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Posted on Mon, Jan 15, 2007 20:34

I'm not a big fan of a person who can't take a joke or is entirely too happy/flighty

I suppose I wonder if those people will be in thier game face when the crunch comes down, just one of those things



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Posted on Thu, Jul 13, 2006 19:02

hi im richie im from niagara falls ny im a big teddy bear try of guy i stand about 6"4' 360 looking 4 someone who likes big tall men . im disable lean & have try 2 diabics
looking 4 help will tell you more if your interested....



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Posted on Thu, Jul 13, 2006 09:27

my absoulute turn off is when someone doesnt wash their hands after they go to the bathroom, it bothers me soo much lmao lmao



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Posted on Tue, Jul 11, 2006 16:58

hi FeistyFatChick

you are hot

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Posted on Sat, Feb 18, 2006 22:27

Nah theo...he didn't so much "get to me", but rather he insulted me. I don't expect too much from people, accept common decency.

keep in mind, I think of myself as a pretty forward thinking gal...as corupt-minded as everyone else, (probably more so)...

...I just think it is an insult to my intelligence for anyone to assume I would fall for a sex-invite with insulting language without reasonable provocation.

OK, well, yes, he had momentarily 'got to me".

But you know what? I've interacted with some pretty cool, interesting chaps here, you especially, and he stuck out as such a bummer, it made for interesting "copy".

I dig you Theo...you are the real deal.

  


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Posted on Sat, Feb 18, 2006 21:15

Turn Off: People who don't pronounce common words correctly. "Aks" instead of "ask" or "breafass" instead of "breakfast" for instance. REALLY bugs me.



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Posted on Sat, Feb 18, 2006 13:49

Yeah... I mean if you can't talk about rimjobs you your friends then who CAN you talk about them to?

wow... I guess that guy really got to you huh Vici?



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Posted on Sat, Feb 18, 2006 13:04

Turn off No 1: Someone who parades as someone who wants friendship. But moment the small talk ends, just enough to put you at ease, they think they "got ya hooked", so it's all rim jobs, bj's and cybersex talk after that.

If someone doesn't want to be friends, but just an online sex partner, they should say that UP FRONT. Pretending to be friends first is annoying times a thousand.



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Posted on Fri, Feb 17, 2006 14:12

The same as many .... bad hygiene, rudeness, dishonesty, ignorance, invading my personal space when it's not wanted, trying too hard ....

Jeez is it any wonder I'm single?!

  


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Posted on Thu, Feb 09, 2006 10:54

I agree with all the above..but the saltly taste of sweaty feet? ummmmmmm No. But I like to massage feet if the lady likes that. after a good cleaning and rub down with some nice lotion, I love those cute dainty little toes. turn offs? I think its a huge turn off if someone refers to their past relationships too much. I expect to hear a little but if the lady is busy reliving the past, I say relive it solo. However, I like the smoky taste of a good wet kiss as long as we observe proper dental hygeine.



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Posted on Thu, Feb 09, 2006 02:49

ssbbwgal write:
A real turn off for me is a "me or I" man. That means a man that can talk about nothing else cept how great he is..........blah blah blah YUCK!

I know what you mean ssbbwgal..i had a date with a fella once who rabbited on all evening about himself and his job and how good he was and how he was so indispensable. I tried to steer him to other topics but whatever i chose, it came back to how hes done it/gonna do it/will do it etc. and then at the end of the evening he had the cheek to say that i
d been quiet all evening and was i shy! Not normally rude but had to retort "No, just struck dumb by the magnitude of your ego" :D



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Posted on Thu, Feb 09, 2006 02:39

Theophrastus write:
I have size 14 feet... so Zbig keep back!

The only person I've ever met with bigger feet than me was a drag queen and she had these size 15 silver rinestone-encrusted platform boot things.

Purely out of interest, do the other big guys on here also have big feet? I used to have a friend at school who was a big guy and he had these ridiculous size 8 feet which made him look like a loosely tethered weather balloon whenever he walked around because he was one of those people who mostly stores fat in his bum so he had this gigantic arse with really skinny legs and tiny feet... and chronic acne. He was a funny looking bloke.

Speaking of turn-offs (and because I'm in an annecdotal mood) at uni I had this female friend who was basically one conversation away from hooking up with this guy and he asked me what she liked and I told him out of pure malice that she was utterly repelled by foul language. Anyway, a couple of weeks later she came into class and sat down nursing this really puzzled expression. Apparently she'd had sex with this guy the night before and he'd taken my fradulent advice too literally so apparently during sex she kept on hearing him go "Oh crumbs!" and "crikey!" and "goodness me" rather than the more usual but decidedly more obscene phrases that normally spring to one's lips during s8x. She said it was like trying to shag a character from the Beano which is a British comic book for very young kids.


You mean quoting Beano phrases isnt the norm Theo? Must have been getting it wrong all these years ;) :D



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Posted on Mon, Feb 06, 2006 15:37

Well said Venivici, couldnt agree more :)

  


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Posted on Sun, Feb 05, 2006 17:51

Wow. The hangups about the feet cracked me up! Feet schmeet. Wash em',take care of them, and they are no different than any other part of your body. Who cares if you have funny feet, or pretty feet, or any other type of feet. Exploring the body without overstressing about every little bump and lump is the very epitome of being a "largefriend".

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Posted on Sun, Feb 05, 2006 14:35

Shy_Smile write:
Weird but not much turns me off on the kinky side of things. Id have to say a girl who is clingy and wont leave me alone at times is a huge turn off. I think i learnt that from my ex.

Id go to a friends place without telling her and she would call my phone non stop till it was flat and drive to all my mates places and parents house one by one just to find out where i was. Meeting me at my car from work, following me around, spying, to see what i get up to when she says 'you can have some time to yourself.. 'Freak!

So yeah, being a nutcase is a turn off for me!



I've gad a similar stalker situation, Shy. If I was 2 minutes later home from work than normal my answering machine would be full, and he even kept track of the mileage on my car to make sure I wasn't out doing stuff he didn't know about.

The sad thing is that he had absolutely nothing to be paranoid about... That is until after we broke up and I had a few police officer friends of mine tail him for a few days just to freak him out. He still thinks someone is out to get him!

  


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Posted on Sat, Feb 04, 2006 14:04

my thing is hygenie ....i can't, can't stand anyone with bad personal hygenie...body odor is big turn off ... i get very catty about things like that ...if i can smell u then i know u can smell u...and even though some of my friends have explained that for some individuals it's a cultural thing ...i can't get pass it ...or crusty teeth is also a big nono, i don't care if it's not straight , but brushing is essential ...ewwwwww



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Posted on Sat, Feb 04, 2006 07:53

Shy_Smile write:
Weird but not much turns me off on the kinky side of things. Id have to say a girl who is clingy and wont leave me alone at times is a huge turn off. I think i learnt that from my ex.

Id go to a friends place without telling her and she would call my phone non stop till it was flat and drive to all my mates places and parents house one by one just to find out where i was. Meeting me at my car from work, following me around, spying, to see what i get up to when she says 'you can have some time to yourself.. 'Freak!

So yeah, being a nutcase is a turn off for me!


Oh, that wouldn't turn me off.



It would make me so scared I'd attempt to convince the authorities I needed to be in the witness protection program.


Granted, I am a worrier myself. So, if I am expecting to see or hear from someone at a certain time and I don't for a few hours after I expect to, I start envisioning grizzly car accidents. I get the feeling though, that you weren't living with her at the time, she just did that if you weren't home when she called, which is all sorts of creepy.



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Posted on Fri, Feb 03, 2006 01:43

Weird but not much turns me off on the kinky side of things. Id have to say a girl who is clingy and wont leave me alone at times is a huge turn off. I think i learnt that from my ex.

Id go to a friends place without telling her and she would call my phone non stop till it was flat and drive to all my mates places and parents house one by one just to find out where i was. Meeting me at my car from work, following me around, spying, to see what i get up to when she says 'you can have some time to yourself.. 'Freak!

So yeah, being a nutcase is a turn off for me!



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Posted on Wed, Feb 01, 2006 14:18

laylawoman write:
I dont mind being called baby in an intimate, affectionate way but i cant stand being called babe - reminds me of the pig film lol


then I would recommend you not visit the southern states... we say that a lot here.... it's just a saying



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Posted on Wed, Feb 01, 2006 02:33

I'd say my number 1 turn off was bad personal hygiene. Smelly people.

I know how you feel Layla. one thing I can't stand is when people in shops call me "mate". As long as a customer I should be "sir".



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