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Posted on Sun, Jul 06, 2008 11:18

Lets see, curvy, blond, no kids but wants kids, I agree on the 'good looking' line, it's you as a person, and you have a positive self concept, that is very sexy. I feel a woman can be any size, but style/personality can take anyone and make them unpleasant to converse with, or even look at (I, of course have found my niche, plump to large, smile, maybe red hair and freckles-for the externals). You don't smoke, drink, (I assume drug comes under 'don't' as well!), your pursuing an education, have interesting and individualistic beliefs, outgoing, care-taking, fun, Want to be a pilot! (again, interesting story there I'll bet!). Your young, single and child free, despite comments from one, you are hopeful-no-enthusiastic! Bottom Line you can guess, despite your
external beauty, inside you are a truly one to hang onto and would elicit without effort the "M" word from a man. I am not in the running (Jewish, 2X plus your age, in Oregon, 5'7", extra pounds, so I can tell you I am not flattering in hopes of you-know-what. I am a Licensed Professional Counselor and any guy worth your time would see all the positive = beauty. Even a stranger making a remark like that needs a prayer at least, he must have had people tell him he was an ugly person when he was too young to understand that people see ugliness in there surroundings out of ingrained humiliation. Enjoy your search, don't settle, you are an excellent 'catch'.
Hey, 'Sandy', as in Troutdale Airport, Oregon?
Andy

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Posted on Fri, Jun 27, 2008 19:48

Are you sure this isn't just a way to get attention to yourself on here? I mean you are obviously not ugly as everyone has told you but you must know that you are not ugly, so what's up?

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Posted on Tue, Apr 01, 2008 17:09

Sweetie, you're beautiful..Don't let no A--hole get you to second guess your beauty. Hey, were you holding up a mirror and maybe he saw his reflection? Anyway sweetheart, love yourself and don't take to heart the hurtful things people are capable of saying.



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Posted on Sat, Dec 10, 2005 08:50

WOW!
He got that from a smile huh?.... Reminds me of the song...."You're So Vain"....

Listen, he sounds like a very insecure person who was probably trying to make an impression to the crowd. Pay him no mind! Most important is how you view yourself.

You do NOT appear ugly and don't let someone like that wear you down.

  


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Posted on Fri, Dec 09, 2005 20:59

OH MY GOD I CAN'T BELIEVE WHAT I'M READING THAT INSENSITIVE NINCOMPOOP NO YOU ARE NOT UGLY

  


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Posted on Wed, Dec 07, 2005 23:19

hell no you are gorgous

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Posted on Wed, Nov 16, 2005 02:57

wow...ur soo pretty...dont let what he said bother you. He probably wasnt all that great anyways.



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Posted on Sun, Nov 06, 2005 04:43

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UGLY? You are such a pretty girl! Some people are just crazy.

That guy is an idiot! Why would anyone say that to a person??? Even if you were ugly, which is not the case AT ALL, what a rude and mean thing to say!

Be glad you just walked away and will never see that person again, he was a bad man, a "spirit of little light" (it's hard to translate that to english, this is a Brazilian thing).

Don't think about that for a second! You are a very pretty girl, great skin, great smile! :)


In my English..that would mean
"EMPTY SOUL"

  


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Posted on Thu, Nov 03, 2005 09:42

You are definitely NOT ugly...
It was once said "life can be painless if you are brainless" obviously you encountered someone who embraces that philosophy.
I came to the conclusion a long time ago that beauty is truly in the eye of the beholder and if you cannot look for the beauty we all posssess you are th loser as you have lost the chance to savor beauty wich is a rare commodity.
Don't let the morons in this world get you down



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Posted on Wed, Nov 02, 2005 06:19

bigbadjohn...welcome to the site. Hope you enjoy yourself here x



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Posted on Wed, Nov 02, 2005 04:55

UGLY,I think not.I wish you lived in Sydney Australia,I'd probably be a stalker LOL.(Yuor'e lovely).



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Posted on Tue, Nov 01, 2005 17:50

A guy once called me a fat b**ch....so I ran him over with my car....sorry, slimmed into that day dream again ;)!

You are adorable!

I know that I am not "perfect" enough for the rest of the world, but I love myself and know that there are other people out there who love me. That guy was just pure EVIL!

I feel sorry for the people who raised him...the shame they must feel everytime he opens his mouth.
A guy once called me a fat b**ch....so I ran him over with my car....sorry, slimmed into that day dream again ;)!

You are adorable!

I know that I am not "perfect" enough for the rest of the world, but I love myself and know that there are other people out there who love me. That guy was just pure EVIL!

I feel sorry for the people who raised him...the shame they must feel everytime he opens his mouth.



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Posted on Tue, Nov 01, 2005 03:20

I'm new to this site but i couldn't believe someone would say that about you,you're definetlty not ugly,so don't take it to heart,i'd be there in a flash if i could,you're cute and a very nice smile to boot,just remember you're beautiful all over like everyone on this site....even me...LOL...take care now
I'm new to this site but i couldn't believe someone would say that about you,you're definetlty not ugly,so don't take it to heart,i'd be there in a flash if i could,you're cute and a very nice smile to boot,just remember you're beautiful all over like everyone on this site....even me...LOL...take care now

  
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Posted on Sun, Oct 30, 2005 17:08

jackthelass write:
DrunkMonkey write
I gotta place for you to sit




Well, I hope it's comfy....I'm on my way!!
DrunkMonkey write
I gotta place for you to sit




Well, I hope it's comfy....I'm on my way!!


Oh I think you'll like it

  


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Posted on Fri, Oct 28, 2005 02:50

DrunkMonkey write
I gotta place for you to sit




Well, I hope it's comfy....I'm on my way!!DrunkMonkey write
I gotta place for you to sit




Well, I hope it's comfy....I'm on my way!!

  


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Posted on Mon, Oct 24, 2005 11:01

jackthelass write:
DrunkMonkey write:

jackthelass write:


If that doesn't work, I just sit on 'em
Ha ha xx





Urgh, the struggle to keep from saying what I'm wanting too!


Come on Monkey....don't be shy!!


I gotta place for you to sit

  


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Posted on Mon, Oct 24, 2005 02:08

Dont think I havent thought about it slide rail ... I need to visit canada some day ... went to the states and loved that... Canada I hear is beautiful ... and up north I think being bigger is more widely accepted, will look up "slide rail" in the phone book when I land ... lol
Dont think I havent thought about it slide rail ... I need to visit canada some day ... went to the states and loved that... Canada I hear is beautiful ... and up north I think being bigger is more widely accepted, will look up "slide rail" in the phone book when I land ... lol

  


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Posted on Sun, Oct 23, 2005 20:42

You should be very happy. Being as pretty as you are and having as many friends as you have here. He, on the other hand, will never be happy so he tries to make everyone else miserable. Don't worry about him. The only thing he is good for is stomping on.
You should be very happy. Being as pretty as you are and having as many friends as you have here. He, on the other hand, will never be happy so he tries to make everyone else miserable. Don't worry about him. The only thing he is good for is stomping on.



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Posted on Sun, Oct 23, 2005 09:36

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Anyway I think alot of us have had our fair share of taunts from those insignificant ones .. I have been called ugly a few times ... I have been accused of being a guy (not sure how) and my favourite a "fat tranny" that one cracks me up !!! but in the end, these people mean nothing in your life so keep your head held high and move on

Ok, the sun must be REALLY bright in Oz, 'cause there's 2 BEAUTIFUL ladies that have been insulted about their appearance.
I can see only one solution: MOVE TO CANADA!!!

  


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Posted on Sun, Oct 23, 2005 09:29

jackthelass write:
DrunkMonkey write:

jackthelass write:


If that doesn't work, I just sit on 'em
Ha ha xx





Urgh, the struggle to keep from saying what I'm wanting too!


Come on Monkey....don't be shy!!

Ok, I'll say it: Can I be next???!

  


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