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Posted on Tue, Oct 11, 2005 03:15

i can't believe that a guy would say that to you dana..... i'm glad you got him back



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Posted on Tue, Oct 11, 2005 03:01


jackthelass write:

The guy that said that to you obviously fell out of the Ugly Tree, hitting every single branch on the way down.



lol! that's the exact same thing I told a guy today who said to me that i shouldn't even waste my time looking at him(it was my friend who was standing next to him i was looking at). that i wasn't worth any attention or any thing like that. I told him that i would never waste my time on a guy who fell out of the ugly tree! lol
Boy did he have a red face and was laughed at!!



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Posted on Mon, Oct 10, 2005 02:39

Newgirl, you are gorgeous. Don't ever doubt it for even a second.

The guy that said that to you obviously fell out of the Ugly Tree, hitting every single branch on the way down.



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Posted on Sun, Oct 09, 2005 13:16

Perhaps its a bit late to join the post, but in order to be ugly you must be physically and mentally unattractive.

You are clearly neither.

Physical looks are only 30% of the equation the other 70% revolves around character and attitude.

So I suggest you ignore all comments from mentally deranged people as unimportant - since a comment like that can only come from a very ugly person.

As shakespeare said beauty is in the eye of the beholder , and i behold you all as beautiful ...

andy

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Posted on Wed, Oct 05, 2005 13:09

no your not ugly the man who said this is ugly and twisted inside and he should have be greatfull that someone took the time to smile at him as in this world we live in not many have the time to smile at others anymore you keep smiling and Ignore the man with that ugly streak in him

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Posted on Tue, Oct 04, 2005 21:10

First, let me echo other comments by saying I think you're really cute.

Second, your experience makes me wonder, why is it that the a**holes of the world feel obligated/allowed to make fun of big people?

I can't tell you how many times I've been walking down the street and some jerk has called out "Hey, Porky!" or muttered "Jeez, you take up the whole sidewalk" or whatever.

What perplexes me the most are the ones who shout something along the lines of "Hey! You're fat!!"

What exactly is the purpose of such comments? Do they think I don't KNOW I'm fat? What makes my size their business, when I haven't even looked at them, let alone tried to talk to them? And what's so wrong with our society that people derive such utter glee from making these horrible statements?

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Posted on Mon, Oct 03, 2005 15:29

Obviously a freak - ignore it. You are so not ugly.



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Posted on Sun, Oct 02, 2005 17:22

ok before i offend u firstly u are way pretty!

secondly i think he may actually be a bbw admirer in the closet! he probably doesn't wanna admit to himself or any1 else that he finds us curvettes attractive!

also has anyone ever noticed when you stare in the mirror or at a pic of urself u look more unattractive by the second?

and my last comment is people like him are put in this world to......try our patience......make us look at ourselves and ask am i who i want to be?...... and make us p~ss ourselves thinking uglyness is a matter of sight and i will be above all else more beautiful than a slime bag like u can ever be!!!!!!!

hugs hunny

cuddly x x x



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Posted on Wed, Sep 28, 2005 10:58

The only thing "ugly" was his attitude. And unfortunately, you can't judge that kind of ugly until they open their mouths. Too bad they don't make attitude adjustment pills. He needs one. You are definately not ugly! Don't let this guy get to your head and fill it with what isn't true!



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Posted on Wed, Sep 28, 2005 09:32

No!!!! you are not ugly at all!!! you are beautiful,and have a lovely smile...but the guy who said that to you...is an ugly ugly person!!!



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Posted on Wed, Sep 28, 2005 02:52

It always surprises me how much peoples comments can affect us....i mean really...these are people who we'll probably never see again...and although their comments may sting for a bit...you know the person you are.



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Posted on Tue, Sep 27, 2005 21:15

i totally agree!! u are soo not ugly at all... that guy was a total jerk off!! don't even waste your time thinking about what he said... i've asked myself that same question... am i ugly??

  
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Posted on Tue, Sep 27, 2005 14:53

definitely not the "U" word n fact more like the "P" word (pretty), obvoiusly this was someone strugglng with the ugliness of his own personality



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Posted on Tue, Sep 27, 2005 09:12

OMG honey!!!!!....i can't believe someone said that to you...it's the meanest thing i've ever heard...OMG!

People like that should never reproduce...he should have his balls chopped off and thrown in the fire.

Honey you're so gorgeous!...don't waste time thinking about what he said to you...i feel like i wanna give you a big hug :)



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Posted on Mon, Sep 26, 2005 19:27

newgirl,

That guy was nuts - you are NOT ugly!

He was just a jerk, and he is an ugly person for trying to make you feel about yourself.

Only people that lack personality and/or self-esteem would say such a thing.

Stay strong and positive!
W.



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Posted on Sat, Sep 24, 2005 19:32

You are definitely not ugly, you don't have anything to worry about.

  


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Posted on Sat, Sep 24, 2005 16:50

what a POS. I hate people like that. they have their heads so far up their own colons they think that everything is about them.
Also, he was dead wrong. You wouldnt even come near the 'ugly' rating. I think youre cute, and you have a nice warm and friendly look about you. note, you smile at people regardless, and he treats random people with undeserved abuse- rest assured that youre obviously a much better and more worthwile human being than he is.



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Posted on Sat, Sep 24, 2005 01:29

Don't worry about what that guy said, he probably had his beer glasses on and didn't even realize! Lol

I bet he was actually trying to get some attention on himself since no one else will give him any.

No honey, you're not ugly soon you'll be telling the guys who are banging down your door to get a number and wait in line!

  


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Posted on Sat, Sep 24, 2005 00:44

newgirl, you are such a cutie. Dont let the ugliness of one mean guy crush your spirit. I sometimes find people project their own issues on others and you just have to walk away. Just know that you are a doll.



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Posted on Fri, Sep 23, 2005 23:11

You?? Ugly?? Not in the least!! He was only inflicting on you how he feels about himself.

Don't let idiots like him make you doubt your beauty or make you change your "pretty" demeanor. Keep on smiling at strangers when you feel like it and spread your joy onto others.



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