TURN OFFS? DATING

  • View author's info posted on Jul 11, 2006 16:58


    hi FeistyFatChick

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  • View author's info posted on Feb 18, 2006 21:15


    Turn Off: People who don't pronounce common words correctly. "Aks" instead of "ask" or "breafass" instead of "breakfast" for instance. REALLY bugs me.
  • View author's info posted on Feb 18, 2006 13:49


    Yeah... I mean if you can't talk about rimjobs you your friends then who CAN you talk about them to?

    wow... I guess that guy really got to you huh Vici?
  • View author's info posted on Feb 09, 2006 10:54


    I agree with all the above..but the saltly taste of sweaty feet? ummmmmmm No. But I like to massage feet if the lady likes that. after a good cleaning and rub down with some nice lotion, I love those cute dainty little toes. turn offs? I think its a huge turn off if someone refers to their past relationships too much. I expect to hear a little but if the lady is busy reliving the past, I say relive it solo. However, I like the smoky taste of a good wet kiss as long as we observe proper dental hygeine.
  • View author's info posted on Feb 09, 2006 02:49


    ssbbwgal write:
    A real turn off for me is a "me or I" man. That means a man that can talk about nothing else cept how great he is..........blah blah blah YUCK!

    I know what you mean ssbbwgal..i had a date with a fella once who rabbited on all evening about himself and his job and how good he was and how he was so indispensable. I tried to steer him to other topics but whatever i chose, it came back to how hes done it/gonna do it/will do it etc. and then at the end of the evening he had the cheek to say that i
    d been quiet all evening and was i shy! Not normally rude but had to retort "No, just struck dumb by the magnitude of your ego" :D
  • View author's info posted on Feb 09, 2006 02:39


    Theophrastus write:
    I have size 14 feet... so Zbig keep back!

    The only person I've ever met with bigger feet than me was a drag queen and she had these size 15 silver rinestone-encrusted platform boot things.

    Purely out of interest, do the other big guys on here also have big feet? I used to have a friend at school who was a big guy and he had these ridiculous size 8 feet which made him look like a loosely tethered weather balloon whenever he walked around because he was one of those people who mostly stores fat in his bum so he had this gigantic arse with really skinny legs and tiny feet... and chronic acne. He was a funny looking bloke.

    Speaking of turn-offs (and because I'm in an annecdotal mood) at uni I had this female friend who was basically one conversation away from hooking up with this guy and he asked me what she liked and I told him out of pure malice that she was utterly repelled by foul language. Anyway, a couple of weeks later she came into class and sat down nursing this really puzzled expression. Apparently she'd had sex with this guy the night before and he'd taken my fradulent advice too literally so apparently during sex she kept on hearing him go "Oh crumbs!" and "crikey!" and "goodness me" rather than the more usual but decidedly more obscene phrases that normally spring to one's lips during s8x. She said it was like trying to shag a character from the Beano which is a British comic book for very young kids.


    You mean quoting Beano phrases isnt the norm Theo? Must have been getting it wrong all these years ;) :D
  • View author's info posted on Feb 06, 2006 15:37


    Well said Venivici, couldnt agree more :)
  • View author's info posted on Feb 05, 2006 14:35


    Shy_Smile write:
    Weird but not much turns me off on the kinky side of things. Id have to say a girl who is clingy and wont leave me alone at times is a huge turn off. I think i learnt that from my ex.

    Id go to a friends place without telling her and she would call my phone non stop till it was flat and drive to all my mates places and parents house one by one just to find out where i was. Meeting me at my car from work, following me around, spying, to see what i get up to when she says 'you can have some time to yourself.. 'Freak!

    So yeah, being a nutcase is a turn off for me!



    I've gad a similar stalker situation, Shy. If I was 2 minutes later home from work than normal my answering machine would be full, and he even kept track of the mileage on my car to make sure I wasn't out doing stuff he didn't know about.

    The sad thing is that he had absolutely nothing to be paranoid about... That is until after we broke up and I had a few police officer friends of mine tail him for a few days just to freak him out. He still thinks someone is out to get him!
  • View author's info posted on Feb 03, 2006 01:43


    Weird but not much turns me off on the kinky side of things. Id have to say a girl who is clingy and wont leave me alone at times is a huge turn off. I think i learnt that from my ex.

    Id go to a friends place without telling her and she would call my phone non stop till it was flat and drive to all my mates places and parents house one by one just to find out where i was. Meeting me at my car from work, following me around, spying, to see what i get up to when she says 'you can have some time to yourself.. 'Freak!

    So yeah, being a nutcase is a turn off for me!
  • View author's info posted on Feb 01, 2006 02:33


    I'd say my number 1 turn off was bad personal hygiene. Smelly people.

    I know how you feel Layla. one thing I can't stand is when people in shops call me "mate". As long as a customer I should be "sir".
  • View author's info posted on Feb 01, 2006 02:10


    I dont mind being called baby in an intimate, affectionate way but i cant stand being called babe - reminds me of the pig film lol
  • View author's info posted on Jan 28, 2006 04:25



    Wow... I'm not your man .. hell i don't think i could pass for a friend. Hehehe .. dancing isn't in me... i can avoid stepping on toes most the time you'd better wear steel toes ... just in case.



    Hey if someone is willing to try thats cool - i enjoy dancing so someone prepared to dance is a huge plus for me but its the crazy fools who think they can moondance or even worse breakdance! its a lawsuit waiting to happen.
  • View author's info posted on Jan 20, 2006 16:49



    Bubs, I'm with you all the way on the feet issue...ewww
    Ditto false teeth, I've got a bit of a phobia.


    OMG...False teeth.......EWWWWW
    N sorry...Gotta go back to the feet thing...I cannot possibly see how there is anything sexy, erotic, pleasant about ruddy feet...they are just gross n awful and yeah, I would have a real problem if I met a cute sexy fella who had a thing about feet....I truly think I would have to say sorry, but no way!!!So....does that make it a no no fetish?
  • View author's info posted on Jan 16, 2006 09:38


    I'm with you Rockchic. I long to be a groupie. Not because of the scene, but because I have such a passion for music. I swear I'm in the wrong business. LOL :-)

    Michigan's not that far... say, how'd you like a "groupie" from ohio? LOL *plays air guitar and bangs head crazily*
  • View author's info posted on Jan 14, 2006 16:40


    Cindi, you do well to keep away from those nasty little control freaks. Strange, cos most small men don't like a taller woman, so it coulda been worse, he could have asked you to walk on your knees lol

    Bubs, I'm with you all the way on the feet issue...ewww
    Ditto false teeth, I've got a bit of a phobia.
  • View author's info posted on Jan 14, 2006 11:51


    lindajayf write:
    That must have taken quite some control on your friends behalf!!!

    That will continue to amuse me all day!!

    Turn-offs for me - bad dancing!!


    Wow... I'm not your man .. hell i don't think i could pass for a friend. Hehehe .. dancing isn't in me... i can avoid stepping on toes most the time you'd better wear steel toes ... just in case.
  • View author's info posted on Jan 14, 2006 11:39



    bubs write:
    OK...I have just had a lovely chat with a member on the LF messenger..which I rarely use...U know who you are!!
    This member was approached with a request...that she wash his feet nightly!!
    I ask you!!
    Feet, of all things are a real phobia for me...I deal with them, as a nurse..but if its one thing thats a turn off for me, is anything to do with feet!!!
    Whats your turn off????????????



    Sorry to do this to ya Bubs...but there is A LOT to be said about a nice foot massage and occasional toesucking...of course this must happen "apres bath"! Tis very hot indeed.....MMMMMMMMMM
    PS: I have NO idea if I did that whole quote thing correctly...
    ~Shelley~
  • View author's info posted on Jan 14, 2006 05:12


    That must have taken quite some control on your friends behalf!!!

    That will continue to amuse me all day!!

    Turn-offs for me - bad dancing!!
  • View author's info posted on Jan 13, 2006 20:15


    My #1 Turn-off? Chronic, habitual liars!
  • View author's info posted on Jan 13, 2006 17:47


    agreed...... but you dont need to kiss in the morning you can just skip on to the morning sex .... brushing teeth takes time that can kill the moment too..... guess ill keep ticktacks at bedside.
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