could someone be honest? Am i ugly? Just Chat

  • View author's info posted on Sep 25, 2005 at 07:11


    NewGirl,

    You were too kind by calling that jerk a gentleman...anyway, you are not ugly, not by a long shot. Don't give that idiot rent-free space in your head. You are pretty. And probably one of the few people on this planet who has the gumption and good heart to smile at a total stranger. That is the most beautiful thing in the world. A genuine smile is a signal that a person is kind and open enough to give and receive good things. NEVER LET ANYONE STEAL THAT BEAUTY FROM YOU!

    See, the power of cruel people like that is, if that you're going through an insecure moment, and who isn't, at times...the negative comments will echo in your brain until they become a tidal wave. You might even start believing them. Haven't we all been there? It takes about twenty good comments or favorable events to cancel out a negative one.

    Forget about that fool! Please go around smiling and expecting good things. I always say "Good Morning," "Good Afternoon," etc. I give a compliment. I even talk to strangers in elevators, I hold doors, carry packages for elderly people and I give up my seat on the bus when big strapping men don't...things that any decent person should do.

    It feels really great to make someone's day. Keep reaching out and giving kindness. It will come back to you.
  • View author's info posted on Sep 24, 2005 at 19:32


    You are definitely not ugly, you don't have anything to worry about.
  • View author's info posted on Sep 24, 2005 at 16:50


    what a POS. I hate people like that. they have their heads so far up their own colons they think that everything is about them.
    Also, he was dead wrong. You wouldnt even come near the 'ugly' rating. I think youre cute, and you have a nice warm and friendly look about you. note, you smile at people regardless, and he treats random people with undeserved abuse- rest assured that youre obviously a much better and more worthwile human being than he is.
  • View author's info posted on Sep 24, 2005 at 01:29


    Don't worry about what that guy said, he probably had his beer glasses on and didn't even realize! Lol

    I bet he was actually trying to get some attention on himself since no one else will give him any.

    No honey, you're not ugly soon you'll be telling the guys who are banging down your door to get a number and wait in line!
  • View author's info posted on Sep 24, 2005 at 00:44


    newgirl, you are such a cutie. Dont let the ugliness of one mean guy crush your spirit. I sometimes find people project their own issues on others and you just have to walk away. Just know that you are a doll.
  • View author's info posted on Sep 23, 2005 at 23:11


    You?? Ugly?? Not in the least!! He was only inflicting on you how he feels about himself.

    Don't let idiots like him make you doubt your beauty or make you change your "pretty" demeanor. Keep on smiling at strangers when you feel like it and spread your joy onto others.
  • View author's info posted on Sep 23, 2005 at 18:38


    god.......to be able to set stupid people on fire by a glance alone.......

    You are a lovely young lady.....whoever made that comment was the ugly one....

    Keep smiling...and don't put up with any crap......next time email me and I'll come kick his a$$!!!!!
  • View author's info posted on Sep 23, 2005 at 17:24


    newgirl, you have absolutely nothing to worry about :) you could have guys beating your door down if you wanted haha... take care!
  • View author's info posted on Sep 23, 2005 at 10:59


    You're a cutie! Some people are just jerks... accept that and know that you're a better person!
  • View author's info posted on Sep 23, 2005 at 10:57


    I can't believe some people. That guy is just an a-hole. I'm not going to even bother answering the question, because you already know the answer. I just hope you won't let someone like that affect you in any way.
  • View author's info posted on Sep 23, 2005 at 10:26


    Well that guy must have been high on crack or something, just ignore it!

    No way are you ugly!
  • View author's info posted on Sep 23, 2005 at 09:26


    i think your picture is quite good, you are cute

    don't worry about random nobodies and what they think of you... just be yourself. as long as you can accept your lifestyle and appearance nothing else matters
  • View author's info posted on Sep 23, 2005 at 07:48


    The bunghole who said that to you, could look like Adonis but would still be one of the ugliest people around.

    You are most definetly NOT ugly. In fact, if you weren't so young and so darn far away...
  • View author's info posted on Sep 23, 2005 at 07:37


    OMG that is horrible. Of course you are not ugly.Actually you are cute. I have had similar experiences you just have to blow them off, which is easy to say and hard to do. Don't give him or anyone like him a second thought. He doesn't deserve even that much from you. He sounds like the ugly one, he must be a miserable person to treat others that way.
  • View author's info posted on Sep 23, 2005 at 07:10


    I read that and my jaw hit my desk, I think I may develop bruising.

    You are not ugly.

    I think that "gentleman" needs a mirror, though.

    On the other hand, I have been there. Been moo'ed at by passing cars while waiting for the bus, called Shamu, etc into infinity. I always try to tell myself people that would insult a total stranger are also people that I would not like, and that they are beneath me. I know that to be true in my head. My emotions, though, never agree with me, and it frequently ends up with me trying to find the nearest place to hide and cry.

    So *hugggggggggggs* I firmly believe karma will get people like that.
  • View author's info posted on Sep 23, 2005 at 02:56


    I swear the pure ignorance of some people just astounds me. To address the question at hand: No you are not ugly..very cute in fact!

    As for that "stranger" pay no attention to them... although makes ya wonder how full they are of themselves that a simple smile makes them assume you'd be interested in them! LOL
  • View author's info posted on Sep 23, 2005 at 02:06


    To be fair all we've got to go on is a picture of your face. You could be all tentacles from the neck down ;-)

    Alternatively you could have done ugly things like been on a columbian death squad or maybe you enjoy setting fire to homeless people.

    But no... I don't think you're ugly. That person's just a silly head and best ignored.
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