TheCurvyTigeress write: I had another one try to IM me the other day. I always seem to get the guys that want a demanding woman... I'm spoiled to a certain degree (aren't we all) but I'm not bossy normally so I don't know where this is comeing from. I'm confused!
I don't know. I looked at your profile and didn't see anything there that would make someone think you're a dominating woman. Maybe it's having Tigress in your screen name? I really don't know, you seem sweet enough to me lol
I have a submission fetish which I've talked about under another topic here, but with submission you really have to draw the line between what's fanstasy and waht's real.
Being dominated or humiliated in any non-sexual situation is ugly.
TheCurvyTigeress write: Well I now have a fetish related problem to add to this topic... got a guy writing to me and wants to meet me this Mon, hes a submissive, is 6ft4, an exhibitionist, has subed professionally, and wants me to own him if everything works out with us and we develope a relationship. My prob... How do you own someone? I don't even have much experience with sex... I don't know how to take charge of something I have only done twice (or take charge of someone so big!)... I guess we are in for a long talk when we meet... If we meet, I still have to arrange some stuff so it might not happen.
Ok, so it's after Monday but here goes anyway. If he's subbed professionally and you've never Dommed and have no interest in it you could end up with a problem on your hands. I'm not into the whole B*DSM thing but have a few friends who are. If he's going to want to do the whole Dom/sub thing with you, and you're game for it you really need to learn more about it beforehand. If he's wanting you to "own" him, it sounds like he could be into the Total Power Exchange thing which (to my understanding) means he will be sub to you 24/7 in all matters. If you want an equal in a relationship that's not what you'd be getting.
If the two of you are going to meet, it needs to be with the understanding that it will not be as a D/s. Then, if you two hit it off, go into discussing the whole of what both of you want/expect in a relationship, especially if it's to include a D/s relationship between you. From what you said, I have a feeling you might be getting into more than you care for. Just my opinion of course.
Thanks, I had this on my Blog to and realized that it's way over my head... if I meet him I will make shure he understands that it's to get to know HIM! and that I'm curiouse about the other stuff but that anything concerning that would be later on in the relationship, if it worked out. I would also look into info about it. I'm really not shure if I'm going to pursue it though. I don't have enough experience with just sex itself and I don't know why these guys think I'm the one for them... I had another one try to IM me the other day. I always seem to get the guys that want a demanding woman... I'm spoiled to a certain degree (aren't we all) but I'm not bossy normally so I don't know where this is comeing from. I'm confused!
TheCurvyTigeress write: Well I now have a fetish related problem to add to this topic... got a guy writing to me and wants to meet me this Mon, hes a submissive, is 6ft4, an exhibitionist, has subed professionally, and wants me to own him if everything works out with us and we develope a relationship. My prob... How do you own someone? I don't even have much experience with sex... I don't know how to take charge of something I have only done twice (or take charge of someone so big!)... I guess we are in for a long talk when we meet... If we meet, I still have to arrange some stuff so it might not happen.
Ok, so it's after Monday but here goes anyway. If he's subbed professionally and you've never Dommed and have no interest in it you could end up with a problem on your hands. I'm not into the whole B*DSM thing but have a few friends who are. If he's going to want to do the whole Dom/sub thing with you, and you're game for it you really need to learn more about it beforehand. If he's wanting you to "own" him, it sounds like he could be into the Total Power Exchange thing which (to my understanding) means he will be sub to you 24/7 in all matters. If you want an equal in a relationship that's not what you'd be getting.
If the two of you are going to meet, it needs to be with the understanding that it will not be as a D/s. Then, if you two hit it off, go into discussing the whole of what both of you want/expect in a relationship, especially if it's to include a D/s relationship between you. From what you said, I have a feeling you might be getting into more than you care for. Just my opinion of course.
TheCurvyTigeress write: Well I now have a fetish related problem to add to this topic... got a guy writing to me and wants to meet me this Mon, hes a submissive, is 6ft4, an exhibitionist, has subed professionally, and wants me to own him if everything works out with us and we develope a relationship. My prob... How do you own someone? I don't even have much experience with sex... I don't know how to take charge of something I have only done twice (or take charge of someone so big!)... I guess we are in for a long talk when we meet... If we meet, I still have to arrange some stuff so it might not happen. Oh, glad you got it bubs.Its ok we all have diffrent ways of saying things... was talking to a friend about B.O.B's and a lady we knew didn't know what it was and we were like, look you need educating def of BOB is Battery opperated boyfriend... she was like Ohhh... what? we were like go to a sex store who knows you might like it and buy it.
WOW Tigress. This sounds like something you should take 2 steps back on and then walk the other direction, FAST! From what I have read of you this simply isn't your style in the least. Granted I could be wrong considering you and I have never talked and we dont really know each other.
But for real. Unless you had at some point in the past an actual fantasy of being a dominatrix then you should not do it. If you have then sweetheart go for it, cause if its your style, let it out baby.
Granted next time we see you on here you will most likely have all leather on standing next to a man tied up with a ball in his moth while your whipping him.
Galaxy2000 write: Good point about not doing these things casually with just anyone. Not only do we have to have the right person to bring the best in the experience, but we also have to be worried about the STD's. I'm totally clean and damn sure plan on staying that way.
As for the positions, multiple make the night, morning, nooner, afternoon romp, whatever, more enjoyable all around. Does anyone have a favorite position? Its tough for me to pick just one, but if I have to it has to be regimental. Yea
DOGGY STYLE!!!
MMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM. Nothin like given it from the back slow and hard at the same time. Good pick Future.
One of these days when I bother to start paying for this site I will really have to talk to to you. mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm!
Galaxy2000 write: Good point about not doing these things casually with just anyone. Not only do we have to have the right person to bring the best in the experience, but we also have to be worried about the STD's. I'm totally clean and damn sure plan on staying that way.
As for the positions, multiple make the night, morning, nooner, afternoon romp, whatever, more enjoyable all around. Does anyone have a favorite position? Its tough for me to pick just one, but if I have to it has to be regimental. Yea
Well I now have a fetish related problem to add to this topic... got a guy writing to me and wants to meet me this Mon, hes a submissive, is 6ft4, an exhibitionist, has subed professionally, and wants me to own him if everything works out with us and we develope a relationship. My prob... How do you own someone? I don't even have much experience with sex... I don't know how to take charge of something I have only done twice (or take charge of someone so big!)... I guess we are in for a long talk when we meet... If we meet, I still have to arrange some stuff so it might not happen. Oh, glad you got it bubs.Its ok we all have diffrent ways of saying things... was talking to a friend about B.O.B's and a lady we knew didn't know what it was and we were like, look you need educating def of BOB is Battery opperated boyfriend... she was like Ohhh... what? we were like go to a sex store who knows you might like it and buy it.
missgulfcoastgirl2000 write: I love spanking rough sex hair pulling being talked dirty too being pinned down and creative positions but the most important thing is being with the right person I don't do any of these things casually.
Oh yeah, hair pulling too. I almost forgot. But, yeah, the spanking and hair pulling have to be an agreed on thing with the right person
bubs write: OOOKKK.....So is the " glazed doughnut " thing the same language barrier that " Moustache Rides " was?
Ok bubs, this is how it is, the the glazed donut thing is a vocalization of a visual thing... imagion what on a persons body would look like a donut hole then add "glaze" and if you can't imagion what the glaze is then your definitely lacking in dirty mindedness.
LOL
Ok I just came back to this topic and even though it?s old I had to comment.
How on earth can you not get this analogy. Anyway lets just say I like to get a really good taste.
OHHHHHHHHHHHH.......I get the picture!!! Slow on the uptake, I know
Good point about not doing these things casually with just anyone. Not only do we have to have the right person to bring the best in the experience, but we also have to be worried about the STD's. I'm totally clean and damn sure plan on staying that way.
As for the positions, multiple make the night, morning, nooner, afternoon romp, whatever, more enjoyable all around. Does anyone have a favorite position? Its tough for me to pick just one, but if I have to it has to be regimental. Yea
I love spanking rough sex hair pulling being talked dirty too being pinned down and creative positions but the most important thing is being with the right person I don't do any of these things casually.
bubs write: OOOKKK.....So is the " glazed doughnut " thing the same language barrier that " Moustache Rides " was?
Ok bubs, this is how it is, the the glazed donut thing is a vocalization of a visual thing... imagion what on a persons body would look like a donut hole then add "glaze" and if you can't imagion what the glaze is then your definitely lacking in dirty mindedness.
LOL
Ok I just came back to this topic and even though it?s old I had to comment.
How on earth can you not get this analogy. Anyway lets just say I like to get a really good taste.
bubs write: OOOKKK.....So is the " glazed doughnut " thing the same language barrier that " Moustache Rides " was?
Ok bubs, this is how it is, the the glazed donut thing is a vocalization of a visual thing... imagion what on a persons body would look like a donut hole then add "glaze" and if you can't imagion what the glaze is then your definitely lacking in dirty mindedness.
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