006 02:17

Kissing first thing in the morning .... EWWWWWWWWWW got to at LEAST brush teeth ... mouth wash or even TIC TAC !!

  


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Posted on Thu, Jan 12, 2006 18:38

*splort*

What a great story. Can you imagine?

Oh, fiddlesticks!



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Posted on Thu, Jan 12, 2006 17:38

Theophrastus write:
I have size 14 feet... so Zbig keep back!

The only person I've ever met with bigger feet than me was a drag queen and she had these size 15 silver rinestone-encrusted platform boot things.

Purely out of interest, do the other big guys on here also have big feet? I used to have a friend at school who was a big guy and he had these ridiculous size 8 feet which made him look like a loosely tethered weather balloon whenever he walked around because he was one of those people who mostly stores fat in his bum so he had this gigantic arse with really skinny legs and tiny feet... and chronic acne. He was a funny looking bloke.

Speaking of turn-offs (and because I'm in an annecdotal mood) at uni I had this female friend who was basically one conversation away from hooking up with this guy and he asked me what she liked and I told him out of pure malice that she was utterly repelled by foul language. Anyway, a couple of weeks later she came into class and sat down nursing this really puzzled expression. Apparently she'd had sex with this guy the night before and he'd taken my fradulent advice too literally so apparently during sex she kept on hearing him go "Oh crumbs!" and "crikey!" and "goodness me" rather than the more usual but decidedly more obscene phrases that normally spring to one's lips during sex. She said it was like trying to shag a character from the Beano which is a British comic book for very young kids.


That there is funny. You should be awarded some evil points for that one, then again no harm really came of it. As for the foot question, 280lbs 6'0 size 12 feet. My buddy kevin is 350 6'5 and has like 14 or 15. Perhaps there is merrit to your statement?



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Posted on Thu, Jan 12, 2006 17:25

I have size 14 feet... so Zbig keep back!

The only person I've ever met with bigger feet than me was a drag queen and she had these size 15 silver rinestone-encrusted platform boot things.

Purely out of interest, do the other big guys on here also have big feet? I used to have a friend at school who was a big guy and he had these ridiculous size 8 feet which made him look like a loosely tethered weather balloon whenever he walked around because he was one of those people who mostly stores fat in his bum so he had this gigantic arse with really skinny legs and tiny feet... and chronic acne. He was a funny looking bloke.

Speaking of turn-offs (and because I'm in an annecdotal mood) at uni I had this female friend who was basically one conversation away from hooking up with this guy and he asked me what she liked and I told him out of pure malice that she was utterly repelled by foul language. Anyway, a couple of weeks later she came into class and sat down nursing this really puzzled expression. Apparently she'd had sex with this guy the night before and he'd taken my fradulent advice too literally so apparently during sex she kept on hearing him go "Oh crumbs!" and "crikey!" and "goodness me" rather than the more usual but decidedly more obscene phrases that normally spring to one's lips during s8x. She said it was like trying to shag a character from the Beano which is a British comic book for very young kids.



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Posted on Thu, Jan 12, 2006 16:09

Bad breath.
Stinky armpits.
Dirty bathrooms.