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Posted on Fri, Oct 07, 2005 08:14


kewannap write:
whatever you say dear... you are obviously the expert at life.... lol

Have a wonderful day!



Nah...most definately not an expert at anything. I however, don't throw out assumptions and generalizations about others.

One thing we can agree on tho.. have a good day!



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Posted on Fri, Oct 07, 2005 07:24

Hmmm not sure if it a fetish, its more like what i would luv 2 get my hands on:
6ft and above, very muscular black guys,with bald heads,if i could just get my hands on one of them kind of guys i would be in heaven, or would settle for LL COOL J, any one got his number xxxxxx



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Posted on Fri, Oct 07, 2005 01:31

OHHHHHHH to have been that girl in vegas BB !!! Motley crue are coming out here in dec, if I can get a hold of TLee I have to give him a kiss for page 14 in his book tommy land ... lol he talks about big gals and sticks up for us and says we are the hottest things in bed .... lol and when I told my friend that, all she could say was ... "yeah but look who he married" .... gee thanks for bursting my bubble there for a second there friend ! lol ....

Anyways, Sin I have to say myself that I have also spoken to guys who have said BBW are more "real" ... whatever that means in their own mind .... but I know many a person who arent BBW who are very real ....

And Jinley, if we ever come across TLee and Dave Navarro together , we will do the eenie meenie miney moe thing ... then swap ... lol



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Posted on Thu, Oct 06, 2005 22:08

whatever you say dear... you are obviously the expert at life.... lol

Have a wonderful day!



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Posted on Thu, Oct 06, 2005 20:04


kewannap write:
When I said it has to do with age... I meant that since I am older than you... I have been around longer and have had a little more experience.... good or bad.... I don't understand why you feel the need to make this personal... I just don't get it. But if that's what you want to do... go right ahead.... it only makes you look silly.



Okay..let's see here:

1. I didn't make anything personal.. I just stated that perhaps you need to look at why you seem to be the only one here who runs into men that are claiming such things (because I haven't heard anyone else state they have)

2. Just because you are 15 years older than myself, also doesn't necessarily mean you have "more experience". I could possibly have dated more men than you and could possibly have more experience. You are just making an assumption based on the fact you are older than myself.

3. As for making myself "look silly". Um... ok. I didn't know that merely making a statement in regards to you seeming to be the only one experiencing something on this site, or in life...makes me "look silly". I'd rather think that you making bogus assumptions such as you having more experience simply because you are older than myself... would make you look far more silly than myself.



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Posted on Thu, Oct 06, 2005 17:31

When I said it has to do with age... I meant that since I am older than you... I have been around longer and have had a little more experience.... good or bad.... I don't understand why you feel the need to make this personal... I just don't get it. But if that's what you want to do... go right ahead.... it only makes you look silly.



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Posted on Thu, Oct 06, 2005 15:32


kewannap write:
Yep... guess I have had different experiences than you. Maybe it has something with being older.... who knows.... Have a nice day!



Feel free to chalk it up to whatever you'd like kew....when I search male profiles I search ages 30-40 as I find I connect better with someone older. The majority that check my profile out and message me are 35-55... so I don't think age has anything to do with it.

Perhaps it has to do more with how you present yourself to these men... just a thought.



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Posted on Thu, Oct 06, 2005 15:15

Yep... guess I have had different experiences than you. Maybe it has something with being older.... who knows.... Have a nice day!



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Posted on Thu, Oct 06, 2005 12:19


kewannap write:
Again Sinfully... I am just stating MY experience and what men have told me. You can assume whatever you want. You guys are obviously not getting it... oh well. I guess you haven't really
read a lot of the men's profiles here. On a lot of them, you will read just that phrase... that want a bbw because she is more real. Have a wonderful day!



I'm not assuming anything actually...

And yes I have read alot of profiles and not one has stated a larger woman is more "real" But hey...you may have had a different experience as you say you have.

I do find it entertaining however that "us guys just aren't getting it" simply because we don't agree with your generalization of larger women being "more real". I'll also be the first to say... if I read a gentlemans profile and it stated that.. I wouldnt respond to him. But that of course is just me. I don't like generalizations regardless of what side of the scale they are on.



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Posted on Thu, Oct 06, 2005 12:03

Again Sinfully... I am just stating MY experience and what men have told me. You can assume whatever you want. You guys are obviously not getting it... oh well. I guess you haven't really read a lot of the men's profiles here. On a lot of them, you will read just that phrase... that want a bbw because she is more real. Have a wonderful day!



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Posted on Thu, Oct 06, 2005 11:58


Freysh write:
Hey Kew as i ahve stated in other threads just because i'm fat doesn't mean that i'm any less shallow or nice or caring or anything else because i'm fat.

The bbw's are desperate and will take anything concept is very over used and to see a women supporting it is just sad.



I never said you were. I think you are misreading everything I type these days. I know you don't care for me but geez.... give it a rest already... lol... smile! it will make you feel better!



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Posted on Thu, Oct 06, 2005 06:31


They prefer a larger woman because she is more "real" and not hung up on herself.


I'm kinda bewildered by the above comments...

"Prefer a larger woman because she is more real"...so now...thin people aren't real? Althetic people aren't real? Average people aren't real? Wow... that's interesting.. when did this come into play? Must have missed that Health lesson in school. Not sure if it's what you meant, but definately a bad choice of words to state that larger women are real... sounds like discrimination to me in reference to anyone that isn't fat.

And I know MANY larger women that are indeed "hung up on themselves". I've been told I am... why? Because I take pride in how I look. I shop for nice clothes, I take time to do my hair, and my makeup..and thus I am "hung up on myself". I don't think it is.. I think it's wanting to look and feel my best... fat or thin people are hung up on themselves...so thats a complete generalization that you've made in your statement.



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Posted on Mon, Oct 03, 2005 07:26


Freysh write:
Thank god Sinfull

you have stated it well.

Please read this Kew.



I did read it Freysh... and it supports my opinion. The guys I am talking about don't need to be with a bbw for s*xual gr@tification. They prefer a larger woman because she is more "real" and not hung up on herself. There is a big difference there. I never said that there weren't men like that... but it is not fair to lump every man who prefers larger women into the fetishist category. To most, it is just a preference.



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Posted on Mon, Oct 03, 2005 01:39


Rockchickbbw write:
Trixie I love big rough hands too .... and even if they arent rough, I love them to be big and veiny .... and Sin, it was funny when I wrote that last post on Boy Bands... and then after I sent it I remembered that AJ from Backstreet Boys ... and he is an Exception to the rule THATS for sure ... he is very yummy!!



LOL Yes he is definately an exceeption to the rule... *growls* Tommy Lee is hot tho and Dave Navarro? Um hello!!



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Posted on Sun, Oct 02, 2005 23:57


Rockchickbbw write:
Dave Navarro and Tommy Lee



*mmmmm* you're choice of men is outstanding, though I like all kinds of men *grin*

LoL! One of the few times I was in Vegas, my friend and I saw Tommy Lee making out with some chi*ck! I couldn't keep my eyes off of him but, we couldn't go anywhere NEAR HIM! WTF!! I wanted a closer look !!!

  


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Posted on Sun, Oct 02, 2005 22:26

Trixie I love big rough hands too .... and even if they arent rough, I love them to be big and veiny .... and Sin, it was funny when I wrote that last post on Boy Bands... and then after I sent it I remembered that AJ from Backstreet Boys ... and he is an Exception to the rule THATS for sure ... he is very yummy!!



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Posted on Sat, Oct 01, 2005 08:29

I love to have my man wear long rubber gloves..........
keeps his hands soft while he does the dishes! LOL

Seriously...a bald head is always a winner with me. Lovely to touch....mmmmm



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Posted on Fri, Sep 30, 2005 23:38

Okay English Lesson:

Preference: the act, fact, or principle of giving advantages to some over others

Fetish:an object or bodily part whose real or fantasied presence is psychologically necessary for sexual gratification and that is an object of fixation to the extent that it may interfere with complete sexual expression

So... if you like a gal with blue eyes and brown hair vs a blonde haired brown eyed girl it's a preference.

If the girl HAS to be a brunnette in order for you to be interested, recieve satisfaction, etc...it's a fetish.

So my post earlier..to clarify is a preference.. NOT a fetish LOL



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Posted on Fri, Sep 30, 2005 17:54


Rockchickbbw write:
Dave Navarro and Tommy Lee



I'm with Rockchickbbw on this one...



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Posted on Fri, Sep 30, 2005 15:46

My PREFERENCES are.... men taller than me... either long hair or bald... a man with meat on his bones.... a deep voice.... omg... I have got to stop this and go find BOB!